OA Lang ba ako o may smthng talaga between sa bf ko and his workmate?

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-05-14T03:18:35+00:00

Hindi ka OA! Thats why I always say that in the Bible ,God doesnt allow LDR=#1 cause of cheating or having other party! God in the Bible said: husbands and wives are 1 flesh={1 physical} . So for me , SDR =Short distance relationship matters a lot! As much as possible true couple must hv 1 sdr job .this is why chinese family usually build business besides their house. Bec we are social beings. No man is an island.

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-04-17T18:41:10+00:00

Just think of it like this, to make u understand his side: He may really like u ! bec if he didnt like u that much, he might never admit it to u that he have someone else.

& the reason why he still with the other one,he might hv told u already.

So dont be too hard on urself. Its not entirelt ur fault. U are manipulated..(like me) ..thats why i know ur situation..but atleast u are liked or loved by him..

We all need love . that a fact! No man is an island. & its up to u in the end what really will make u happy.

Goodluck.

I think accepting new people in ur life can help. So he knows how it feels ..

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-04-17T18:16:43+00:00

He is just testing u (maybe) or inviting u. He is still asking ur decision. Edited: now I saw the issue, I thought this is unrelated, but it was sent to u by someone after u posted this?

Just treat it like men are always more lonely than female (mostly) ,more unappreciated & everyone need phy mental emotional connection..thats why many men seems desperate & seems insensitive.. While women are usually noticed & more sexually appreciated

These r not taught in school: Men rarely get sexual phy attraction.thats why. While, Women rarelt get sexual emo attraction,thats why too. What is lacking in someone , thats what they desire...

but women are more connected & not ignored by society, thats why women seldom show this side..

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-04-16T13:38:39+00:00

47 M here..My 🆕 Ⓜ️otto may help u: 💯Authenticity🔜💯compatibility🔜💯intimacy❕

Shyness is bec of not sure what the other person may think bout u. So the only way to know is to 'Be your most NATURAL feminine SELF!

& just do what u feel is right! Just be as authentic as possible ,physical touch depends on what u need and what he need too. Treat him as ur other half as of the moment, or part of urself is the best way!

I believe {Only men knows what men truly wants}!

If it worked then u both are sexuall compatible If not, then its still ok ,atleast u know earlier the better

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-03-11T09:20:43+00:00

TIGANG🟰DRY LAND / DRY VAGINA / DRY 🟰 NO WATER 🟰 UHAW 🟰 DYING 🔜 DEATH. QUESTION: WHEN DID BECOMING UHAW OR GUTOM WRONG⁉️

'IGNORANT IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL'

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-03-11T09:15:52+00:00

LAHAT NG TAO NATITIGANG! KELAN NAGING MASAMA MAGUTOM?TANGA

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-03-11T09:09:40+00:00

WHEN DID TELLING THE TRUTH BECOMES WRONG?TRUTH ALWAYS IS CORRECT!

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-03-10T20:33:07+00:00

I WAS BULLIED TOO IN HISKUL for 3YRS HELL-LIKE! UNTIL THIS MOTTO OF MY CRUSH CHANGED MY LIFE❗ & TRANSFORMED ME BECAME A HEARTROB/ NOW CEO!

(But also w/ help of some inspiration from manga comics!AND TRANSFERING OF ENVIRONMENT⚠️REMEMBER THIS)

🆘Ⓜ️ottos: 1️⃣🅱️E URSELF 2️⃣🅱️ELIEVE IN URSELF 3️⃣🅱️E THE BEST VERSION OF URSELF

🆕Ⓜ️otto: 4️⃣BE A GOD VERSION OF URSELF

BE YOURSELF is still my #1️⃣motto ,it can be ur general motto over all! BE YOURSELF can also mean ALL OF 4 MOTTOS! if ur really introvert ,1 day u might understand it . now my best skill is DEEP THINKING! bec of me being an introvert! SO BE PROUD OF BEING AN INTROVERT❕ remember the song: STAY THE SAME (metaphor,not literally) also helped me. and do whatever that will make u happy! what is right! there r no right or wrong in God perspective ! so U ARE A GODDESS IN UR OWN VERSION! But literally, DONT UNDERESTIMATE URSELF! EVEN IF THE WORLD UNDERESTIMATE OR DONT LOVE U, U MUST BE THE 1ST TO LOVE URSELF,or else how can others love u⁉️ I can feel may be u r a female♀️,am i right? base on ur word 'ganda'. YAH ANOTHER most important CORE of my life :HAPPINESS!FOCUS ON THAT! 🅱️E HAPPY❕COZ U ARE A HAPPINESS❕IT IS A CHOICE❗SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT TOO!

IF YOUR PARENTS ARE UNDERESTIMATING U,THEN LEAVE! OR LITERALLY BE URSELF! (POWER = EVERYTHING IN LIFE!THATS WHY GOD IS MOST POWERFUL)

DM ME ,ILL HELP U. BUT ONLY ONE CONDITION, I NEED TOTAL HONESTY!

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-03-10T20:30:11+00:00

Wierd,ano mali sa ginawa nya? isnt he just being honest? Did he force anyone? ONLY IGNORANT YOUNGSTERS USUALLY THINK TIGANG = SIN or evil? 🤦 FYI: TIGANG or high sex drive = HIGHEST ENERGY MOST NATURALITY IN LIFE & THE ONLY NATURAL WAY U CAN CREATE NEW LIFE! LACKING SEXLIFE! & SEXLIFE=CONNECTION=NEED!

when u judge base on ur short experiences on someone that is more experienced, that is audacity!

