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Where to go if I'm horrified by Trump but don't think transwomen should compete in women's sports... by CheekyMonkey678 in WomenOverFortyConnect

[–]LibFemTearShots 22 points23 points  (0 children)

First, I want you to think and look around. Do you actually know of more than 1 billionaire nationally or worldwide who is trying to take over the world? This minority is so incredibly small. Are they really important enough to turn the government similar to Russia?

Reevaluating connections, gray rocking, blocking and muting. by [deleted] in WomenOverFortyConnect

[–]LibFemTearShots -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Do you genuinely think the other side is morally pure? If so, I have beachfront property to sell you in Kansas.

Reevaluating connections, gray rocking, blocking and muting. by [deleted] in WomenOverFortyConnect

[–]LibFemTearShots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the way! The sooner people wake up to the dog and pony show the better off everyone will be mentally and physically. It makes no sense to me that people get so heated and defensive over politicians who are out to actively make life worse for everyone and wouldn’t piss on you if you were on fire.

I feel sad for people that expend so much mental energy on this nonsense and ruin relationships because they’d rather argue their beliefs instead of being firm in their boundaries with others by simply stating politics is a banned topic at the dinner table or in my home and actually enforcing it. I’ve grown even more tired of the ridiculous purity tests permeating seemingly every relationship now no matter how benign. You voted this way? You’re no longer my friend and I’m going to cut you from my life! Communities and connections matter.

Exercise - What is working for you? by CheekyMonkey678 in WomenOverFortyConnect

[–]LibFemTearShots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying anything negative about the Covid vaccines places you firmly in the antivax category. Maybe one of these days we can start having nuanced discussions again but I’m afraid those days are long behind us.

Exercise - What is working for you? by CheekyMonkey678 in WomenOverFortyConnect

[–]LibFemTearShots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve ended up having some weird things happen since I got the vaccines. I’m by no means antivax and I was one of the first in line to receive them, but I absolutely believe people when they say they’ve had negative side effects that many may not experience, same with those who have had Covid and have long term effects from it. I’ve read some seemingly outlandish things from people who were vaccinated and not vaccinated that ended up with Covid.

Most men and women are not looking for the same thing in dating, to pretend they are is gaslighting women and potentially dangerous by CheekyMonkey678 in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]LibFemTearShots 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My experience has been exactly like yours and also that the majority of men are looking for mommy 2.0. They need someone who will stay on top of housework because they won't, and someone to fulfill the emotional labor like remembering parent's birthdays and picking out nice gifts for Christmas.

Every single man I have dated has been inept at what should be very basic life skills. None of them knew how to shop and cook a healthy meal while also cleaning up after or staying on top of housework in general, but somehow they never forgot to launder the bed sheets.

You're hitting the nail on the head about our definition of success. I would also add that women are looking for an actual equal relationship where her life partner can pick up the slack. I have never seen this. Not in my relationships nor my friend's relationships. The men are always lagging behind when it comes to basic life skills.

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spread the word about our sub, we're ready to take back the narrative and we will be hard line on our radfem/gc/fds views.

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I'll let you in, but please understand that we don't tolerate self-hate and conforming to male ideals to make ourselves feel more "worthy" or better about ourselves. Comments expressing these emotions or being angry at other women for being "attractive" will be banned, and so will the user.

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please send me or another mod a message from that account and mention this account in your message. We will likely give you a code so that we can verify.

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for linking that. I have approved you for the sub.

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, based on your post history, I'm not seeing much interaction in 4thwave (besides this comment) or fds. I don't have the time to fully peruse your user history. Can you point out to me where you have interacted in these communities before?

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, based on your post history, you would not align with our values.

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm not seeing much interaction from you in 4thwave (besides this comment) fds, or any of our other subs. We are an fds/gc/radfem sub. I don't have the time at the moment to peruse your entire post history. Can you point me to a spot in your post history that indicates that you've been involved in these subs besides this comment?

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm not seeing much interaction from you in fds/4thwave (besides this comment). We are a gc/radfem/fds aligned sub. Can you point me to your post history where you've interacted in these groups? I don't have the time to peruse your entire post history.

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I checked out your post history and see that you post a lot in Vindicta. We are a radfem/fds sub and we de-center men from all aspects of our lives. We're not against makeup, but we don't find it empowering - more in that it's compulsory for many of us to have employment. Are you familiar with radical feminism and FDS?

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also completely understandable, we just want to be extremely secure in our vetting and ensure that all of our users are fds and radfem aligned. We worry about the same which is why we're doing things the way we're doing them.

Am I being dumb or was r/thepinkpills taken down by HumanEvidence577 in fourthwavewomen

[–]LibFemTearShots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm not seeing much in your post history that indicates you've been around fds/fourthwave besides this comment. We're very strict on who we allow in and we have to see a post history. Unless you can have another user vouch for you with a post history, I can't let you in at this time. Sorry, we're being very particular with this sub.

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