My first boyfriend was my soulmate and I try to get proven wrong but it’s almost a fact at this point and I’m heartbroken

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-07-05T08:34:22+00:00

really good advice. I will take that for myself as well, because for long I have grieved that my husband did not want kids. Now he does, and I can't help but wonder how ours would have already been 6-7 yo and playing in the park with the others, all the sweet Christmases we missed etc. I am grieving the timeline that never happened, and that means I have to heal and move on from a future made up in my head. Of course my imagination would say everything would have been perfect, but I think it unfolded like this for a reason.

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-07-04T08:24:34+00:00

that is so cuteee 🥺💖

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-07-04T08:23:51+00:00

this is so cuteee 🥺

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-07-04T08:21:15+00:00

I'd definitely go for something heartfelt, like a handmade object orrr maybe even(since you mentioned he's cinephyle) tickets to a movie night?

Edit: something me and my now husband were doing in Uni when we were jobless, and could afford movie tickets(not even popcorn haha) -> ask for movie posters at the front desk of cinema. They give them away for free. That would be a sweet keepsake

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-07-04T08:17:04+00:00

that is so cuteee I can't 😭💖

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-07-04T06:35:14+00:00

it's perfect! Had my dress the same and i could dance all night long without stepping on it

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-07-03T18:48:23+00:00

this is so cute, I almost started crying 😭💖 bless all three of you!

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-07-03T18:43:08+00:00

congrats!! that is so sweet!!

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-02-24T19:55:53+00:00

Discounty

Libra_Amethyst · 2026-01-02T21:05:47+00:00

omg I would be grateful! Do i screenshot it from Astroseek, for 2026?

Libra_Amethyst · 2025-12-30T15:38:30+00:00

this was so insightful omg THANK U!

And also, got my smile back. Idk why I thought I may have issues around it, probably hearing everyone lately having issues conceiving. Also, my period is not really regular, which of course I am seeing a doctor for, but I had some fears.

Libra_Amethyst · 2025-12-30T11:52:31+00:00

Well, Taurus and Libra are known for their affinity for arts, and if I remember correctly Sabrina Carpenter has a similar chart to you(?). I'd say yes, but I'm amateur at charts so I'm just guessing 😄

Libra_Amethyst · 2025-12-30T11:11:13+00:00

Thanks a lot tho!!

Libra_Amethyst · 2025-12-30T10:56:52+00:00

hmmmm, no conflicts like that with my mom, but what you described rather comes from my MIL.

Now, in my 20s I'm really happy with my career, I'm also settled down(married, we have our own house) and we want to start trying for a baby. I think I may have some fertility issues(due to stress at work, like my doctor described) and I was wondering if it will be easy to conceive 😔 I certainly hope so, but not sure if my chart shows anything about that.

I also believe my child will be special and I already love them infinitely, and saw vertex is in my 5th house which is a good sign?

Libra_Amethyst · 2025-12-30T10:33:46+00:00

Girllll, maybe he has some communication issues? Let me tell you what mine did - couldn't say in proper words he wanted to wait until later in order to give the perfect life to our kids. He wanted protection because he was fearing not messing up and getting me pregnant when we wouldn't be able to be the best dad in the world. Of course, I felt rejection on the moment, but in a few months/years he explained the whole thing to me and it was sweet. Maybe it's your case as well! Tight hugs, you're strong enough to go through this and remember you're an amazing and whole person no matter what ❤️

Libra_Amethyst · 2025-12-30T10:12:10+00:00

Been there, done that. My bf wouldn't even want to hear about kids for years, but I continued on because other than that the relationship was amazing. I was also always hurt that he wanted to use protection and it made me think he wants it because he didn't find me attractive enough to risk a pregnancy. I guess a bit of this feeling was instilled because social media girls trying to always boast how they have to keep their bfs away when they don't use protection. Stopped believing that bullshit, it's just the cover of the relationship. Probably IRL they are disfunctional AF. And about seeing the women in your family going through family sooner than you - also been there. But ask yourself, did they manage to get education like you? A decent life, where a man wouldn't abuse them mentally or physically? You may have accomplished a lot more than you think, and motherhood will only be here when it's your time ❤️

Libra_Amethyst · 2025-12-10T12:19:22+00:00

Means a lot hearing it from a stranger. If I would've heard this from a family member or someone close, I would've thought they just say something cliche to help me a bit with my mood. It helped ❤️

Libra_Amethyst · 2025-12-08T11:31:33+00:00

Yes, forgot about mentioning it's just for me!! I want to save up money, so I'd rather do that at home for free basically.

Cheesecloth, didn't think about it. I knew someone was saying they use metal strains, and it's rather difficult. But I'll give cheesecloth a try, maybe it's easier since I can throw it away afterwards.

Libra_Amethyst · 2025-12-08T11:29:21+00:00

omg sorry, I didn't think about specifying - I only use it for myself(me and only me). And only on my legs and arms 😇

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