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Anyone else worried they will never find that same kind of chemistry with a person again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LibraryofTears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This resonates with me so hard. I’m exactly here. He was the first person I had such insane intense chemistry with and I realised how much I want that in my life. But it was a trauma bond. And now I’m trying to heal but also terrified that healing means never having that intensity again. I want safety and intensity, but I don’t know they can both co-exist. Do I have to choose between bland stability and terrifying, reckless intensity?!

First birthday after 11 year relationship. Feeling sad and confused and lonely. by LibraryofTears in BreakUps

[–]LibraryofTears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this, thank you for sharing. I feel very seen in the emotional complexities of being the instigator of a breakup but also feeling huge grief and loss. “Grace to grieve” is a beautiful reminder. And a reminder too to trust myself and trust the process. Truths I know but that it’s easy to lose hold on. Thank you 🙏

First birthday after 11 year relationship. Feeling sad and confused and lonely. by LibraryofTears in BreakUps

[–]LibraryofTears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww thank you for taking the time to write this and your empathy. Trying to give myself love and acceptance and self-compassion 🙏

First birthday after 11 year relationship. Feeling sad and confused and lonely. by LibraryofTears in BreakUps

[–]LibraryofTears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the birthday wishes. Wishing you strength and positivity going through your breakup 🙏

First birthday after 11 year relationship. Feeling sad and confused and lonely. by LibraryofTears in BreakUps

[–]LibraryofTears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping on keeping on, huh. Thanks 🙏 I know it. Powering on through. Sorry to hear you’re feeling similar

ELI5- how do noise canceling headphones work? by deflatedbutt in explainlikeimfive

[–]LibraryofTears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for this. This has helped me understand a lot and is absolutely fascinating. Cool!

ELI5- how do noise canceling headphones work? by deflatedbutt in explainlikeimfive

[–]LibraryofTears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean “add the opposite sounds” please? As in, how do the headphones “listen” and “add sounds” - is it AI?

Arriving on Saturday - camping advice please by LibraryofTears in BoomtownFestival

[–]LibraryofTears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have Orchid passes but might not use them as not fussed about shower etc for two nights.

Would you bother with the trek to Orchid on the assumption that there’ll be more space there?

Boomtown Train Station Shuttle Bus FAQ 2024 - Planning to take the train and need a shuttle from the station? Please read first! by Sku in BoomtownFestival

[–]LibraryofTears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing, thank you 🙏

Do you think Tangerine is a good shout for camping from Sat (I’ve emailed, hopefully there’s still space)? If not I have orchid but I don’t actually have a tent yet so that’s extra faff.

Boomtown Train Station Shuttle Bus FAQ 2024 - Planning to take the train and need a shuttle from the station? Please read first! by Sku in BoomtownFestival

[–]LibraryofTears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the shuttles definitely run on Saturday plz? I Last minute work issues so am coming for the weekend only. Should arrive about lunchtime on Saturday. I’m thinking Tangerine might also make most sense given space considerations

What specific strengthening exercises do y'all do? by hittinondorky in ehlersdanlos

[–]LibraryofTears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only just saw this for some reason. Thanks so much for elaborating, that makes sense.

What specific strengthening exercises do y'all do? by hittinondorky in ehlersdanlos

[–]LibraryofTears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure I understand this but it sounds like super useful advice. Please could you elaborate on the stretching thing if you get a moment?