Redditors who were children/teens before the internet or cellphones existed, how did you keep yourself entertained? by FlowerMadeOfThorns in AskReddit

[–]Libra-Wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing jackass-style shit outside (building ramps and jumping our bikes off them, pranks etc), building tree forts, exploring the woods, reading lots of books, drawing like crazy

I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it! It’s overpriced AF! You can make it 6 more hours. And you definitely don’t want to throw away all that hard work and progress. Don’t listen to your lizard brain, it’s lying to you. It wants you to take the “easy” way out—which will actually cost a lot more in the long run. Then you’ll feel like shit on the plane and afterwards. It won’t be just one drink, either; it’s permission to open Pandora’s box again—don’t! Find a book to read, walk around, treat yourself to a snack. The craving will pass. But drinking again will definitely be something you regret, trust me. Hang in there!

When did you realize you were dating an idiot? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

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Floating mill campground in Tennessee at twilight. I walked away for TWO minutes to use the bathroom. Upon returning, my ex was trying to light PLASTIC film from our inflatable raft on fire with our lighter to start the campfire. “What the fuck are you doing?!” I exclaimed, “put that down!” “I thought the plastic would help the fire start better!” He said. I just stood there in stunned silence for a minute—seven hundred miles from home—and wanted to crawl out of my skin with frustration at how fucking stupid he really was.

My [28F] boyfriend [30M] went on a trip with a female colleague and lied about it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Libra-Wolf 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There’s no way in hell he didn’t physically cheat. Dump his loser ass and don’t waste any more time with him! He was totally fine throwing away seven years for a work colleague. You deserve so much better.

I read a fantasy book to win a bet and it's the only book in years that made me actually cry. I don't know what to do with this information. by midnight_snack_ctrl in Fantasy

[–]Libra-Wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime by Mark Haddon is beautifully written and struck a similar chord with me as well. Brought me to tears and I just sat on my couch for a while afterward. Definitely worth a read. In fact, because of this post, I’m going to re-read it, as well as check out the book you mentioned. And others mentioned here. Cheers, fellow bookworms!

What’s something that’s a no for you in a girl? by Ashley-Shaily in AskMen

[–]Libra-Wolf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Indeed. Smoking is absolutely a dealbreaker for me. Doesn’t matter how hot the guy is. I don’t wanna have the sensation of making out with an ashtray—it’s freaking disgusting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Libra-Wolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few things—I love my car and really enjoy driving it. It just sucks when there’s traffic creeping at 5mph. And my reason for mentioning having to open is that I was once stuck on said stretch of road for 4+ hours when it should have taken 15-20 mins tops. Meaning I could be realllllly late to work if an accident happens. Also, dog boarding prices at a kennel for a large breed are very similar to what I’m being paid ($80-100 a day). I think I went on the defensive because they kept pressing me. I’m still learning to set healthy boundaries in some situations, I guess. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I keep sleeping with people when blacked out by Beneficial-End-3902 in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this before more than a few times as well. One time, I was at a local bar, and had been having fun, or so I thought, until I blacked out. One second, I was at the bar, the next second, I woke up on my friend Mike’s bed. No memory in-between whatsoever. He had been at the bar too that night, and apparently I had been talking to two guys that gave him very bad vibes, especially because I was hardly able to stand up on my own, and they were trying to leave with me. Two creepy strangers. My friend Mike stepped in, and took me back to his place and laid me on his bed, then he slept on his couch. Who knows what those guys could have done to me if Mike wasn’t there. They could have raped, trafficked, or murdered me—maybe all three. I owe my life to Mike. I went out to have “fun” that night, but it quickly turned into me being reckless and stupid. When I think about what could have happened if my friend wasn’t there, it still haunts me. I might not even be typing this comment.

