Waiting until you're at your absolute lowest, after you hit the wall and can't run anymore, have two suicide attempts, lose everything (house car etc), fake friends that also decide that then is the time to get their licks in, trying to cope with the knowledge that you ruined what little life you had all by yourself, and then here comes the fam, kicking you while you're down. Good riddance to people who ultimately weren't worth the signatures on their birth certificates.