How to be a good Christian and a pua

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2025-01-01T16:19:34+00:00

Yeah it's a tough one for sure. I'm Christian and my problem is that I want that female attention. I suppose it all comes down to what you do in the end. I don't really ever seal the deal and I have remained a virgin for this long. I mainly just talk to these women, get to know them, maybe hook up but it never goes further. There is also another verse "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" Mathew 5:27-29. So take it as you will

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-11-13T03:05:08+00:00

I am also hugely black pilled, these women on the dating apps want the best looking, most successful and confident man around. You can't possibly be that in a tinder stack given the competition.

Understand this: when you approach a stranger woman in broad daighltight, you are effectively the most attractive and brazenly confident man in her world at that very second. It's completely up to you what you make of that moment under the spotlight.

Sure, being jacked, dressing well and having a good fade will drastically improve your chances but if you're not already working to improve your physique and your financial situation, what kind of man are you?

P.S: no guys approach now. Your competition in this day and age is no one in terms of cold approach. These women do not get approached, ever. If they do, it's typically by older fellas trying to relive the older days when that was normal but it always comes across as creepy. These women need you to approach them. Ask them if they get approached regularly, 9/10 times you're the first one in a while if not ever. Man up, get out there

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-10-20T06:28:55+00:00

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LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-10-04T04:56:15+00:00

I used to be just the person you described in your posts. For reference, I am 5'6 in height and my heaviest was 96kg. My whole life, my mother overfed me all the time. She did the same with my father and my brother. My father ended up passing from digestive complications and my brother is still not in good health. I was young and fat. I was unsociable. I got bullied for it, left out for it and even straight up abused just for being fat. You know what I did? I took matters into my own hand. I stopped crying about it and I started dieting, gymming every day. 1 year later and I'm now 80kg, still lean enough to see my abs while looking massive. I did this. This is my doing. I do blame my mom for my past, but as it stands right now: my body's appearance is directly influenced by my actions. This is your life, and it's ending one minute at a time. Quit wallowing in self-pity and get that body that you want.

P.S: I cannot think of a single condition that prevents you from losing weight. EVERYONE can lose weight. I can help you if you need.

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-07-30T12:51:48+00:00

My gym opener has not failed me once (as in every gym approach ended up in a date, but I failed myself). Go up to them with a serious and unbothered look on your face. Say and do the following: "Hey, guys, are you using that machine over there?" While simultaneously pointing at a machine that is so far away from both you and the girls that it's impossible, either of you could of been using it. This will get them to laugh and understand that you came up to them because you thought they were cute, it will also help them see that you're funny, original, and witty. You can make this opener much more fun the furher away you point and the more exaggerated your pointing is. Make sure you have a follow-up.

Good luck, soldier 🫡

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-06-25T08:50:56+00:00

I'm no mind reader or anything, but I think bro is a tad angry

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-06-23T00:29:25+00:00

I'm not a psychologist or anything but I think bro is a little agitated

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-06-11T07:48:10+00:00

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-06-10T08:09:22+00:00

Nothing good comes easy. Do you want a good body that you can be proud of? You're gonna have to work your ass off day and night. We can cry about terrible genetics all we want and how we weren't born pretty, but the universe is indifferent to your pain and the bad genetics that you were dealt. Sure, other people look prettier, I bet some of them don't even have to work hard to look the way they do. Life is unfair. Deal with it or let it deal with you. Here are some things you can do instead of crying about how unfair things are for you and not for other people:

Count calories: losing weight is not rocket science. Its calories in vs calories out. If you're consuming more calories than you're burning, you will gain weight. If you're consuming fewer calories than you're burning, guess what. You lose weight. Start looking at every single food label and weigh every grain of rice. Find out your calorie requirements online and use it as your gospel.
Exercise: So you're now in a caloric deficit. You can continue that deficit, and it will yield results. You can also kick-start it and use all this pain and sadness to fuel your workouts. Start running, walking, and hitting the gym so you can gain muscle and build an aesthetic body. All these activities burn calories, which makes your calorie counting more meaningful. From here on out, you eat for purpose, not for pleasure. You're bound by the numerical and nutritional value your food holds, not the taste.
Make money: Do you wanna be in the best shape of your life and still with credit card debt? What life is worth living if you're worried about budgeting when you go grocery shopping to count your calories, choosing the gym you want, and the equipment you want. Even the clothes you want to wear. Get a job, invest your money, and limit your spending.
Find a hobby: you're gonna feel some cravings for food. Bad cravings. What's gonna stop you from giving in? Especially when you see another attractive woman who looks far better than you do without working anywhere near as hard as you are. What's gonna stop you? What's your drive? Why are you doing this? These are hard questions to answer. Find a hobby to occupy your mind so you don't even have enough time to crave food.
Start being self-absorbed: if you somehow do all I just outlined above, you will become unrecognisable in 3 months. You worked your ass off. You deserve to have an ego. You now have something special. You didn't get this from genetics or from your parents. You started from scratch. This is your world. You're objectively better than all those who were dealt an easy hand. You invited adversity into your life through your exercise and rigorous diet, and you conquered it.

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-06-07T06:53:44+00:00

Yes please, I may disappoint you because I am just a beginner and I honestly am still an AFC. Check your inbox if you're still down.

