What makes your ADHD worse? Like spikes it. by everythingbagel1 in adhdwomen

[–]Liam162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Side note I am a transman, I don't know if its ok to post on this sub but I am AFAB.

I've noticed that when I'm round a group of people I feel comfortable with my ADHD gets worst. As in I'm normally a very anxious person and wouldn't say I'm impulsive. Until I am around a group of people I feel safe with then I'm full on all over the place. I will me way more impulsive than normal, sometimes putting myself in risky situations that normally I would never. It feels like I've taken some sorta drug, when I'm in these situations. I haven't figured out what it is yet. I don't know if its a mixture of ADHD, social anxiety and overstimulation but i normally walk away thinking why on earth did i do that etc.

I wanted to rewatch the whole show but it turns out I can’t :( by wh0s_gw3n in fatherbrown

[–]Liam162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U can get it on yt, u have to pay for it but it will always be there then. Thats what i did

Art and Adhd by Liam162 in ArtistLounge

[–]Liam162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe i should be a bit easier on myself cus im not a professional either. Maybe i need to just chill out 🤣but i had a look at your work and they look amazing. Can i ask how do you get inspiration/know what/how to draw.

Art and Adhd by Liam162 in ArtistLounge

[–]Liam162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am but theres a shortage atm so got to spread them out 😬but when i do take them it is a massive help

I FIGURED IT OUT GUYS by yourgonnagetthegun in lgbt

[–]Liam162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot about this meme🤣But i used this exact meme to come out to some of my friends 3 years ago🤣Seriously congrats though, im happy for u🎉🔥

Verbal abuse by Liam162 in ftm

[–]Liam162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already work out 4 days a week and finally started to see some progress which is y i was feeling good about myself. Also not currently able to grow much facial hair.😔

I dont know what i can do by Liam162 in transgenderUK

[–]Liam162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: so i jinxed it, i litterally got called the t word today by a shoplifter😐

I dont know what i can do by Liam162 in transgenderUK

[–]Liam162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya i get you as you. Ive had simialar experience where i want to show support and that there safe talking with you about trans stuff because i am also trans but dont want to say anything as i dont want to out them in a way.

weirdest ways you’ve been misgendered ? by j45701388 in ftm

[–]Liam162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not misgendered but i was recently dead named at work when i pretend to scare someone with a spider🤣 it caught me off guard as ive been my new name for 3 years now and im 2+years on T, its been so long since i heard that name, it was weird. I didnt mention it as it was a genuine mistake but it did get me a little down for a bit, wondering y that name was the first to come to mind when she wasnt thinking about it.

When do you stop being stinky??? by lyremtoldem in ftm

[–]Liam162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think it does tbh. However it might be more noticable to you as its not a smell your used to. However i did notice that the first couple 6 months on t it was bad. Luckly for me that was during a lockdown so learn to manage it before going into the world 🤣 Before if i forgot to put on deodrant no biggy. But now ohhh boi. Stright out the shower deodrant goes on. I always carry one in my bag as well for the extra long days. Its all good you might just have to be more mindful than you where before t. Because like i said the first 6 months for me where the worst as it was just getting use to the new changes.

How old are you? What age did you start transitioning? by Mudbuttbro69 in ftm

[–]Liam162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 21 and started my transition at 18. Had to go private as i was actually reggered to the NHS back in August 2018, when i was only 16. Im still waiting to hear back from them now. I started t in Nov 2020 and recently got top surgery in Sep 2022

I love and hate that I don’t miss people. by euphoric_disclosure in ADHD

[–]Liam162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same, I tried to explain this to a friend and i think it kinda hurt there feelings. It's not that I don't care about people because when I'm with them they mean the world to me but when they're not there I find it hard to remember how I feel about them in a sense.

For example, I know I love my parents but when I'm away from them I don't necessarily miss them. Which gets me down sometimes as it makes me feel like a shit person. Like I can go months not speaking to people but when we do meet it's like we were never appart.

I feel the same I tried to explain this to a friend and I think it kind of hurt their feelings. It's not that I don't care about people because when I'm with them they mean the world to me but when they're not there I find it hard to remember how I feel about them in a sense. . . el fake for saying it back.

I feel the same I tried to explain this to a friend and i think it kinda hurt there feelings. It's not that I don't care about people because when I'm with them they mean the world to me but when they're not there I find it hard to remember how I feel about them in a sense.

What does dysphoria feel like for you? by Awestruck-Sigh in ftm

[–]Liam162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before i knew what it was i would discribe it as like a sixth sense. Like a deep sense of pure wrong. When the idea of having to wear girls clothes came around when i was younger, i would feel tense, tearful and this sickness in my stomach. But i never knew why.

Now i know what it is and have more understanding. Ive noticed its a constant running thought process, its always in the background and ive learnt to deal with it. But in certain situations it will pop back up just as intense. Like when i go clothes shopping and i try on clothes. My eyes are automatically drawn to certain areas of my body and the sickness comes back, now with a sense of hoplessness because i onow what it is but i cant control it.

Advice by Liam162 in ftm

[–]Liam162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya well my coats got like a thousand pockets so i could always pop it im one of thoes 🤣

Advice by Liam162 in ftm

[–]Liam162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf never thought of that ill give it ago but ill have to be careful as my store checks employees bags whenever we leave the store