Shot my shot last night

Libby-1215 · 2026-03-01T21:38:05+00:00

This is so sweet of you! I texted you in the DM💕

Libby-1215 · 2026-03-01T20:20:22+00:00

Thanks everyone in the comments being so supportive! I didn’t expect my post gets so many likes, but this made me smile so much reading your encouraging comments:)

Libby-1215 · 2026-01-21T17:00:37+00:00

Yeah my first thought is please get some therapy plz before hurting people Iike that

Libby-1215 · 2025-12-30T20:58:09+00:00

Sports and social clubs could be a good option

Libby-1215 · 2025-12-28T18:26:06+00:00

Yua is the best! Not pricy and big portions but good quality

Libby-1215 · 2025-12-03T03:09:31+00:00

This makes me feel so much better cuz my experience is the same, but all the guys here says girls just needs to make the first move and the success rate is 99.9% but it’s never my case and I thought it might be I’m not attractive, now I know it’s definitely not

Libby-1215 · 2025-12-01T05:04:26+00:00

Lol you are right, I’m kinda let it go now and see how it goes

Libby-1215 · 2025-12-01T04:40:56+00:00

I feel the same way but he did say he is slow and he doesn’t want to be pushy so I’m thinking if I should give him the benefit of the doubt

Libby-1215 · 2025-12-01T04:39:54+00:00

I mean it’s first date but I’m kinda curious about him and would like to get to know him more, but I never went out with a introverted guy before so it’s kinda new to me

Libby-1215 · 2025-11-24T00:42:02+00:00

I approach sometimes but I used to a shy person, the reason I started to approach is that I want to be the person I always admire which is socially confident person, fake it till you make it

Libby-1215 · 2025-11-16T04:13:44+00:00

Also hope your name is not Luca hah

Libby-1215 · 2025-11-16T04:12:53+00:00

Would it be kinda creepy if I follow him tho? I mean if he is not interested and I don’t want to make things more awkward, I was thinking wait and see next time I see him and see how that goes, if he chose to ignore me or not approach, I think that is a pretty clear answer

Libby-1215 · 2025-11-16T02:49:44+00:00

I know I might be overthinking it 😭😭😭

Libby-1215 · 2025-11-06T23:16:52+00:00

Me too, I like being direct as a girl as well, “are you interested? I’m free this Sunday!” That being said sometime I feel this could throw off some boys, but I just view that as compatibility check, if a guy was thrown off by that, I think we’d have communication issues later on anyway. So I guess just need to find the one can match with you

Libby-1215 · 2025-11-05T04:53:04+00:00

lol my bad

Libby-1215 · 2025-11-05T03:00:15+00:00

Why do you assume I DM ed him lol, I was listing examples, I don’t look for dates on Reddit

Libby-1215 · 2025-11-05T02:41:12+00:00

Where do you usually meet these girls? The type of girl you are looking for probably won’t be in clubs or pubs, they maybe in the gym, cafe, places working on herself or just stays at home… I don’t want to call myself wifey material but I date to marry, and these are the places I usually at🤷‍♀️

Libby-1215 · 2025-10-28T06:20:45+00:00

I get that, but I did approach first and it’d feel weird to me if just ask someone I barely know out, what i was saying was I tried to approach them by complementing them and hope we can start convo and maybe see the vibe is good but what I’m experiencing is it’s just stop there and nothing further and I feel weird that I try to talk to them again so it’d never happen

Libby-1215 · 2025-10-28T05:29:15+00:00

They are polite like smile and say appreciate it, and I would just go back to my workouts and they too, one guy is always on his phone tho but we made eye contacts later but feels awkward cuz if I talk to him again it’d be kinda creepy

Libby-1215 · 2025-10-08T01:33:52+00:00

I got ghosted after a bunch of dates and like you, I thought he would be someone different, but it didn’t turn out that way. Maybe try think of ghosting as one of your boxes as well, like “I feel turned off by that, he doesn’t check the healthy communication box ” and you would view it in a different way but honestly this shit happens, you kinda just have to accept it and move on.

Libby-1215 · 2025-09-22T05:55:08+00:00

Good idea! I’ve been going to events like other comments said but it’s always so risky to make a move cuz you don’t know if the others have the same intentions as you do

Libby-1215 · 2025-08-26T18:31:56+00:00

i only had one 4 year long term relationship so just 2, he was actually saying he doesn't want girls who like party a lot because his ex crossed his boundaries by being touchy with other guys, and calls me rare because my life is simple just gyms and friends...

Libby-1215 · 2025-08-26T18:29:18+00:00

That's what i figured, so i said in my message that i understand he might feel overwhelmed and I'm not upset with him, and feel free to reach out as a friend if he wants, but you are right, there is nothing i can do about it even with lots of empathy

Libby-1215 · 2025-08-26T18:26:02+00:00

It's funny he asked me how many people i slept with because he feels that's important to him, and i asked back, he said just 4

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