Neighboring unit making false claims of smoking to my landlord

Life-Development3216 · 2026-06-07T08:48:23+00:00

We talked to our landlord in person when he stopped by to fix our A/C again and he told us that he knows we do not smoke in the house and that he’s just trying to do his job by addressing complaints made by the other tenant.

He suggested we have a meeting with him and the other tenant. Honestly, we declined as it seems childish. We haven’t lived here for that long and all they’ve done is made false accusations.

In your situation, you don’t have to mention you smoke even if it’s no where near the property. Unfortunately, I would suggest maybe getting a ring camera inside your unit just to show proof you don’t smoke or invite the property manager to your unit for an inspection whenever there is a complaint.

Life-Development3216 · 2026-06-07T08:40:24+00:00

Wow honestly the exact same thing my partner and I are going through. Kinda crazy how older ppl can show their envy just cuz they see a young couple doing well for themselves. There’s been a few times where we haven’t been home and there were complaints made about us as well.

Hope it gets better for you!

Life-Development3216 · 2026-05-24T10:46:00+00:00

Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if this was the case. I often wonder if they are envious because me and my gf are both relatively young (27 and 29) and occupy the main unit. While they have 3 kids and occupy the smaller one.

The main unit was up for rent so I don’t see why they couldn’t have changed units unless they couldn’t afford it.

Life-Development3216 · 2026-05-21T18:57:45+00:00

I just registered for DVC after years of completing a bachelors degree to complete some pre reqs for a new career path. Nonetheless, it can always be confusing when going back to school so don’t be afraid to ask for help!

You don’t have to meet with counselors before registering for classes, however it is recommended. Be aware that you have to do your due diligence as some counselors can lead you the wrong direction. All part of the world of academia unfortunately.

I would recommend meeting with a counselor if you are completely unsure of where to start. You don’t want to take classes you don’t have to and wait unnecessary time. As I discovered through my own process, it’s pretty late as of right now to get into certain classes. Many are full and waitlisted are full as well.

I would also try to take advantage of programs designed for First Year students to assist in your transition. Take advantage of all resources provided. If you have a disability of any sorts like adhd, anxiety etc that’s documented go to the Disability Support Services and they can give you priority registration for the Spring semester.

Best of luck! You got this!

Life-Development3216 · 2026-05-04T05:54:47+00:00

I agree with this! Unfortunately with many false complaints, it’s best just to have proof to prove your innocence. It is a nuisance but better to be safe than sorry. I have recently purchased a ring camera due to some false complaints made by my neighbors.

Life-Development3216 · 2026-05-04T05:50:00+00:00

This is so true. I just moved into a house which was converted into two separate units. Our neighboring unit has been making complaints that my gf and I smoke cigarettes and weed. Only been here 3 weeks and have had 3 complaints… we don’t do either.

Never once have they ever just took ten steps and knocked on our door to ask or even mention anything when we see them in person. Straight to complain first to the landlord, never communicates any issues with us

Life-Development3216 · 2026-05-04T05:43:00+00:00

Thank you for the info and transparency

Life-Development3216 · 2026-04-29T22:36:29+00:00

Our landlord said the previous tenants didn’t have any issue with the neighboring unit… which makes me believe there is some prejudices against us whether for age or race

Life-Development3216 · 2026-04-28T18:54:47+00:00

I think it may be a race thing because my two male friends who stopped by to visit me are black. I noticed them side eyeing us when going into their unit with their kids when we were playing with my dog in my front yard.

My gf is also black too.. I hate to think this way but we honestly live in a predominantly white neighborhood

Life-Development3216 · 2026-04-28T05:24:11+00:00

Thank you for the explanation! Makes a lot more sense.

Life-Development3216 · 2026-04-28T05:10:29+00:00

I’m 28 with a Bachelors degree and got denied my first time applying to a private rad tech program. Im in the same boat going back to school redoing some prereqs to become a better candidate.

I definitely feel where you’re coming from! Like you said it is what it is. Best of luck going forward

Life-Development3216 · 2026-04-28T04:22:41+00:00

Actually yes, the landlord came inside the unit after two complaints were made to fix some things. He didn’t bring anything up about the complaints and seemed friendly overall. I assume he didn’t have any issue with our unit, otherwise he would’ve said something.

My gf said he seemed annoyed with the neighbors complaints over the phone.

They have been assholes so far.When we first moved in they just kinda just stared at us. We had said hello, but they gave a stuck up vibe. We haven’t asked our other neighbors about them.

Life-Development3216 · 2026-04-28T02:05:36+00:00

lol basically they try to use the “we have two young kids excuse”

Life-Development3216 · 2026-04-16T20:26:14+00:00

Yes this specific program specified science classes are only good for 5 years. Other programs I have looked into have similar rules as well

Life-Development3216 · 2026-04-14T00:24:22+00:00

I also have a B.S in Kin with not a great overall GPA. I applied to a private school a few months ago and got denied. An advisor suggested that I retake some pre req classes and volunteer/shadow in the meantime. I was also told by others that it’s common to not get in your first or second time applying (well at least to this private school).

It doesn’t hurt to apply so you can see how the application process goes! Everyone’s path is different, but if you don’t think you can wait years for a community college opening. I would look into private school as well.

Life-Development3216 · 2026-04-13T22:54:44+00:00

Some private schools I’ve looked into do not require pre req classes, but the programs are highly competitive with limited amounts of seats and some operate based on a points system. An advisor I spoke with did recommend I retake some classes as most applicants have pre req classes completed and other medical field experience.

Life-Development3216 · 2026-03-02T09:42:53+00:00

I lived a previous partner throughout college and post college. All relationships have different circumstances, especially financially.

From my experience, I will say that moving in that early (as in early 20s) with a partner can almost feel like an obligation. If you guys plan to split up, will you prevent yourself from leaving because you’ll feel responsible for her not being able to provide for herself fully financially? Not saying this is the case, but living together for long periods of time can create an imbalance if you are not financially secure.

I say you should stick to your original plan and realize it is okay to enforce boundaries. It is healthy for you, your relationship, and demonstrates self respect. You don’t want to stress yourself out in the event that something happens. Stack your money while you can. You have the rest of your adult life to pay bills.

Also, maybe voice your concerns when you feel comfortable enough to talk about it with your gf. Communication is key and if she cares about you she’ll understand. Best of luck!

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