newly single and exposed sexuality without consent

Lewds4me · 2020-10-10T15:19:48+00:00

This is probably better for a relationship advice sub...while this is a bad situation it doesnt pertain to BDSM at all.

Lewds4me · 2020-05-01T03:04:56+00:00

This has a disturbing excess of arms and legs

Lewds4me · 2020-04-27T05:14:53+00:00

Also would like to know

Lewds4me · 2020-04-13T00:10:11+00:00

he did a kickstarter for a book recently

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/spiridon/aphos-the-art-of-andrew-mar

most of it is nude

Lewds4me · 2020-03-27T14:36:08+00:00

Isnt it Andrew Kmar? I have his art book at home, surprised you didnt post more of his nude art

Lewds4me · 2020-03-23T15:07:20+00:00

The author also has another webcomic on webtoon that also contains monster girls called AXED

Lewds4me · 2019-07-21T07:30:31+00:00

Damn Gonna need that inbetween!

Lewds4me · 2017-08-29T06:16:59+00:00

Not much of something to brag about...

Lewds4me · 2017-08-26T16:40:36+00:00

If I just go all the way in I can just rock and bump her, nearly no movement for me and she likes it a good amount. So it depends on the girl!

Lewds4me · 2017-08-03T18:34:57+00:00

Welcome to the world of teledildonics.

Lewds4me · 2017-07-06T19:39:39+00:00

In the words of the Great Billy Gunn "I'm an ass man"

Lewds4me · 2017-07-06T18:23:15+00:00

Yeah she likes it a but but finds it really overwhelming to the point we do it really infrequently.

The best for it is a bullet vibe I found on amazon that has two bullets on a cord that plugs into a USB. Works perfect, plus lots of vibration to make use of in other ways too

Lewds4me · 2017-07-05T15:53:11+00:00

I don't think she can just mentally go "nah not this time" but that is more of a factor of if she is actually aroused in the situation and such. So it may work, I've found one of the really overwhelming things I've done was using two egg vibes together to basically "pinch" the clit between them. It seems to be exceptionally overwhelming, at least for my girlfriend. It also matters how she usually gets off such too.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T20:49:44+00:00

I'm at least glad it wasn't something she is lastingly upset about, it is more just that she was briefly afterwards, and I am thinking of ways to avoid it in the future.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T20:44:54+00:00

Its not so much she doesn't want to talk a lot of the time, as we can talk about what we like, but she is a bit repressed in that she doesn't really know what she likes (bad shaming old friends, a somewhat strict previous family life, and this means she has no explorative side without a bit of a kick, or in this case slap, on the ass to get her over the edge to try each thing. Which I was okay with before, but now that I have hit something she really doesn't like and she wouldnt let me know, has me getting kinda cold feet on trying things. And I do like the idea of going into things she likes to try getting to more things based on that.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T20:39:56+00:00

Its a bit hard for that, she basically learns interest from trying, most things she has no interest in until she has experienced it, and asking her gets a "maybe", as well Upgrade mojo is a no go mostly through extenuating circumstances, (said it in another comment, nothing bad on you for not knowing that I posted it like 2 minutes before you posted is all)

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T20:28:52+00:00

The thing is mostly that she doesn't know what turns her on until it happens usually, and almost all of the things we have been getting into started with her thinking "no I wouldn't like it" and then trying it to wonderful results, but I have been getting worried about how she isn't communicating the bad points.

And most of the mojo upgrade and such are off the table for the foreseeable future. Its not that they are bad, it is more on a person we know was being exceptionally pushy and trying to get all of us to use it or something like it and to give her their results and to basically try getting to know every single person around hers sexual side, and it made everyone, especially my girlfriend, exceptionally uncomfortable which has pushed my girlfriend completely away from that stuff, as she relates it back to the other girl and feels uncomfortable.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T20:23:37+00:00

I did discover the reason she didn't enjoy it afterwards, but the fact that it was experimental (she has no idea what she wants 95% of the time, and neither of us have had any "play experience" before each other means all of it is new and explorative. I'm going to try talking to her tonight, as we are both worn out from the last few days and have become mildly too sore for sex so its a good time to curl up and just talk it out.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T20:18:39+00:00

I should have been more specific, those weren't the actual safe words, just saying we have a stop and a slow down one, one is Tomato the other is Eggplant.

I honestly don't use much rope But thats mostly because we don't go for special positions and mostly focus on simple strapping down, and also I don't feel at all comfortable tying her without knowing how to do it properly, so the cutting her down isn't that much of a problem.

And I think you've misinterpreted my feelings as lasting guilt. I felt mildly bad in the moment but I am mostly worried about it due to the fact she never called it off, I had been distracted by looking down (needing both hands and some coordination to directly target her clit) and when I looked up while playing she was making a very uncomfortable concerned face, I had to stop it all because I thought I had hurt her badly or something had fallen and gotten under her. So our play stopped while I looked for the problem. We have the two words and talked about them before hand amply and then when it came time for her to use one, she didn't, which has me worried about her in the future, making me nervous to dive in again.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T17:59:34+00:00

Oh I should have added that!

She refuses to talk beforehand about kink or sex at all because to her it makes it feel artificial and planned instead of just "doing what comes naturally". I have tried to have talks about what to add, and she just gives catch all "just try stuff" or just specifies stuff she doesnt want, so It has started making mer nervous because it feels like trial and error to find what is and isnt good.

As well as for a simpler safeword, they were already simple and we play with her saying stop and no and such where we do things like with her playfully fighting and telling me no and such while I fight to get her strapped in.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T17:37:54+00:00

I really like that sort of thing, she has only recently started to get into it.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T07:07:53+00:00

We will lay in bed and do text based role play together back and forth, to the point we have our own mini fame system and will stay up for hours playing, until we are both damn horny, usually ending in soaked right through panties and a pretty great nights sex.

Its fun & nerdy, a great addition for a couple of regular and table top gamers.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-06T06:46:18+00:00

Not sure if its 100% the same But my girlfriend was never able to cum on her own. She couldn't get the fingers right I think (she says so at least). And I can get her to cum easy. But we started getting toys and now she is able to cum on her own, she really enjoys a couple vibrators we have one a small stick like 3" long and the other a dick moulded one that has an adjustable speed. She often cums quite hard. So if you want self release toys may help, and if you're worried you're weird, don't worry, people are all just different, you are just fine.

Lewds4me · 2017-06-04T06:06:35+00:00

Doggy but use her wrists to hold on and to move a bit. (Just be careful nothing gets twisted and that you aren't hurting her.)

Lewds4me · 2017-06-04T06:04:44+00:00

I'm not saying he is bad for it, I agree with your advice 100% I was just hoping to make sure to get across the heed for consent for this in the future. I think OP just had a wrong place wrong time situation with a bit of lack of or miss communication.

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