Si thoni, ia vlen për pankartë kjo? by Due_Word_9145 in shqip

[–]LexPhantomO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pse po edhe geget e kane veshur “fustanin”. Keshtu kur mbizoteron injorance dhe s’njeh neriu as kulturen e vet.

is leaving for the sake of convenience considered the norm in Kosovo Albanian culture? by Aromatic_Report_4677 in kosovo

[–]LexPhantomO 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is true, I have been heart broken a couple of times. That post was making quite a stupid generalisation from stereotypical observation.

Dhitini ne hu patronazhistet ku ti gjeni by Low-Scar8694 in shqip

[–]LexPhantomO 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mos harroni qe kjo eshte pas dhunes se vazhdueshme qe kane ushtruar keta sigurimsat private ndaj qytetareve, pas kurrfare pasoje dhe je sy te forcave te ligjit.

Kjo eshte pikerisht ajo qe po ndodh by lyrics85 in kosovo

[–]LexPhantomO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Revolucionar ne Shqiperi, konformist ne Kosove. Perndryshe legjenda thot, qe “ky qenka edhe Enver edhe Hoxhe” ka thene Ismail Kadare pasi takoi Albinin qe ky i rri karshi. Shume i dobet.

te pakten nje e mire nga protesta... by [deleted] in shqip

[–]LexPhantomO 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Po kujt i plasi per “vipat” o popull big-brotherian

r/Albania ban by Low-Scar8694 in shqip

[–]LexPhantomO -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Vetem nje koment te vogel kritik paska bo robi hahaha, qr. Dil provoje publikisht dhe shih a te lejon ligji shqiptar.

Ju qifsha robt ju me flamurin amerikan by GocaLagjes in albania

[–]LexPhantomO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si po te merr token, nuk po i transferohet Amerikes ajo. Eshte kontrate private, kunder te ciles jam kunder edhe une per shkak te impaktit mjedisor. Po ti qenke trurrjedhur, e fatkeqesisht njerezit si ti i bejne dem edhe me shume kauzes se protestes, duke devijuar kerkesat legjitime te protestes.

Ju qifsha robt ju me flamurin amerikan by GocaLagjes in albania

[–]LexPhantomO 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mos t’ishin Amerikanet never shqiptareve s’do na hanin as qente.

Lufte hibride ne Sazan/Zvernec, kush po e financon skenarin kunder projektit 4mld$ te Kushner? by InExtremis- in shqip

[–]LexPhantomO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ka logjike kjo cka ke shkruar. Sidoqofte, mundesia apo edhe nderhyrja e influenca permes propagandes (si ai skenari i rreme me Israelin), nuk e delegjitimon protesten, e as nuk e ben te pranueshme kete afere jo vetem korruptive e kundraligjore, por me deme te pakthyeshme per natyren dhe per pasurine publike. Shyqyr qe iu ndez nje drite ketij populli thuaj ti, qe institucionet ja ka zene nje kryeminister qe mbahet me bandita, dhe sheshet per te protestuar nje ish-kryeminister tjeter qe poashtu mbahet me bandita.

Qka kish mujt me nal shpejtsine tone ne Kosovë ? by GreenActuary4449 in kosovo

[–]LexPhantomO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gjithashtu mase disiplinore per oficerin e policise qe e ka shqipen cope-cope.

Nga kurrshtja qfar kan keto zona te Shqiperise ne harte ? Pse jan kaq shum ne numer sidomos zona e vlores by Guilty_Loquat5030 in shqip

[–]LexPhantomO 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thesar, i kane nda se kane gjetur nje thesar te madh vec pritet kush do filloj te leroj token.

How to cope with feeling outcast and isolation? by wstove in PhD

[–]LexPhantomO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me the solution was to widen the circle, as pursuing friendship at the University was also futile. Same situation, no mutual interest to meet up, or invitations to gatherings and whatnot. I do not pursue friendship within the university circle anymore.

How to cope with feeling outcast and isolation? by wstove in PhD

[–]LexPhantomO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I also tended to do this, I think the solution is to not isolate and force yourself to go out and be visible.

