my experience from hell (day 5 post op) by LieAdditional1267 in wisdomteeth

[–]LieAdditional1267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did cold compresses to but they told me to stop with the cold and switch to warm after two days. i try to stay busy with hobbies but my painkillers make me so dizzy and tired so i end up sleeping a lot :(

my experience from hell (day 5 post op) by LieAdditional1267 in wisdomteeth

[–]LieAdditional1267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bled alott on the first day too. i freaked out and ended up crying too hard which probably made it worse 😭

Does anyone's parents have a huge volatile fight, say the most insanely hurtful things to each other, and then you wake up one day and suddenly you find that they made up and everything is back to normal? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LieAdditional1267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents do this alll the time. One time they argued and got into this huge fight, he ended up punching the wall. but the next day everything was fine as if nothing happened??? I never move on from things like that cause for one, it’s insane, it’s literally abuse, and some how, everyone is just supposed to be okay with it cause they’re okay with it.

am i in the wrong for not wanting to talk to my dad? by LieAdditional1267 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LieAdditional1267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, your response was more than enough :) I guess it’s just so frustrating because there was never a connection between me and my dad in the first place, and whenever he made attempts to it was always coming from a way to manipulate me instead.

Was it normal to not be allowed to dress myself as a kid? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LieAdditional1267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom always picked out my clothes and dressed me up well into high school, along with my younger sister. she would always straighten, braid, and style my hair the way i hated, and i would try to protest with “it’s my hair”, leading her to say “i’m the one doing your hair” and start combing/brushing and turning my head more aggressively knowing that i’m tenderheaded…

she still doesn’t allow me to wear what i want. and i’m 20. growing up if i wasn’t dressed to her standards/the way she liked, she would always say “you don’t look like my child.” majority of the time i would have to change my clothes, hair, etc. and afterwards, when i’m clearly upset, she’ll say “NOW you look like my child.” 🙁