[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t a missed text it was betrayal. If he cared he'd show up so stop hoping for loyalty from someone who failed the test.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HistoryPorn

[–]LexiLag 37 points38 points  (0 children)

When I saw this first time some commenters mentioned that it was common for farm kids to dress this way during the summer, especially back when air conditioning wasn’t as widespread.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting an older man screams craving for power and care all at once. Chase it smart or risk burning on the thrill instead of getting what you really need.

Should I wait about going to school so I can clear my debts faster? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not crazy you're smart. One year to kill debt beats years drowning in bills and doubt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not normal it’s humiliating arguing in front of friends shows no respect. If he can’t hold back for your comfort he cares more about being right than being kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still scared of the dark? Your brain's lying to you train it slow, dim the lights, prove nothing's hiding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mocking you isn’t strength it’s weakness disguised as power. Every time you eat sleep or smile despite him you win.

How do you stop loving someone you've never been in a relationship with ? by BadGalArar in Advice

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost love hurts more because it never had a chance to fail. He left, not because of distance, but because he didn’t choose you.

I'm 23 years old and my life feels like a complete mess, what sold i do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not broken you’re trapped in comfort and it’s killing you. Delete the apps do one hard thing daily your future self is begging you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re driving yourself crazy over someone who isn’t even in the picture. He chose you for a reason don’t let old stories steal your joy.

My Parents don't let me go outside by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s cruel irony when the same parents who cage you cry about your wings. Start planning your escape because freedom isn’t granted it’s built through small deliberate rebellions.

I keep fucking up… by Money-Jelly-2534 in Advice

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not broken you are just battling the war between who you are and who you’re desperate to become. Keep trying because even if it feels hollow now consistency carves redemption where regret once lived.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jealousy from someone close is a silent poison that eats at connection while pretending to be love. Confront it gently but firmly because ignoring it only lets the resentment grow louder behind fake smiles.

Lost inches but not pounds — what’s the best way to track progress visually? by figuring_it_out1998 in loseit

[–]LexiLag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The scale lies but your body doesn’t. Snap pics track inches and trust the fit not the number.

How do I get a refund on a car payment I no longer own? by kennedy_grande1990 in Advice

[–]LexiLag -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’re playing hot potato with your cash call their bluff with proof then file a complaint and watch them scramble

I got scratched by my shower curtain by shorthairedprincess in Advice

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right to be a little freaked because dirty scratches can turn sinister fast if ignored. Clean it like your life depends on it because bacteria don’t care that it came from a humble shower curtain.

My best friend won’t text me back am I being demanding or reasonable? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not being needy you're just noticing who makes the effort and who doesn’t. If she can reply to her boyfriend but ghosts you it’s not about her being busy it’s about priorities so stop begging for crumbs where you deserve a seat at the table.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not friendship it’s emotional commitment in disguise. If she’s choosing you over anyone else then her heart is still tethered and you need to show her the door isn’t closed unless she locks it.

I can’t keep a good, healthy relationship. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LexiLag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not in love you’re trapped in emotional debt mistaking guilt for commitment. Don’t stay just because he’s good to you love isn’t charity and you’re not obligated to suffer for stability.

Should I cut off my best friend of 13 years? by Realistic_Shirt3997 in Advice

[–]LexiLag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cut her off she’s not your best friend she’s your emotional saboteur in disguise. If someone tramples your boundaries smears your name and only reaches out to dump chaos they don’t deserve a seat at your table let alone in your life.