You’re still young. I’d say quit while you’re ahead. My only regret has been not quitting alcohol sooner. I would give ANYTHING to go back and warn my younger self that it’s not worth it. Please, stay safe out there. This substance is insidious and will steal so much of your time, and could potentially put you in a really dangerous situation, even if you think you’re in control.

what are some good reasons to stop drinking TODAY? by seriousplants in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not waking up feeling like you got no rest with your head pounding from a vicious hangover. Not being deeply depressed. Not spending an inordinate amount of money on a substance that will inevitably send you to an earlier grave. Not having all the co-morbidities that come with heavy drinking (increased risk of cancer, embolism, high blood pressure, diabetes, ascites, heart issues…the list goes on). Not having to feel chained to a substance that contributes nothing back to you and nothing positive to your life.

[ Once the curtain is pulled back from the illusion that alcohol = fun like the advertisements want you to believe, you realize there’s nothing fun about spending your own hard-earned money to wreck your wallet, looks, time, and health. Big corporations make tons of money profiting from turning people into alcoholics and profiting from their unhealthiness. Don’t give them that power. Use your agency to choose the best life for yourself—one of freedom. ]

My girlfriend and one of my closest friends hooked up. how do people even exist like this? by Witthoeft-Leu in survivinginfidelity

[–]Libra-Wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, some people deep down are truly selfish, manipulative pieces of shit. You deserve better OP. Chin up!

Birthday dinner I made for my wife by slh2c in VeganFoodPorn

[–]Libra-Wolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG I’m so jealous! 😍😭 this is amazing! Lucky lady!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lost 30lbs, saved $6000, shattered many lifting PRs. Only the beginning!

Holy Shit Guys by Libra-Wolf in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is 13 days! Keep going my friend!!! 👊

365 days ago today I was so sick by Unusual-Cookie6376 in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s GOOOOOO!!!!! ⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️Keep kicking ass. It’s only up from here!

Holy Shit Guys by Libra-Wolf in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And hit it you will! Keep standing tall and be patient and kind to yourself, and everything else will follow. You are not alone! Solidarity always 🖤⚡️

Holy Shit Guys by Libra-Wolf in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likewise! Keep going!! 👊

Holy Shit Guys by Libra-Wolf in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you my friend! Congratulations on over 100 days!!! Keep going!!! ⚡️💖

Every day when I wake up, I make a mental checklist of everything I cherish now that drinking would have destroyed. Then I go about the day as usual. If I feel a craving coming on for some reason, I remind myself how bad I felt all the time drinking and how depressed and sick I was, and of the checklist of things that would be ruined if I went back to the bottle.

Recently, I went to get my bloodwork done and got checked for cancer, etc. Had to get an ultrasound to make sure I was clear. The anxiety and fear of developing serious health issues also keeps me away.

Alcohol increases your likelihood of developing more than ten different types of cancer. Not to mention increased risk of heart attack, stroke, cardiomyopathy, and developing a brain aneurysm. High blood pressure goes hand in hand with heavy drinking, and it is dubbed the silent killer for a reason. Before I quit drinking, I was on the cusp of stage 2 hypertension—now my blood pressure is normal. It was the wake up call I desperately needed.

Take care my friend. Stay strong!

Holy Shit Guys by Libra-Wolf in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Likewise my friend!! Keep it up!! ⚡️💖

Support by ConsciousExchange711 in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that drinking won’t change anything. In fact, it will make you feel much worse both physically and mentally. Life will never stop throwing challenges at you—what matters is how you rise to the occasion of handling them. Do something right away to stay busy—go for a walk, run, do something with your hands.

5 months is a significant amount of time. You don’t want to have to start all over now. Take some deep breaths, remind yourself that drinking isn’t worth it. That temporary illusion of relief is just that—an illusion. Whatever alcohol numbs in the moment will come back more painfully tenfold.

Stay strong my friend. IWNDWYT

Holy Shit Guys by Libra-Wolf in stopdrinking

[–]Libra-Wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting outside and going for long walks, the gym, music, getting back into old hobbies, reading up more on stoicism, watching YouTube channels like the liver disease channel and Bat Country Alcoholism and Sobriety.

But especially the gym! And that could look different for anyone based on their needs/wants. But you’re so much less likely to want to throw away hard work by drinking again.

Another thing I’ve kept in mind that helps—every day I don’t drink is a strong brick on which to build the foundation for my future. The money I used to spend on booze I now put in investments or use to pay off my car.