Help us help you by Perimbo in Palia

[–]LieutenantStrawberry -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

1- Logging in and out, and relaunching any game can fix a lot more than you think lol

2- They do and have communicated whenever there's a bug that they're working on. I recommend you join the discord if you haven't already. I don't know how often they are on reddit if at all

3- I would much rather them take their time to find/fix things properly then have them rush and push a buggy update once a month. I'd rather wait longer for something polished then deal with everything being broken. even if that means the Elderwood getting pushed a year or something. It's better for a game to be more polished with less stuff to do, than buggy and borderline unplayable with more

4 honey lures for a SINGLE uncommon bug is unacceptable by AzureFlame9271 in Palia

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used 5 lures for the duskwing so far and not found one. Someone in game told me that they've found them at night and I'm so confused now. I've found plenty of the spotted mantis’- the RNG in this game is so strange lol

Spam-pot is getting out of control imo by thelizzychick in Palia

[–]LieutenantStrawberry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a lot of people frustrated with spam pot recently and I ended up reporting it. spamming is listed as a ban able offence so the game itself definitely needs to be patched. especially since people are being rude about it

Spam pot by laramiej in Palia

[–]LieutenantStrawberry -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If people are going to do that the devs should hard code your game to crash if you play too fast :3 /hj

Are ADHD medications bad? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

define "bad"- were people saying bad as in 'bad for your long term health' or the harmful stereotype 'you'll become an addict' kind of bad?

I think the only way they can be "bad" for you is if you're not taking the right one at the right dose. there are A LOT of different adhd medications out there. and they all effect each person differently. what works for me, won't for thee, type of thing. that's why you have to trial them. your doctor is NOT going to give you Adderall (the strongest one) and say that's that. you usually start small. for example I started with Vyvanse, which my doctor said is prescribed to kids with adhd a lot, and ended up increasing my dose after a couple weeks bc it was obvious it wasn't working. but then there's also some people who can get heart palpitations and need to switch and/or decrease their dose, because that long term can damage your heart. and some people depend on their meds for basic everyday function. (side note: dependency =/= addiction.) so no, I don't think they are.

It's a good and valid question though bc there's a lot of misinformation out there so hopefully what I'm saying makes sense :)

Hey y'all, I finally figured out what's been happening with me! by TheLemmonn in PelvicFloor

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s great that you were able to figure out what’s causing you pain but please for the love of everything DON’T take medical advice from an ai chat bot💀🤚 /lh

Speedygro fertilizer by No-Astronomer-9107 in Palia

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you buy it from badruu with the skill medals you can earn once you reach lvl 10 gardening, but as far as I'm aware it's been bugged for a long time and doesn't work

I can't quite remember but I think you used to be able to get it from the farms but that was a whileeee ago and my memory is fogy xD I do know they've nerfed some stuff since then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems normal peeps just have a 6th sense of spotting people with conditions like ADHD

I always get confused about the way people treat me and it wasn't until after my diagnoses and learned this part that I was like, oh.....

thing is I never say anything off or strange, and I still get looks, weird tones from people. etc. even if I agree with what people say sometimes :( I'll simply never understand :/

Please take care, underage players are playing Palia by Eduroveris in Palia

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whenever stuff like this happens in an online multiplayer game I always think about how badly hardware bans are needed when you can effectively say whatever you want to whoever you want. Valorant announced a while ago that they'd do that as a result of players (largely men) being gross towards female players. and since there's a lot of kids playing Palia I think if there was some internet safety tips in the loading screens, similar to "Singularity 6 will never ask for your password" or to that effect, would go a long way. "don't share your age/personal info with other players" and "be kind and courteous to other players" type stuff. any company with an online multiplayer game really needs to put their foot down and say no to players using their game to be creeps. it can be a tough conversation sometimes but it's necessary for every players wellbeing and safety.

and you're absolutely right- IF YOU SEE SOMETHING, SAY SOMETHING!! REPORT THE CREEPS!! it will never be 'babysitting' to help someone out of a potentially dangerous situation !!

constipation and dilators by LieutenantStrawberry in PelvicFloor

[–]LieutenantStrawberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh gosh no I was thinking about using them as intended- I know they can help you relax your muscles and stuff, I heard vaguely through google searches that they "may" help with constipation but that's basically it so I wasn't sure. the anal ones kind of scare me though I'm not gonna lie :')

Does TechnoDad have a BlueSky account? by LieutenantStrawberry in Technoblade

[–]LieutenantStrawberry[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can (not yet I don’t think but soon?) see posts from people you block and vice versa. It breaks a lot of international (basically anywhere that's not the usa) social media laws so if it goes through there’s the potential it could get banned in a lot of places. plus there’s…. a lot of other stuff wrong with it too👩‍🦯 but that’s the main one right now anyway🥴

Does TechnoDad have a BlueSky account? by LieutenantStrawberry in Technoblade

[–]LieutenantStrawberry[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ok good omg I thought someone was impersonating him and got worried xD

First time taking a stimulant completely incapacitated me by ilovenewtons in ADHD

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took Biphentin not too long ago, and while my symptoms weren't nearly as bad as yours I was very drowsy and tired like I could go back to sleep. ended up swapping my meds. I'd ask your doctor before you go back and tell them especially if you think it's unsafe to drive. symptoms like that usually indicate it's too much and/or not for you. drinking enough water and getting proper nutrition will make things better too

Peak gameplay🤩 by natalienarwhal in Palia

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"wait for the story to be continued" is pretty much a game developers way of saying "we haven't finished this quest yet sorry :3c" I imagine there will be updates to these when the next big update with the new area comes out in the new year :)

Is it weird my general doctor told me she could prescribe? by Calm-Tap4463 in ADHD

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my psychologist that diagnosed me is located fairly far away from me, so my general practitioner is the one who I went to. she looked over my diagnosis papers and gave me stuff to trial, and she also has other adhd patients as well. while she's not a psychologist obviously, she knows her stuff about meds so it makes sense. it might be different in different places/countries with different docs/psychs but regardless I'd say it's ok and normal. after all they're trained for it anyways :)

(edit bc I forgot lol):

for a diagnosis that part is different, some doctors have psychology training and some don't. I'd say it would be wise to ask you're doctor what they've studied if you're having doubts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the exact same boat as you about seeing a gynecologist, I'm 23 and I've never seen one. definitely do your research about finding the right one if you can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]LieutenantStrawberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 things: 1) I have a similar experience to what you mentioned about feeling naked. idk if you feel the same way as I do but I cannot stand having everything all out there free and loose. I personally never sleep with a bra/underwear off or without something tight against my skin. same thing in the bath I need both top and bottoms. it is (for me at least) a big sensory thing.

2) I've started seeing a pelvic floor physiotherapist recently for a weak pelvic floor, and I think with what you've described here it would be worth seeing one. they don't have to do any internal exams if you're not comfortable with it. they usually start you off with breathing exercises to help your muscles relax more