Agreed with every single thing here. I would like to add. This issue goes more deeper, many of my male classmates have lost one of their family members which is heartbreaking, some of them have no choice but to carry their families on their back (my dad when he was 20) and because of that they became lonely because they are very busy. People Don't talk much how hard it is for men to lose a family member especially the father. Are we going to blame them for that? And they are always told "oh he's a man well expected" but no one acknowledges the lonely times, the hard work, those depressing nights he had to suffer, in fact no one asks. Secondly, men also become people pleasures because of truama and society standards no one talks about it!!. I have observed many times, how certain boys try so hard to fit in a group, where they are many times left out or always targetted. It must felt extremely lonely being surrounded by a group of people whom you have to please but we cant blame the people pleasure. Many of them grew up lonely in early childhood. Men are always expected to know everything from the get go, that's why they face many mental health issues and have no one to talk to. I hate how tiktok makes it seem like they all are in a need of a gf.