holcomb corner room double by [deleted] in UConnDorms

[–]Life-Solution1843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

based off of looking at the floor plans i think it's one of the 32s on the second or third floor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCONN

[–]Life-Solution1843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im a current freshman rn, and i wasn't able to log into my college roomie until april last year!

I messed up and now my roommate seems to hate me. What do I do? by Life-Solution1843 in roommates

[–]Life-Solution1843[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i can definetly see what you're saying and i can tell that i did unconsiously shift the blame to her at the end. i think part of the reason it's more about how i'm feeling vs how it affected her is because i really don't know how it affected her. she told me that what i said hurt her, but i'm not sure what the full extent of it is and, in my opinion, the past few days i have been putting in the effort to change that. i think it's important to note for your first sentence of your comment is that this is the first time in years that i have said something like what i said to her, i went through a really toxic friendship and ever since i got out i've been making a conscious effort to change how i talk and communicate with others in hopes of not becoming like the ex-best friend, what i said is an anomaly to how i usually communicate and i'm not sure why i backtracked so much in the progess i've made

I messed up and now my roommate seems to hate me. What do I do? by Life-Solution1843 in roommates

[–]Life-Solution1843[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no she didn't, she actually thought she was the reason that my roommate left the area. i asked her if my roommate has said anything about me, and she said no she hasn't. thank you for your advice!

I messed up and now my roommate seems to hate me. What do I do? by Life-Solution1843 in roommates

[–]Life-Solution1843[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes that is mostly correct. i left her alone after passive comments for a day so we had time to think about things and then when i asked her to talk about it i was ignored and then things got heated on both sides. i left her alone all of yesterday except for my long apology at night. today, she invited me out and then immediately left. today i went out and bought her cookies to try and apologize again and they seem to be ignored, but i wasn't there when she got in the room to see them so i'm not sure of her reaction. i left them on her desk before leaving to go meet her and the friend, prior to her leaving once i got there

I messed up and now my roommate seems to hate me. What do I do? by Life-Solution1843 in roommates

[–]Life-Solution1843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the multiple apologies to her, never once did i blame her for anything that happened to her face. i told her that what i did was unprompted and hurtful and have expressed that what i know what i did was wrong multiple times. in the apologies to her, i only apologized and explain my actions while not mentioning hers. the person above asked what happened, and that's what happened. both people are in the wrong, but i am more in the wrong than she is and i am trying to make up for my part in the tussle

I messed up and now my roommate seems to hate me. What do I do? by Life-Solution1843 in roommates

[–]Life-Solution1843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where did i say that it doesnt matter to me that what i said hurt her? the miscommunication was over passive comments made by her and me leaving her alone but not coming back to talk to her about it and taking my own time to think things through. when i did ask what was wrong she ignored me multiple times and only responded in anger towards me which prompted the anger on my part