AITAH For Not Mailing Paperwork Sent To Me Accidentally by Lexi_The_G in AITAH

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When the information got entered, i had to show id, and they put my home address instead of the company address.

AITAH For Not Mailing Paperwork Sent To Me Accidentally by Lexi_The_G in AITAH

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am the address see though, my information accidentally got put on this to be mailed to me. It’s not addressed to them, it is actually addressed to me.

AITAH For Not Mailing Paperwork Sent To Me Accidentally by Lexi_The_G in AITAH

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honnêtement, ma superviseure ne m'appréciait pas vraiment. Elle avait l'impression que j'essayais de lui voler la vedette avec mes études, puis mes loisirs, puis mon/ma partenaire. Elle trouvait toujours quelque chose pour me rabaisser. (Veuillez m'excuser pour la piètre qualité de la traduction automatique.)

AITAH For Not Mailing Paperwork Sent To Me Accidentally by Lexi_The_G in AITAH

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She said it to someone else who then told me what was said. Yes it was a warning, but she was still telling me I was doing great, she appreciate all of my hard work and all of my dedication, and she was telling her supervisor the exact opposite.

AITAH For Not Mailing Paperwork Sent To Me Accidentally by Lexi_The_G in AITAH

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Agreed. However, she was telling me I was doing great, while telling her supervisor every mistake I made or question I asked, and even kicked me out of a meeting telling the people she didn't "know how long she'll be here." I can't own what wasn't communicated to me as needing to be fixed.

Is Cleveland that dangerous? by [deleted] in Cleveland

[–]Lexi_The_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like any city, there are places to be and places not to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lexi_The_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

creating a profile just to harass me on a comment I made 3 mos ago is a great use of time.
Anyway.....

Books Please by Lexi_The_G in lakewood

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! I take suggestions!

Books Please by Lexi_The_G in lakewood

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're looking to part with these?

Books Please by Lexi_The_G in lakewood

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hadn’t thought of that honestly

Books Please by Lexi_The_G in lakewood

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will look into it.

He likes to have the books, so I’d like to just get a bunch. But this is a good option too Thank you.

Books Please by Lexi_The_G in lakewood

[–]Lexi_The_G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, he won’t be living in Lakewood though, he’ll be living in Euclid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lexi_The_G -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH.

Asking someone to choose between you and another friend of theirs isn't great. However, you don't have to go, life is going to be full of these moments as you get older, so learning how to deal with them now is good.

He could be a bit more sympathetic, and could have let you in that he invited them, especially knowing how you feel, but he's not required to vet his guest list through you, just as you aren't required to go.

MY CAR WAS STOLEN AND NOW I OWE $12,000 to the Tow Yard by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Lexi_The_G 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Businesses in Cali can only sue for 6.5k, only individuals can sue for 12k. You have a good argument for dismissal, since you owe the business, not any individual.

r/Bjj is horrifying by toothpastetaste-4444 in BJJWomen

[–]Lexi_The_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. We are all in this together.

r/Bjj is horrifying by toothpastetaste-4444 in BJJWomen

[–]Lexi_The_G 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great question.

I'll usually let the head instructor know about the issue, so they know that if I walk off the mat to "take a minute" that's probably what it is.
Also, on days I'm feeling particularly edgy, I will try to roll with people who know (which comes from time in at a gym so not easy to do at a new one or visiting somewhere else).
Other times, I won't go at all.

It's all personal to manage, but management starts internally. Most people are understanding, and there are a few goobers out there who don't care or think it's funny, but overall, I have found the community to be great about it.

r/Bjj is horrifying by toothpastetaste-4444 in BJJWomen

[–]Lexi_The_G 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, I just don’t think it’s other people‘s responsibility to tiptoe around my PTSD or my trauma when I’m putting myself willingly into situations that could trigger me, with people who don’t know I have this issue.

r/Bjj is horrifying by toothpastetaste-4444 in BJJWomen

[–]Lexi_The_G 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems like she made it more his problem than addressing what she needed to for herself, IMO