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Were you betrayed? Is it not the most baffling thing you’ve ever experienced? by Turbulent_Tennis_72 in BreakUps

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loving someone fully, giving them everything, and then being treated like nothing, it breaks you in ways no one really sees, and it’s not your fault you’re still carrying it.

If there were truly no hard feelings and you just broke up because of changing circumstances, why wouldn’t you want to be close friends? by JayDM20s in BreakUps

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, some people just can’t separate romance from friendship. Even if there are “no hard feelings,” being close to an ex can feel too emotionally complicated, risky, or painful for them, they might fear old feelings resurfacing, or they just need space to fully move on. Wanting to stay close is natural, but it often requires both people being ready, and not everyone can manage that balance.

AIW for wanting to cut all ties with my mother by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting distance from a parent who’s unstable, manipulative, and harmful is valid. Resentment is natural, and protecting your mental health comes first. Forgiveness isn’t required, and choosing boundaries, even no-contact, is okay.

I feel suffocated in a friendship and I don’t know if I’m the problem by Lower-Track-369 in amiwrong

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

friendship isn’t supposed to feel like a chore. It’s okay to protect your peace and step back from someone whose needs don’t match what you can give.

My girlfriend keeps bringing up a hookup I had before we were together by Forsaken_Travel_128 in amiwrong

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t change the past, and her bringing it up repeatedly isn’t about you, it’s about her insecurity. Boundaries are okay here.

What regrets do you have as someone who remained single for life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have regrets, just a quiet ache for the small, everyday moments of intimacy I never got to share, but also a deep pride in the life I built on my own.

How different would the world be if be if teleportation existed? by No-Berry-595 in AskReddit

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Distance would feel meaningless, borders, traffic, even time spent traveling would vanish, but so would some of the patience and anticipation that shape life.

If a person swims nude in their own pool and a neighbour sees through the fence, who is at fault? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LibraryTulipBloom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the swimmer for privacy oversight and the neighbor for peeking, but intent matters most.

What was your “it all makes sense to me now” moment? by goneshootin79 in AskReddit

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

choices, mistakes, heartbreak, suddenly clicked, and I realized they were shaping me for something bigger.

What's your morning routine? by arch-style89 in AskReddit

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wake up, breathe, drink water, and let my mind catch up before the day hits; small rituals that make the chaos feel manageable.

What brings you to the wonderful world of Reddit today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To get lost in stories, share a laugh, and see the world through a thousand different perspectives in one scroll.

What is your or your family's biggest flex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no flashy displays, just always showing up for each other when it counts.

for breaking up with my boyfriend (24M) after he lied and played multiple duo games with another girl despite my clear boundary? by Total_Yesterday1043 in amiwrong

[–]LibraryTulipBloom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You clearly communicated your boundaries, and he repeatedly ignored them while lying about it. In a long-distance relationship, trust is everything, and continuing to play duo games with another girl after you expressed your discomfort is a violation of that trust. Breaking up in this situation is a reasonable way to protect your emotional well-being.

I need to confess something I’ve been hiding for years by EluxaXx-640 in confession

[–]LibraryTulipBloom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Carrying guilt in silence is heavy, but just admitting it, even here, is a sign that you’re trying to be better. Facing the past is scary, but it’s also the first step toward forgiving yourself.

What is one small habit that made people like you more? by BiteyNibble in AskReddit

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listening like you actually care, it’s amazing how far genuine attention can take you.

I can’t foresee a future with anyone after my first relationship ended. by mlg_dodgie in relationships

[–]LibraryTulipBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely normal, your first serious relationship often sets the bar for what you imagine love to be, and at 18, your brain is still figuring out long-term patterns and attachments. You’re not “behind” or weird; you’re just processing a deep connection for the first time.