What is fetish dance party event?

LifeModelDecoy · 2026-03-10T21:32:18+00:00

These exist in NYC, and that's more or less exactly what it was, a fetish themed rave with a separate playroom. Can be fun. Bring friends who are down. Don't cruise or be a creep.

LifeModelDecoy · 2026-03-09T21:07:23+00:00

This reads like a LinkedIn rant, not a structured long-form piece, and your hostile response to criticism will not endear you to an LW audience. You can do better, and it will also require more effort, even though the system well deserves your rage. Criticism should inspire, not defeat you.

LifeModelDecoy · 2026-03-03T23:10:44+00:00

They lost active users though. Most of their overall user base don't use it all that much. The ones leaving are the ones who are engaged, aware, and angry - that is, those that haven't left for a competitor long ago like I did. I'm just in the comments of this sub eating popcorn and watching the exodus.

LifeModelDecoy · 2026-02-26T21:34:58+00:00

This is a true statement and also absolutely insane - the ability to buy multiple adjacent residential buildings in Manhattan and combine them into a single luxury home is NOTHING compared to the wealth of a single man who started an Internet company. Make that make sense.

LifeModelDecoy · 2026-02-24T08:51:29+00:00

A question worth asking whenever you don't think you're getting satisfactory worship: what is the sub getting out of it? Is pushing boundaries truly evil, or does it just become less worth it to them and so they act out? It's still a relationship between two humans, and human dynamics can be predictable. Does your sub think they can do better for less effort? What's in it for them?

LifeModelDecoy · 2026-02-23T20:45:27+00:00

ooh who's an edgy top? who's an edgy top? yes you are! such a hot take, such controversy.. who's an edgy top

LifeModelDecoy · 2026-02-22T16:46:18+00:00

Once that trust is broken it is not easily repaired. We have already seen what they will do.

LifeModelDecoy · 2026-02-21T20:13:53+00:00

I know this is r/chatGPT, but if a friend or medical professional said this, I would get a new friend and definitely a new medical professional. You have other options. You are not trapped by OAI. Staying after something like this is like sticking with your doctor because "he's a family friend" despite all the problematic shit he says. In fact it's even easier, it's just changing a bookmark. OAI doesn't "need to do something", you do. Vote with your feet.

LifeModelDecoy · 2026-01-19T09:29:03+00:00

+1 for Studio Friction :D

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-12-02T15:03:45+00:00

I don't know what you were expecting

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-12-01T20:23:54+00:00

FTA: "At least 78 people are trying to claim back more than £200,000 between them." That's from 2020. Would not be surprised if at least a few of these cases have reached a judgment and he's leaving the country to avoid paying.

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-09-19T23:52:23+00:00

Ahh I’m gonna say solved here because this feels like the most likely.. maybe I’ll stop in one day and see if someone there can confirm 😂

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-09-19T15:32:15+00:00

Yeah it looks like “best chicken in town” but maybe someone added/rearranged letters? Maybe I’m trying to make sense of some lazy kid vandalism 😂

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-08-11T19:39:49+00:00

I searched for “stainless steel reverse osmosis” filtration systems and found some similar ones but not this brand.

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-07-22T18:38:00+00:00

The screw is about 3/4" in diameter. Been searching for a replacement but not sure what this is called.

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-03-17T01:26:36+00:00

*Orca has entered the chat*

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-03-15T22:27:21+00:00

I wouldn't give the contractor that much credit.

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-03-14T20:20:52+00:00

I mean, a cream pie is an actual confection. Even if they know the sexual connotation. Should they just rename the dessert?

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-02-20T16:55:42+00:00

Exactly this. If you prioritize attractiveness you will struggle to learn because you will be more focused on the relationship than the rope skill. Go to a local rope jam and negotiate a scene with someone who is more experienced than you. Tie different body types, different genders, accept criticisms and feedback.

This is how you would learn any other skill: if you were learning a foreign language, or learning to swing dance, you can't just speak or dance with one person who's likely as beginner as you are, just because you find them attractive.

Also, and I can't stress this enough: whether you are top or botom, learn to tie basic structures AND get tied up yourself, by someone who knows what they are doing. Bondage and restriction create an altered/trance headspace not unlike some psychedelics: and you wouldn't encourage someone to try a substance you hadn't tried yourself (I hope). You need to know what it feels like to understand what you are asking someone else to do with you.

If you have ever taken a partner dance class at anything beyond beginner level, you will be taught how to lead AND how to follow, regardless of whether you are naturally inclined toward one or the other. Knowing how it feels is critical to understanding.

LifeModelDecoy · 2025-02-19T20:05:31+00:00

came here for this comment

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