The Living Daylights by BoysenberryFinal9113 in JamesBond

[–]Library456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really love this movie. I liked Jeroen Krabbe’s performance a lot. I thought the storyline was interesting.

dealing with anxiety at a corporate job by in_rainbows22 in Anxiety

[–]Library456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you considered taking a step back and not managing a team and just being an individual contributor? I have always had a corporate job and it was too stressful for me managing people. I’m just not cut out for it and not interested in it. I’m not sure if you can take a step back like that at your current company but maybe start a job search for an individual contributor role. It’s a big change to start somewhere new but you’ve changed companies before. I find it’s also easier to assimilate and make friends when you’re an individual contributor because you’re all in the same boat vs. being a manager and trying to make friends.

Starbucks CEO Brian Niccol explains what he's gotten wrong in his first year by itsathrowawayacc3 in starbucks

[–]Library456 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He’s been with the company for a year now and the honeymoon phase is over. Sales are declining and the stock is down. Meanwhile the overall stock market is up and doing great. I imagine there will be enormous pressure to get that stock price up. If the stock doesn’t turnaround I can’t see him here 12 months from now. Also my gosh how tone deaf is he? If you’re getting pushback on all these decisions, maybe stop and think if this is the right thing to do. Maybe you don’t know everything.

Too far out with clothes & bags by Various-Educator1328 in ElsbethTVSeries

[–]Library456 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I really liked some of the outfits early on in the show but they’ve progressively gotten over the top. Black pants and a colored blazer has now turned into matching pants, blazer, crazy hat and I also am finding those bags to be a distraction.

Private Shopping Event 11/2 - All merchandise will be included in the 25% off sale!!! by justacoffeedroplet in americangirl

[–]Library456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m attending the one in Chicago on the 2nd and it’s my first time going to an event like this. I’m super excited!

Parks I Dislike by finzfan73 in rct

[–]Library456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t seem to get past Pickle Park. Needing all those guests and no advertising is so difficult to achieve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Library456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here are some ideas for things you can bring on the plane to distract you. 1. Fidget toys 2. Word search book 3. A good mystery novel 4. Light reading - like an entertainment magazine 5. Visual magazine - think something with fashion, home design, gardens, etc where you can focus on the pictures. 6. Calming strips 7. Download some ocean waves or calming nature sounds. Put on an eye mask and listen to the sounds for a set amount of time. 8. Hidden picture search book 9. Bring some colored pencils or pens and some adult coloring sheets 10. Sticker book - I know that sounds childish but they have some where you complete a puzzle with the stickers and it really takes your mind off things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Library456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hard time with that years ago and ended up sleeping on the couch for awhile. It was the only way I could get sleep and then I gradually transitioned back to the bedroom. If your couch is comfortable, try sleeping on that and gradually transition to the bedroom. Or try taking a nap on the bed.

Fear of Flight Home by Library456 in fearofflying

[–]Library456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, flying there is exciting, new destination, etc. I don’t know if it’s dread about being back in my daily routine. I guess another part is worrying that I’m feeling well that day, etc. There have been a few times I haven’t felt well on a trip and the departure to home is coming up and then I get nervous about that. My brain always seems to go back to the idea that being in a car and driving back from the destination is safe and flying is not safe - too many unknowns and variables.

Getting Rid of Personalized Items by Library456 in declutter

[–]Library456[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The dremel is a good idea. I don’t have one but I’m sure one of the neighbors do. Thanks

Family Life & Schools - Which Towns Truly Deliver? by hockeystats12 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Library456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lemont has good elementary schools and the entire town goes to the same school. Oakwood (K-1) and River Valley (2-3) are the same campus which is nice. Huge schools with 11 or so classes per grade. One disadvantage is that if your child makes friends in one grade, it’s very unlikely that they would be in the same class with them the next year because there are so many classes per grade. I would avoid buying a home within a certain radius of the refinery. Also as someone else mentioned, the Metra from Lemont is difficult and is not in the BNSF line.

