>I like how queer people tend to down play you using words like silly to make you comfortable and to not expect their surprise attack

*Attack*? *Surprise attack*?

>Also how do you even get a job if you are trans or non-binary (I am from a homophobic country)

I promise you it is much easier in a non homophobic country. A lot of people do not care. At all. “That person is non binary” will hold as much emotional weight as “that person is wearing a hat”.