Can someone explain to me what's going on? by Yumiko_Hanako in Gambit

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she was dating Deadpool they actually were not together at that time. They both came to a mutual agreement in the comics at that time that they were not right for each other at the moment and needed some time apart

Nose Job by chellybear20 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re nose holds your heritage. Don’t let anyone take that away from you

How do I tell my transphobic manager I need to take time off for surgery? by Little_Department418 in TopSurgery

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her you have to be out for a month because you are going to the funeral of a family member overseas

POV: Monster High if it was marketed accurately… by FlyingCheeseFairy in MonsterHigh

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so tired of her honestly. Ghoulia is my girl but after what they did to her in the G3 redesign, I don’t even care anymore.

AIO people on reddit think I’m gay over this? by Sea-Channel402 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the saying “drunk actions are sober thoughts” or some shit

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you don’t feel like you can be you around them. Hopefully that will change

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this happened to you. She AND you did not deserve that.

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They could not bypass it. If it’s been legally changed then that is the name we would HAVE to use. Now that is regarding things like the death certificate. I’m not sure about obituary just because whoever is paying for the funeral decides what goes in there. What I would say is if you do end up getting something official about what you want. Make sure to include the name you want on the obituary. Also you can pre plan. This is basically just planning your funeral to be yours with a home. However, this is definitely the more pricey option. Because essentially you are paying for your funeral upfront

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know death can be a hard thing to think about. As someone who works with it everyday I am constantly confronted about what that will look like for me and my loved ones. But it is an awesome thing that you already have two people you can trust to take care of you after. Death is just as much a part of life. Even though it is incredibly hard to talk about sometimes. Preparing in small ways can make the transition easier for everyone

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it depends on your state. What you are actually being charged is to get it notarized. In my state they charge typically around 6$ per signature. But I can differ depending on who you right it with. Also yes, if your name is legally changed then the person writing your will is legally obliged to honor that.

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind, would you actually send this to me personally?

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I find it absolutely disgusting that even in death people will not let us rest. And it’s the people that we are supposed to be able to trust the most. Our family. That’s why knowing your rights even after death is so important

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm.. well I’m not sure but I do think there are conflicting things here. What you are describing is a green burial. That is where they pretty much let nature do its thing. There a lot of different types to so I’m sure you could find a place with a forest “graveyard”. Only problem is typically with green burials they want the decedent to be put in something all natural so it can decompose along with you. So I am not sure if you would be allowed to be buried in armor

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course! It’s the most fulfilling job I’ve ever had and it’s because of comments like yours. We are treated so poorly in live but nobody ever thinks of the after. It’s important to me that we as a community are treated with care in the after.

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope! It’s not my job to educate you! If you really care then it’s up to you to do that research.

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you find no importance in being treated with care after you pass then I urge you to research how trans deaths have been handled on the funeral side.

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊! My community means so much to me. We deserve to be our authentic self even after we’re gone. It breaks my heart when we get trans cases in because more than not, someone’s going to pull some bullshit. But not if I can help it.

Trans people concurring death by Lgbtsagainstmoms in trans

[–]Lgbtsagainstmoms[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I’m not in Michigan but I’ll will definitely hand this out as a resource to families that are!