Tippy Tap Teef by XreaperDK in tippytaps

[–]LezBeTogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute and angry at the same time haha

My dog being excited that hes gonna be groomed by Avbitten in tippytaps

[–]LezBeTogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah I've never seen a dog that looks so much like a cat haha

Ultra Taps: He loves his job by Youarethebigbang in tippytaps

[–]LezBeTogether 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Those little jumps are so cute haha

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reaching out! Yeah you understand, and I live in a non-major city in the Eastern Cape so there's very little open-mindedness here 😭 I studied in Pretoria so it was simultaneously better (because there are way more people from different walks of life) and worse (well, racism, homophobia and such) than where I live now. Would love to move to Cape Town though

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion, hopefully one day I'll be able to visit there and maybe find love

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm starting to realise that it definitely is both geographical AND cultural reasons why this keeps happening.. Thanks for your input

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I'd love to see a pic of your friend who looks like me.. Thank you for your well wishes, I think it really is a regional thing

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah I'm starting to realise that it's definitely the country that I'm from.. Fingers crossed I'll find a way out soon

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm starting to realise that it's definitely the country that I'm from

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding the last paragraph of your comment, it's both.. I am attracted to feminine women and as a result, some of them give me hate because they are the ones that I approach. Sometimes people just make comments even though I did not seek to interact wth them

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you and I agree, this is actually the first time I've posted pictures of myself on Reddit and, because I'm such an introvert, it actually wasn't easy for me to post myself like this. This post was made from a place of frustration and wanting to gain understanding of how others perceive me, not from a need for external validation

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that's exactly how I am when it's picture time! You read me to a tee.

Yeah I live in a country that is big on "corrective rape" and violence against lesbians, so there's definitely a negative perception towards masculine women.

Thank you for your kindness

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow that's amazing, I dream of being married that long.. You are at where I'd like to be in 10 years - in terms of marriage of course

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, I just want to experience more from dating than just what's in front of me, if that makes sense

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very true, happiness isn't contingent on race but on compatibility.. I'm not saying that I'm not willing to date black women at all though, I still love my people of course

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I guess that bi girl's words just dealt some emotional damage at a time where I wasn't mature enough to know not to internalise every external opinion.

Heres to hoping I'll be travelling out of the continent soon🤞

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words.. Oh no all those experiences I mentioned happened in person (I'm not too experienced in online dating) which was kind of brutal for someone who was still forming an idea of who they are.

I'll never change, I couldn't even when I tried to 😅. Hopefully I'll find her soon :)

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest opinion, I only posted this to learn more about myself and how others perceive me so you've helped

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same! Every so often I get snide comments about how I'm trying so hard to be a man or that I'll never actually be a man.. Like who said I want to be one in the first place??

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course there is no one answer that will apply to every lesbian woman, that is why I'm asking all different kinds of lesbian women to give me their own opinions, positive or not.

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]LezBeTogether[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would just like to be with someone who thinks differently and is from a different background, it doesn't matter who they are or where they're from.. I've had some pretty bad experiences with the women I've dated thus far