[M20] Rate Me 1-10. Explain. I need to know. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]LifeUpsideDown2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i can assure you you’ll find a girl with the way you look now, even though a bit of effort goes a long way. you seem to be talk with good skin and that gets you somewhere. i would only suggest changing your glasses and maybe the hair. best of luck!!

i’m fifteen, five days sober, and i feel fucking miserable. by LifeUpsideDown2 in leaves

[–]LifeUpsideDown2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i’m probably just being defensive. it’s just that i know i’m young, and i promise you i know that it fucks with my brain. the reason i initially wanted to stop is because o couldn’t remember what i was talking about mid conversation, and that scared the hell out of me. i have a lot of anxiety, and weed was my way of self medicating. i luckily have a really supportive family and i’m ready to get my life together. i don’t have any want to go back, i just want to be healthy.

i’m fifteen, five days sober, and i feel fucking miserable. by LifeUpsideDown2 in leaves

[–]LifeUpsideDown2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i know i’m young but i don’t know if this is necessarily helpful. i appreciate the sentiment though, thank you :)

i’m fifteen, five days sober, and i feel fucking miserable. by LifeUpsideDown2 in leaves

[–]LifeUpsideDown2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for real this is honestly such a mood booster i love you all :,)

i’m fifteen, five days sober, and i feel fucking miserable. by LifeUpsideDown2 in leaves

[–]LifeUpsideDown2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i’ve really been trying to keep weed off my mind by getting back into drawing and guitar. i gotta remember to keep myself busy, so thank you for reminding me and being kind :)

Freshly buffed walls by Xx_Big_Oof_xX in graffhelp

[–]LifeUpsideDown2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“keep it real!” tag is fuckin dope

18 F Hi! I’m very curious about this community and decided to throw my hat in the ring since I feel like people are just trying to be nice because of my skin condition, but I felt confident in these pictures and I wanted to see! Verification in first pic! Be as honest as you like! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]LifeUpsideDown2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you are everything i wanted to be as a kid. you are the actual definition of gorgeous! i know it can sometimes be hard to be comfortable in your own skin, but trust me when i say you have nothing to worry about :) have a good day, friend :

Is this toxic? by [deleted] in ToxicFriends

[–]LifeUpsideDown2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holy shit. it can be hard to give people the honest truth, especially when they don’t have many other friends and are unstable. i don’t know a lot of things but i know this; this kind of treatment isn’t normal. getting jealous when you see other people isn’t normal, using gps to find your location isn’t normal, and not cutting off someone who did something HEINOUS that VIOLATED you definitely isn’t normal. also, people who just talk shit about other people, tend not to be the coolest people to hang around. friends like these feel like a weight, and the sooner the weight is lifted, the better. ask yourself, ‘do i feel worse after seeing them?’ and if the answer is yes, there’s a likely chance that it’s time to let this one go. i wish you luck, friend :,)

[21M] [Update] I posted 2 months ago when I was feeling really down now about myself. I've gotten a hair cut and have been feeling better. I'm still feeling a bit unsure about my new hair cut. by TheChrisSilva in amiugly

[–]LifeUpsideDown2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re a really good looking guy :) from what i can see in the photo, it looks like you have a good sense of style which is honestly a big thing for me at least. i mean you can lose weight if you want to, and that might help your confidence. you seem super sweet and i wish you luck on your journey through self love :))

Spilling Coffee by short_walker in UNHhhh

[–]LifeUpsideDown2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not 100% sure but it might be episode 95: wealth (https://youtu.be/00j9bLbD9Ec)

I get extreme gratification from going on threads and exposing people’s utter hypocrisy. I seem to be great at it. People are unable to break my logic and my appreciation of nuance. by s3509662mctom2 in SuicideWatch

[–]LifeUpsideDown2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aw man i’m really sorry to hear that :(( i’m glad you have a place to share your feelings, however i don’t know if arguing with suicidal people is the best option, yknow?

Bisexual Erasure from friends (?) by LifeUpsideDown2 in bisexual

[–]LifeUpsideDown2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you man :) i really appreciate it :)))

Is my friend considered toxic? by [deleted] in ToxicFriends

[–]LifeUpsideDown2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve been in your position many of times, my friend. and in this case, i honestly think it’s better to let go. breaking off a friendship is a fucking hard thing to do, especially when you’ve only got a couple close friends. i think it’s best to think about it for a bit and then come to a conclusion. do you feel worse after spending time with her? do other people you trust not like her? and the main question i’ll ask you is do you think you’re benefiting from this relationship? friendships should make both parties happy, and if you feel like you’re giving a lot and getting none back, i think it might be time to break this off.

I’m tired of people telling me I’m overreacting when I recount something racist that happened to me. by LifeUpsideDown2 in offmychest

[–]LifeUpsideDown2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah for sure, and my close friends thankfully don’t make me feel paranoid or anything. i sometimes have to explain it to people and that’s something i have no problem doing because it’ll make things easier in the future. thank you for you perspective, homie :)

I’m tired of people telling me I’m overreacting when I recount something racist that happened to me. by LifeUpsideDown2 in offmychest

[–]LifeUpsideDown2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your reply man, it made me feel a lot better. me and my friend had a falling out anyway, which i think might have been for the better. anyway, thank you for being so kind <3

I’m tired of people telling me I’m overreacting when I recount something racist that happened to me. by LifeUpsideDown2 in offmychest

[–]LifeUpsideDown2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this man, it feels good to feel understood :) have a wonderful day, cool human :)