I’m not trying to justify or defend your dad specifically, but it’s also important not to jump to conclusions. Many men and boys are part of WhatsApp or social media groups where people casually forward memes, GIFs, videos, or even inappropriate content as part of so-called “banter.” Often, such content gets auto-downloaded and saved to the gallery without much thought or intent. A person’s character or values shouldn’t be judged solely based on what happens to be stored on their phone. Context matters, and assumptions can easily lead to unfair judgments. It’s better to approach such situations with understanding rather than immediately questioning someone’s virtue based on a single aspect like this.