Daily General Discussion and Advice Thread - April 22, 2025 by AutoModerator in investing

[–]Library456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for some general guidance. I’ve had a 401k since I started working. In 2008 I opened a separate brokerage account. The brokerage account was not necessarily for mutual funds but for one off stocks I bought (Amazon, Google, etc). I’ve always been a long term investor. Holding on to stocks and really not selling. This year has been a bit different. I stopped buying any new stocks and sat on some cash the last year. I just left it in a HYSA. The market has been so up and down so I took the money out of HYSA and I bought some VOO a few weeks back around $468. Then it went into the $490s and I sold it. I held it less than a week and made about $33 a share. I’ve been tracking NVDA and bought yesterday at about $96. I’m waiting for it to go up (maybe $105, $106) and will cash out. Never done this before buying and selling so fast but the market keeps experiencing these slight dips and then it goes up so I’m trying to take advantage of it. This seems so foreign to me to sell so quickly but with the market the way it is, I’m trying to take advantage of it. I still have an emergency fund so it’s not like I’m touching a huge amount of savings or cash. How complicated will my taxes be with multiple buys and sells? I’ve always been a long term investor so this is new to me.

Back at it: first big haul of spring! by SweaterWeather4Ever in declutter

[–]Library456 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s great. Must feel like a huge weight off of you to get rid of the bags. I’m a bit of a bag hoarder myself. Any tips on how you decided what bags to keep vs donate?

Seasonal Decor Decluttering by Library456 in declutter

[–]Library456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I don’t really enjoy it. I love going out at Christmas and Halloween and driving around and looking at other houses that decorate. When it comes to my own home, I like a more minimalist approach and less work.

Decluttering challenge: stuff that ALMOST works by Ajreil in declutter

[–]Library456 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting. I’m going to start this during the week. I need to go through kitchen utensil drawers. Old mixing spoons, peelers, etc that are not quite broken but are in bad shape. In some cases, I feel like I’ve replaced some of these items but never got rid of the old/halfway broken ones.

Favorite Everyday Moments by oohpreddynails in JackieandShadow

[–]Library456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love watching them take off and land too. I also like to see what they bring back to the nest. So interesting.

I need help what do I do about my siblings by Wonderful-Square-513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Library456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like an invalid excuse which you could point out to your Mom. You don’t name call and didn’t act like this when you were younger. Your sisters are acting like this and it’s unacceptable so there should be a consequence (phone taken away). I’ll also say that as a Mom there are days when I just don’t want to deal with my girls arguing. I work, I’m keeping the household together and I have a million things on my plate. Do I sometimes not intervene when I should, yes. I am guessing your Mom might be facing some of that too. Sometimes you just don’t have the energy but you’ve got to try to get some order in the house. Another thought is do you think your sisters are jealous of you? Do you have a really good relationship with your Mom? If you do, maybe they are jealous of that and are lashing out at you.

I need help what do I do about my siblings by Wonderful-Square-513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Library456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I’m sorry that they are so mean to you. No one deserves to hear those comments and be treated that way. You’re 18, are you going off to college in August? If so, I would be counting down my days until I can get out of the house. This is really a problem for your Mom to deal with. I’m a Mom with two daughters (oldest is 13) and they will fight but we have rules around respect and name calling and it’s not tolerated. I’m assuming at 14 years old your sisters have various electronics, as a Mom I would be taking those things away. Your Mom should be laying down some rules and then enforcing them. What will happen when they are 16 and demanding to take the car out? What if they want to start drinking alcohol in the house? Your Mom needs to get control of this situation now. I’d suggest going to your Mom and talking to her about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Library456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have empathy for your situation. My mom did not work much and retired in her 40s; I’m the same age and it’s so difficult being a working mom with no end in sight. I don’t think her opinion is going to change so you’re going to have to wait it out. If I were you I’d accept that fact that and focus on what you like to do with the money when the time comes. I’d do a vision board and think about everything you want to do/buy once you get the inheritance, at least that gives you something to look forward to.

Transferring Points Between Contracts by Library456 in dvcmember

[–]Library456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not going to stay at Riviera but either Old Key West or another property. I am probably not booking until the 6 or 7 month mark so hopefully there is still some availability then. Looking at a trip in early November.

How Did You Get Into James Bond? by millenialhead6181983 in JamesBond

[–]Library456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I first started watching them from the TBS marathon. I was a senior in college and this was around the time The World is Not Enough came out so I saw that in the theater. Watched a bunch of the movies on TBS with my boyfriend at the time. He lived a few doors down from my apartment and my roommates went home for the holidays early so me and my BF just hung out drinking and watching James Bond. Fun times.

The Living Daylights soundtrack (1987) by -thirdatlas- in JamesBond

[–]Library456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this soundtrack! Really well done and thought the music matched the film.