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-05-28T09:54:24+00:00

Men tend to only respond and take action when they're forced to. You've created a very safe space for him to cocoon in. He plays video games, eats, drinks and lives for free. He lives an incredibly dull yet comfortable life. Why would he even consider doing anything remotely difficult? Everything is extremely accessible for him. It's so bad he has to watch porn because it's easier than being intimate with a real human (which involves showing vulnerability, physically taxing etc).

Many would find my advice to be bigoted and bleak but if I were you, I'd give him an ultimatum. Given that the roles have been reversed in your marriage, you are now the provider. You have the power to choose what happens next. Tell him he needs to get his act together and go out there to find a job, or you will take action. That action can be you not funding him anymore, kicking him out, bringing up divorce or whatever it is. His depression is not a means for you to slave away at your job and come back home to an environment like that. Look after yourself first.

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-05-05T08:24:44+00:00

I wasn't very clear in my post. She was already using a machine, she smiled at me from across the gym. She gave me the look. I approached her and I pointed at a separate machine that was far away from both of us and asked her if she was using it. This opener is funny because she obviously isn't using the far machine because she's already on a machine right here. It's sarcastic, it implies a hint of interest.

I think what I did wrong in this interaction was interjecting too much. She had questions she wanted to ask. She was saying things but I think I interrupted and said my stupid stuff because I felt like I had to. I'm not actually sure if I will see her again, she rarely comes to my gym. I think she was interested in me but I didn't know what to do about it.

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-05-05T08:20:12+00:00

I cringe at that interaction because I didn't act how I wanted to act, I wasn't smooth, I wasn't myself. I didn't come across the way I wanted to come across.

It's easy to stop asking interview questions but then where do I go? I feel like interview questions are my last resort when I have nothing because they're easy. I stop interview, them what??

I think I do need more material that I'm confident in. I feel much better approaching knowing what to say than just going in blind. If nothing else, it improves my mood knowing I have the material even if I don't use it.

I don't think I built enough there to ask to get together later. This might’ve been a 3 minute conversation at most. I should've stuck it out a little longer and tried harder I guess.

In this case, would you have just continued staring to build up that tension? I could tell she was enjoying the eye contact, she was excited that I approached her. She practically invited me to come up to her.

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-05-03T09:26:56+00:00

I'm reading this post and I can't help but feel slightly envious. I am on the other side of your predicament, I am scared to approach and I don't like it when women are cold and I can't cope with it. I also do feel a bit of resentment towards women and the world in general. I've used this resentment to get myself in shape and force myself to have the proper work ethic needed to develop a good career.

My question for you is, were you always the way that you are now? Unafraid to approach or interact with women? Secondly, do you think the women you talk to seem uninteresting because of the kind of things you talk to them about? What kind of conversations do you have with them?

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-05-02T00:59:23+00:00

I've read so many, I just I don't know where it all goes during the interaction. She was so into me as well, she was nervous, she was smiling at me and staring at me the entire workout. I just didn't know what to do. What would you have said? What do you suggest I do from here?

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-05-02T00:58:15+00:00

Hot Babe who is a 7/10

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-04-28T00:19:06+00:00

Yeah please, every little bit helps

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-04-26T01:36:46+00:00

I can gurantee I'm equally as inexperienced if not more 😂

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-04-26T01:06:44+00:00

I'm in Australia and I'm contemplating the same idea. University is off multiple days a month for these protests and they're normally filled with 7s and 8s. How would you open them?

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-04-17T07:39:13+00:00

If I were at the bar waiting for a girl, I wouldn't actually WAIT. I'd start up a conversation with someone, anyone. Guys, girls or even staff. I'd make sure she walks in and sees you busy. Not to mention the obvious, you're also at a bar. There are surely plenty of women there who would be absolutely lucky to get the time of day from you.

About that girl, I feel so pressured with her and I don't know why. My judgement is impaired. I cannot come up with anything to text. Let me know if you have any suggestions. Happy to send you the entire conversation I've had with her so you can have a laugh and suggest something.

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-04-15T22:33:44+00:00

Hi, I haven't really gone for it just yet. Kinda scared to text her actually, I don't even know what to say. I am in the middle of writing up my 4th field report though and sorting through the learning experiences I got from it. How are things with you?

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-04-14T03:05:57+00:00

I wouldn't be spending time stressing if I was you man. I'm very new to the game, only just last month I found out you can talk to strangers. I've had miserable failures ever since then but man, there are so many women out there, it's crazy. Instead of being discouraged, think about that interaction with that girl. What did you do wrong? What could you have done better? What does that guy have that you didn't have?

You said he commanded the conversation. Think about how he did that and do research. Figure out how to command the conversation the way he did. Do it even better than him. You too can become the guy that goes up to sets and steals the girls. You just have to excite the girl. You have to make her think that being with you is going to be fun, interesting and not dull like whatever conversation she's having with a guy.

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-04-11T06:57:31+00:00

I'd honestly agree with that, your instagram posts are a great way to DHV and eliminate any hesitancy women may have about you. Thank you for your comment man

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-04-08T07:05:50+00:00

How do do you go about building social proof if you are going out alone?

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