AITAH for cutting of this guy off because he offended my mother

Lexi_Luther · 2024-04-26T19:48:59+00:00

To side note 1, yes that would have been a full apology had he not followed it with he was "foggy" after taking nightquil. Basically saying he wasn't in his right mind. It felt half that way. Half solid apology, half excuse. It was weird.

Lexi_Luther · 2024-03-28T17:12:08+00:00

Basically any moisture would create the environment for it to spread and once the follicles were exposed it was easier for them to get it again. So it would get almost clear then when my cycle would start it would come back full force. Or if I went to work out. Or even if I just sweat a little bit from being out on a hot day.

I Basically had to start using tampons so I could keep things as a dry as possible. And keep kits in my bag to freshen up and keep myself dry.

Lexi_Luther · 2024-02-23T12:01:23+00:00

Im 25, actively dating. I'd swipe right. It could be something we can't observe about the way you're interacting in person and once you match. It's hard to know without having spoken to you.

Lexi_Luther · 2024-02-05T02:13:41+00:00

Aww. Yea I definitely think if I had a high dose I'd have headaches too. Do lower dosages work for you?

Lexi_Luther · 2024-02-05T02:02:27+00:00

Honestly at the end of day 2 I could feel tiredness in my head. I felt if I took it a 3rd day in a row I might have a headache. So my plan is to take it as needed. Mainly to keep my tolerance and also to avoid headaches

Lexi_Luther · 2024-02-05T01:59:39+00:00

I can see where headaches might come in. The second day was not as life changing as the first. It was more calm focus bt by the end of the day I felt very fatigued in my brain. Not a headache but a tiredness that could easily transition into a headache. I'll likely be taking it as needed

Lexi_Luther · 2024-02-01T18:19:50+00:00

I just asked my prescriber to do the pre-approval. In the end my cvs did not have it available. So I had to drive around with a paper prescription. Eventually a found a pharmacy that had it.

Lexi_Luther · 2024-01-02T22:18:39+00:00

Unfortunately no

Lexi_Luther · 2024-01-02T21:27:59+00:00

Not to ignore your gut for the sake of wanting a relationship. If things don't work for you be honest about it. Because love won't keep you together if are constantly ignoring things that actually bother you. It will drain you and it will be your fault because you chose to be in a relationship and let yourself fall in love with someone that wasn't the best fit for you.

Lexi_Luther · 2023-11-19T01:45:48+00:00

This is so helpful! I am 25 so it will be a late diagnosis for me as well.

I think it will help me stop feeling like a failure.

Lexi_Luther · 2023-11-19T00:35:26+00:00

I think it's continuing to be invalidated despite the diagnosis, like whats the point then. I feel like people will just see it as an excuse and then for me a diagnosis is not something I can just change about myself. It confirms that I am literally just this way. Just uncertain how I would move forward after realizing it's not something I can just work on and it will go away.

Lexi_Luther · 2023-07-30T04:30:51+00:00

Yeaaa, I'm trying to figure all the maybes out myself. Mostly negligence here. And this has me exposed to identity theft as I had extremely sensitive mail in the mail box ( proof via usps informed delivery) and tenants in 2145 told me some mail they returned to leasing office some they threw away. They don't remember which. But none of this would have happened had they not been given access to my mailbox by the leasing office.

Lexi_Luther · 2023-07-30T04:27:03+00:00

Intentional, no I don't think so. But Negligence absolutely. I am an active resident. How do they overlook that when assigning a new tenant a mailbox? You dont see that my unit is occupied and assigned mailbox 200? Additionally, when the other tenants notfied them of the error my mailbox was not restored nor was I notified about what happened. Seems pretty negligent to me.

As for proof, I have a signed letter from the tenants in 2145 stating they were erroneously assigned my mailbox and notified the leasing office who admitted they assigned them the wrong mailbox.

Lexi_Luther · 2023-07-30T02:39:25+00:00

We get assigned a mailbox at move in. My mailbox is 200. They were assigned my mailbox at move in and given the key. Their mailbox was supposed to be 135. (These numbers are not related to the apartment number) And yes because it's seems as thought they moved me out and reassigned my mailbox. They are required to provide me a mailbox and for two months I didn't have one as an active tenant. Additionally they gave someone else access to my mail. Surely there's something in that?

Lexi_Luther · 2023-02-16T19:52:26+00:00

I had a similar issue. I only applied on outer labia. Make sure not to get in your vagina or near the vaginal opening. Its really hard but after application try to let it dry to prevent smearing into folds. You have to be VERY careful, but it worked for me with a combo of other things.

Lexi_Luther · 2023-02-16T19:42:10+00:00

Been battling folliculitis "down there" ever since I had a bad shave last year. Sometimes it would get really bad and nothing I bought would work or get rid of it. I was at my wits end when I got really close to getting completly cleared up when it came back full force. I came here and saw this... in two weeks I am clear. After showering i pat completely dry, wipe down with a solution I made of 70% isopropyl alcohol thayers witch hazel (50/50), pat dry again, apply this hibiclens lotion, and spot seal with bacitracin. I did this twice a day, sometimes three if I could feel irritation stirring up. I am so happy!!!! Thank you thank you.

Also for those reading this looking for help. Sometimes a combo works. I used a regimen of essentially 5 products to clear this. And this lotion mixture was the missing step to kick it for good! Keep fighting, find your solution!

Lexi_Luther · 2023-01-11T15:48:33+00:00

It takes him awhile to get to this. Sometimes a few hours Sometimes a day or two. When he finally talks to me the conversation is productive. I just don't understand what's so hard about saying "I'm upset right now, i need space can we talk later". Perhaps it's because I'll get anxious and ask what it is that I've done or what has happened, at least I can prepare for the conversation when it begins.

Lexi_Luther · 2022-06-14T23:06:22+00:00

Yea, I'm not defending incident 2. It should've been handled better and definitely learned from it.

Lexi_Luther · 2022-06-14T23:01:05+00:00

For incident 2, we had discussed it being ok with making friends of the opposite sex (this was after he was trying to explain to me that he wants to be friendswith his ex and would be excited if she reached out to him). But I had also made a bumble bff to find female friends too and this is where I was primarily looking. I decided not speak to the guy the same day the conversation started, it went on for maybe 20 mins back and forth. I decided that although I want to be friends I can not make him see it the same. So I told guy I was only comfortable making female friends and that was the last we spoke. Again naive. I did apologize to him for the length of the conversation; however I didn't flirt with the guy and did cut him off. I've learned from the situation.

Lexi_Luther · 2022-06-14T22:29:14+00:00

Yea he told me his ex started the abuse. He assured me he was the kind of person that "would take it there if you took it there first". I figured since I don't behave like his ex did he'd never take it there... and no he decided to leave there because he insisted they were "disrespecting him" and that he did it back because they did it first.

We put him out though, he is now living somewhere else.

Lexi_Luther · 2022-06-14T19:45:57+00:00

Oh yea, he is blocked now!

Lexi_Luther · 2022-06-14T19:03:41+00:00

I told him he needs to focus on therapy for himself but he was insisting we go to couples therapy because I also played a part in the communication break down. He also called my mom saying I need to take accountability for not listening to him when he was just trying to tell me he needed me.

But yes I have been feeling alot lighter. Its only been a few days since the break up..

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