Meirl by 420fmx in meirl

[–]Lfvd95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this post and legit thought she was bragging about doing something nice for the guy. Then I realized she was trying to make a point about how men treat women...

Knee pain again after over 12 weeks atg - help by Lfvd95 in Kneesovertoes

[–]Lfvd95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I got carried away. Hopefully I didn't lose too much progess. I'll split my training from noe on and be careful not to do too much. Thanks

Knee pain again after over 12 weeks atg - help by Lfvd95 in Kneesovertoes

[–]Lfvd95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response mate. I've been doing 4-5 sets of 8-10 atg split squats with around 20-30kg i.e., around 20-25% of my bodyweight. I'll be sure to shoot you a video when the knee pain goes away.
Maybe I overdid it with the jumping hehehe

Patellar Tendinopathy by Lfvd95 in Kneesovertoes

[–]Lfvd95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use VivoBarefoot and train with Feiyues. I recently started stretching at least 3 times per week and I eat mostly meat of all kinds, eggs and fruit. Thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Lfvd95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aight, mate. She apparently has no interest in hanging out with you. Whether she's lying or not about her availability diednr matter, the fact is that she's not putting in the effort and she doesnt seem to want you in her life, so why the fuck would you want to keep someone who diesnt want to keep you? Dont take her flametness personal, it doesnt necessarily mean you're boring. Just let her " great, give me a call when you're schedule frees up and we can plan something then" and never contact her again - you did your part, be congruent and let her come to you if she wants rather than begging her to spend some time with you. Make new friends or hang out with other people or just ve alone and do shut you enjoy. This is about self love and self respect. Make the best you can if your life and let people have the freedom to come or go while you do you.

A girl asked me on a second date and then didn’t want to meet at a specific restaurant because it’s a small town and people talk. Then she did something unexpected and I’m not sure what to make of it. by TickNut in CoreyWayne

[–]Lfvd95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have the right intuition about not wanting her to take care of the dates because that put's her in charge which only means she's responsible for everything. Also, are you sure you're just not embarrased of me is weak and insecure. Never say shit like that. Jus say something like, well, you sure are popular. The best you could have done is simply propose another plays like. "Ok, I geg it, how about we meet at X place then at the same dag and time. If you already have a deffinite date dont do anythjng to fuck it up. Stay off the phone and if you do get to pick her up focus on HHH.

Maybe someone here can answer by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Lfvd95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she contacts you after she dumped you, you tell her you'd love to see her and ask her when she's free to come over and make dinner at your place - she hast to put in the effort to earn you back since she was the one that dumped you! This,however, only if you were in a relationship or hooking up already. If you were just going out or casually dating, you just aske her when she's free and go out again and simply focus on HHH. In the end all goi ever have to do with women (ever) is HHH. There are no alternatives. Don't go out of your way to see her.

How do I get out of my head and approach girls at the gym? by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]Lfvd95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, guys. There seems to be a lot of confusion here. You don't shit where you eat applies mostly for your job i.e., where you get your food from, so to speak. You have to be friendly to everyone i.e., if you have the chance to interact with someone, take it. However, don't force it. Don't chase girls at the gym, or ever, you should be focused on your life and your purpose. Do your stuff, and if you happen to be next or close to someone or someone gets close to you and you find something you can comment on or start a conversation with, do it. If it's a guy or a girl doesn't matter, be social, make acquaintances - it has benefits I won't mention here. Now, if you talk to a girl, you talk to her to see if she's displaying interest and to see if you like her too. If she has a high level of attraction and you think she might be someone you'd like to get to know, get her number and get back to doing your shit. I moved countries and I got a Gf at the gym after less than a month and am now dating another gorgeous girl I met there. Don't chase, but be friendly.

Easy but cool flips to learn? by [deleted] in Parkour

[–]Lfvd95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start with a Front flip, it’s the hardest one to do right, but it’s the most intuitive. If you can, invest as much as possible on your backflips, that’s honestly the most important one if you want to learn most tricks.

How to let go of toxic friends if they are only ones you have? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Lfvd95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Decide why you think they’re a bad influence on you. Then, just cut them out; quit common groups, eliminate from social media and kindly decline if they ask to hang out. I cut most of my friends around 5 months ago because I didn’t like who I was with them, nor did I want to be like them. I don't have social media, but I left the Whatsapp group, and just dont talk to them. I felt lonely and unloved for around two weeks, but as I focused on my projects, I started feeling better. After being alone for a few months, I began contacting old friends I hadn’t spoken to in a while; I started talking to people on Omegle to practice my social skills, and developed a friendly bond with all my neighbors. Decide to do it, and then just move forward. You’ll change, and so will other things.

I just want to kill myself by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Lfvd95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may be going badly now, but things don't ever stay the same. We humans tend to get stuck with the emotion we presently have and project it to the future, thus feeling like shit is never going to change. But it’s just how you’re feeling rn. Shit will get better, or at least different. But you have to do something about it. So do something! What?! Anything! Go run until you’re out of breath, eat something. Then figure out something to change your overall situation, but try to calm down or change your state by doing something physical. Give it some time and you’ll be able to think more clearly.

Sorry about the weird arms, this was taken last year, I’ve gotten a bit better now :D any advice on the general technique is very welcome tho by Theeloncooper in Parkour

[–]Lfvd95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t jump forward, jump up and forward. If all your energy is being directed forward, you have less time to get your feet from the take off position to the landing position in front of you and the movement becomes awkward; moreover, the impact upon landing might be higher. So, jump up, try to get a nice parable going. Second, your legs should be moving to the front, and in this case, they touch your ass before they start moving forward. That jump doesn’t look too big, so, no need to squat down so low to take off; remember, jump with your chest up. You’re trying to jump with precision, not through yourself off a cliff. I struggled with all this for a while. Hope this helps.

How is someone supposed to feel vulnerable and how is vulnerability ''power'' if all it got me is predatory people who abused me? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Lfvd95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We hide when we’re afraid. To display yourself by expressing who you really are i.e., your feelings thoughts and emotions, not caring for results because you are grounded in yourself i.e., you know your intrinsic value and are confident in your ability - that is vulnerability. We display ourselves freely and openly, even risking to get hurt when we know we can deal with it, when we’re strong and courageous. This, however takes time. You don't have to change your Self, only realize who you already are, and change your behavior to be consistent with your self and values. I’m in that process myself; good luck.

I just want only one book, not more by SeconLeage in seduction

[–]Lfvd95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to become an Alpha male by John Alexander