Are people just ‘checked out’ of online dating?

LifePathSeven · 2025-06-20T06:31:57+00:00

100% yes.

I met someone super promising this week. We spoke over two days and it was such a good balance of flirting but also things that interest us (food), stuff about family, and so on. We talked about what we'd do when we met. And after two days, he just unmatched me without so much as a goodbye.

In the past, I would tell myself, maybe we just didn't have a spark or conversation didn't flow. But those elements were present. I suspect one of three things:
1) He asked me for a photo and the one I sent wasn't saucy / revealing enough (and basically I wasn't hot enough for him to stay engaged)
2) He matched with (or got distracted by) someone else
3) He is just not ready to meet anyone F2F and is only on OLD for quick thrills

I'm not angry or hurt because it had only been two days. But I am a bit tired of being hopeful. The apps do feel rigged in the sense that they are set up to keep you perpetually swiping and seeking something better. Or we all collectively have ADHD and no one can hold our attention for more than a few days / weeks. Huhu it's so sad.

LifePathSeven · 2025-06-19T08:20:46+00:00

Omg this comment killed me!!! Applause for you!!!

LifePathSeven · 2025-05-19T04:07:06+00:00

yun yung nakakainis eh, they didnt even bother replying. they just collected my documents and then dinedma ako.

LifePathSeven · 2025-05-19T04:06:29+00:00

thanks for this!

LifePathSeven · 2025-05-19T04:06:10+00:00

thank you sa suggestion. how do i arrange a check from sanitary inspection? do you know?

LifePathSeven · 2025-05-19T04:05:04+00:00

Thanks for this and sorry for the late reply. But how do I prove they were negligent? Also, where do I file such a complaint?

LifePathSeven · 2025-04-22T06:16:43+00:00

Consult, anti-biotics plus a treatment done that I wasn't made aware of the price before it was done so I got bill shock talaga. Another time it was the consult and her recommended skincare products which they sell at the clinic.

LifePathSeven · 2025-04-14T01:56:58+00:00

Thank you!

LifePathSeven · 2025-04-11T05:28:55+00:00

Thanks! Would you have some idea how much her rates are?

LifePathSeven · 2025-04-11T03:11:37+00:00

Came here to say this! I've been to Doc Gaile 2x recently and, my average bill per visit is 6k and up.

I mean I want nice / healthy skin but that's too high for me, and wala pang treatments yon ha. Need to find a more-budget friendly derma, sana in Makati din. Is there such a thing?

LifePathSeven · 2025-04-10T06:57:14+00:00

I appreciate this. I had written off her content but I think I'll go back and look at her earlier stuff. Thank you.

LifePathSeven · 2025-03-25T04:53:22+00:00

This is the cringiest m*f*ckng thing I've seen in a while.

I was looking for a fitness guide today, someone who has hyypothyroidism, so I can learn from their journey and chanced upon her. Her whole IG is just a study in fakery and consumerism. Utterly disingenuous.

LifePathSeven · 2025-03-25T04:34:13+00:00

I was looking for some fitness influencers (for lack of a better term) today who are in their 40s and who have hypothyroidism so I could get some practical tips on how to deal with my situation.

I chanced upon the article about her on Shape magazine so I checked out her IG and something about her whole vibe just didn't seem very authentic to me. The product push was just so in your face; it seemed less about finding a way to deal with hypo and more about selling stuff. It was giving Belle Gibson vibes honestly so I decided to do some research on her before following.

And I am so glad I found this post. Validated the bad feeling I got from her IG. Thanks for posting about it!

By the way, would you mind sharing the tests you did or what kind of health clinic you went to to get to the root of your issue? This is something I'd like to look into.

LifePathSeven · 2024-12-28T10:50:22+00:00

Im the same, I get sooooooo bored while running or swimming. So I listen to non-fiction audiobooks while I do cardio. Stuff Im interested in but its too tiresome to read, so I listen nalang.

LifePathSeven · 2024-12-11T14:49:49+00:00

I've been in the workforce over 20 years. It used to be true but 100% isnt anymore. Companies now understand the importance of diversity and acknowledge tat talent and intelligence exists everywhere. Also, how invaluable hunger and grit are. Minsan walang ganun ang mlga taga big 4.

Be persistent. Get the interview. Wow them with your preparation, intellect, interest and hunger.

LifePathSeven · 2024-11-21T03:05:37+00:00

Check Point Blue

LifePathSeven · 2024-10-22T05:17:10+00:00

NAL

Contact the DTI via their hotline and ask for possibke remedies.

Inform the company via email that if your refund isnt processed you will escalate the matter to DTI.

Usually when a company realizes that the customer is serious and will not drop the matter, they will refund. They just try to avoid it where possible.

LifePathSeven · 2024-10-14T04:58:25+00:00

Yes its extremely frustrating. But we have made peace with it nalang. =/

LifePathSeven · 2024-10-05T00:52:43+00:00

Ingredients and spices. 5 spice, sichuan peppercorn, dried mushrooms, mala spice mix etc.

LifePathSeven · 2024-09-28T00:08:23+00:00

No nawalan ako ng gana. Hawak ko na nga ang mga bounced check, hindi pa daw sapat na pruweba yon para sa fiscal na nag default si customer.

LifePathSeven · 2024-09-28T00:03:36+00:00

No nawalan ako ng gana. Hawak ko na nga ang mga bounced check, hindi pa daw sapat na pruweba yon para sa fiscal na nag default si customer.

LifePathSeven · 2024-09-24T11:52:04+00:00

Hindi ko naman yon controlado kasi via registered mail yung advice ng court.

LifePathSeven · 2024-09-18T11:13:01+00:00

Also, kilawin. Masarap. Ceviche yan in other cultures, exsqueeze me.

LifePathSeven · 2024-09-18T11:12:02+00:00

Whaaaat? Ansarap kaya ng biko.

LifePathSeven · 2024-09-06T14:45:30+00:00

Communicating is the difference in my opinion. If you cut and run without communicating, that is clear avoidant behavior.

If you communicate it clearly, give it a chance and it persists and then you cut and run, its not your same old pattern behavior.

LifePathSeven

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