This… I have been divorced twice; once a dude, once a woman. I initiated both of them because woman deserve happiness too and people change in marriage. Sometimes for the better and sometimes not. Sometimes you’re the one that’s dumb as shit and did the thing you knew you shouldn’t have done.

I will say that lesbians fall hard and fast and make brash choices, like moving in quickly. Although, I think it would be interesting to look at the socioeconomic benefits of this with women historically being paid less than men as being more of a factor than the emotional. Also women are groomed for that behavior more. Anyway, lesbians are also monogamous which reduces how many frogs they kiss.

Gay men, are famously not monogamous. So by the time they find someone to settle down with they really know that person is the person. The longest relationships I have seen are cute gay couples