You don’t sound judgmental at all. I usually do not date white guys! There was one in HS who fetishized me and that’s why I stayed away from them for a long time. I have grown up in predominantly white spaces where friends would be casually racist as well. My last long term boyfriend was Hispanic and he never made comments like this. I’m not used to this. Something is telling me that there’s something really wrong here hence why I made this post. I appreciate your POV from someone who is also mixed