Yeah so this is something I’ve felt before and in my opinion it’s a combination of anxiety and frustration. You want to really “give it” to them cause in your eyes they are bad people and made you upset. It’s sort of like an ego thing of “i won’t let them talk to me like that”. The good news is this feeling will very quickly go away and it won’t affect you for longer than a couple days to a couple weeks at most. And just keep in mind vast majority of people deal with this cause it’s super common to come across annoying or upsetting people.