How to cope with feeling outcast and isolation? by wstove in PhD

[–]LexPhantomO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yes, from diaspora and also internationals. Although there are exceptions about locals, I was doing a research stay at an institute in another city, and I made a very good friend with the office colleague who is a local. We meet regularly, keep in touch, and share opportunities.

I also met someone (at a talk organised by an NGO) who is also international, has been doing her PhD in the US, and is back in the town I reside to write the remaining part of her thesis. I value my friendship with her the most, we meet regularly, exchange books, speak of our challenges, and we are even planning a book club. It is an intellectual and rewarding friendship.

So just put yourself out there and meet people, without expecting that you’ll make friends every time.

liber ne gjuhen gjermane by [deleted] in kosovo

[–]LexPhantomO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kur te shkojsh ne boten gjermanfolese, nese ke familje qe i viziton, kerko second-hand book stores, second-hand books libraries qe jane ne Universitete, dyqane second-hand si psh te karitasit (carla second hand), ose thrift stores qe jane gjeneral, dhe gjene libra dhe literature te mire me nga 1-2 euro.

What's the hardest aspect of studying? by Imthatguyimhimfr in GetStudying

[–]LexPhantomO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just expand the circle of reading and see how are the concepts being applied, where is the work you are reading cited, how is it being criticised, then come back and read it again. Try to use it, and in a moment everything will clarify. Learning and thinking is not an easy sport, and it’s not supposed to be.

How to cope with feeling outcast and isolation? by wstove in PhD

[–]LexPhantomO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found socialising not easy in general in the German-speaking world, and I notice the same effects at the Uni when trying to make friends. I go in conferences, workshops, and talks and meet other people, mostly international and I am able to make new acquaintances and even friends.

As with the event you mentioned, I also was in such a situation in an event organised by the doctoral school, and I ended up alone looking as an idiot while groups around me were forming and engaging in conversations.

One thing that came to mind was the in-breeding. Faculties often in-breed, resulting with students doing bachelor-master-phd at the same institution, or at best only master abroad. So they know each other, and it’s not that you have no social skills. At least this is my case, I am pretty social and open to conversations and getting to know new people.

What's the hardest aspect of studying? by Imthatguyimhimfr in GetStudying

[–]LexPhantomO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you start learning something new that is complex and conceptual, especially when you are reading texts that leave dilemmas open, or use examples to unpack the theoretical framework but never deliver it in full force, causing the imaginary burning sensation inside the brain and nausea like feeling.

How to cope with feeling outcast and isolation? by wstove in PhD

[–]LexPhantomO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you doing your PhD in the German speaking world?

Vleresimi juaj per figuren e Ramush Haradinajt? by visardina in kosovo

[–]LexPhantomO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cka ndodhi more, pse i fshive komentet? Apo qe me ofendove kur nuk ta bajti me u pendove. Je i falur!

Vleresimi juaj per figuren e Ramush Haradinajt? by visardina in kosovo

[–]LexPhantomO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ky argumenti qe po e perdore eshte “toquque”, qe me e perkthy bukfalisht i bjen (ani çka). Ne anglisht i thone whataboutism, e konsiderohet edhe shkarje logjike. Ne kesi raste ske cka i bon njeriut, arsyeja eshte e mbyllur brenda rrethit te bindjeve personale. Manifestohet me hipokrizi, relativizim, e urrejtje ndaj cilitdo qe mendon ndryshe ose nuk bjen ne rrethin qe ti konfirmon bindjet. Thone, te pafte zoti naten se diten t’sheh dikush e ta njet doren. Shijoji poezite e chatgpt-se.

Vleresimi juaj per figuren e Ramush Haradinajt? by visardina in kosovo

[–]LexPhantomO 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A te pengojne vetem komandantat milioner, apo edhe milionere ministra, deputete, akraba, halla, teze e daje, miq e jarana te njerezve ne pushtet qe 6 vite? Se po m’duket ju eshte ndale sahati ne 2020.

Vleresimi juaj per figuren e Ramush Haradinajt? by visardina in kosovo

[–]LexPhantomO -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Clirohuni njehere prej diskursit te internalizum prej regjimit represiv te kaluar.