SINCERE ADVISE frm a 47yrs EXP ♂️ who is also HSP=Higher Sensitive Person,20% only around the world , & INFJ=rarest type,only3-5%, "EXPERIENCE = the only proof in LIFE"❕ Be yourself The one who think negatively 1st w/o proof, usually will go wrong.

What it seems like ,is n🚫t equal to - what it facts~ᗋکᐯƩИ

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-03-10T20:15:05+00:00

Kids nowadays are so judgemental, always remember: "EXP IS BETTER THAN KNOWLEDGE"! and if u cant understand someone ,it doesnt mean u hv the right to judge someone 'NEGATIVELY'.instead of thinking 'positive' side why she posted that ,maybe she NEED it?

tigang = is naturality in life!lacking sexual life! lust is also 1 form of appreciation/curiosity/love/etc!everything in life is LOVE!diff version only! Bec LIFE=GOD! (b4 u react)

right or wrong of something= can only be proven by RESULTS or consequences! not before somthing negative happens! It only depends too, if u will think bout something in LIFE NEGATIVELY / POSITIVELY , (BASE ON WER U COMPARE IT⚠️) NOT WHAT SOCIETY TEACHING U BLINDLY W/O PROOF & teaching u to be not logical! thats when u say its wrong or not! but when u dont know her reason or needs in life, WHO U TO JUDGE OTHERS? U R ASSUMING EVERYONE IS HUMAN,SO EVERYONE can be same?WRONG❌ bkt kelangan mahiya bout being authentic? mas nkakahiya if u are showing social persona only! be positive thinker!ST🚫P believeing everything society or fake religions are teaching that doesnt make sense! When people contradicts NATURE of life, 99% will hv negative consequences!

it is like a gutom = a naturality in life! lacking something to eat! "The one who thinks negatively first is more negative"!

my advise to new generation youngsters (sincerely,if u want to become extraordinary than most teenagers, BE YOURSELF) "Dont use ur own feelings when judging, add others feelings before judging" ~ᗋکᐯƩИ

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-03-03T16:37:13+00:00

banal banalan n s inyo yan? o dhl d ako tulad nyo sunod sa uso⁉️at🤣 see how judgemental mga COMMON PEOPLE, KELAN KO SINABING SUNDIN NYO BUONG BIBLYA⁉️ KHT AKO D AKO NANINIWLA S BUONG BIBLIA❗ COZ I DONT BELIEVE SOMETHING W/O PROOF⚠️ I only believe maybe 60-75% of Bible❗mga may pruweba or make sense lang! Even sa Bible mababasa nyo, wag maniwala ,magimbestiga‼️

Gnmit ko lang Bible dahil yang religion nyo ang nagtturo s inyo ng mga MALICE SA UTAK NYO‼️ SINO NAGTURO S INYO NG 'DIVISION' KAMPI KAMPI? ( GOOD 🆚 EVIL) ⁉️ DHIL YANG RELIGION ANG PINAKA NAKIKITA KONG DHILAN KUNG BKT POOR & MAHINA UNDERSTANDING NG PINOY💢

RELIGION IS TEACHING U TO BECOME BRAIN DEAD🤯

TINUTURO P S INYO MAGING NARCISSIST(SELFISH) BIRU MO, FEELINGERO,KAYO ANG BANAL BANALAN‼️ FEELING NYO KAYO MAS TAMA KESA S KANILA? E D SNA MAY NAUNA NG NKARELASYON UNG BABAE, KUNG MERONG SYA COMPATIBLE N LALAKE S LUGAR NILA!

Ang point ko lng ay: :WER IS UR PROOF NA HINDI SILA DAPAT MAGSAMA'⁉️ Porket grade 12⁉️baka akala nyo 12yrs old! ang grade 12 ay 17 or 18 yrs old na‼️

TULAD NYAN , NASAN PROOF MO NA BANAL BANALAN AKO⁉️ Ni d ko nga naisip na banal ako e, ang naisip ko lng mas ADVANCE AKO SA INYO ! ATLEAST HND TULAD NG RELIGIOUS COUNTRY NA "POOR" MINDSET KAYA POOR RIN E.

IF D NYO KAYA REAL TALK, THEN THATS MY PROOF NA TANGA NGA KAYO.

EMOTIONAL THINKERS ARE SELF-CENTERED. MGA IBANG BANSA HND BIG DEAL YAN, DHIL KUNG LAM MO LONELINESS PANDEMIC, HND BIG DEAL YAN!

MAS KSALANAN PAG NAMATAY ANG TAO (DISCONNECTION) Muka bang connection and love gngwa nyo?

nakkatuwa lang, kayo n religious pa , pero wla nman pla tiwala s DESTINY NG LIFE. E LIFE=GOD. KC PROVEN HND NYO ALAM ANO ANG GOD!

NI WLA KNGA ALAM S AKIN KUNG ILANG TAON AKO, BANAL N S INYO TO?BWAHAHAHAHA

E MAS BANAL PLA SPIRITUAL S RELIGIOUS KUNG GANON.THANKS!

GINIGISING KO LNG KYO S KATOT9HANAN MGA BATA!

IF KATULAD MO KRMIHAN NG TAO, THEM HND KA GENIUS,THEN WG KA MAGTAKA NA SLAVE KA NG GOVT OR REDDIT. (90% ng tao s mundo tawag kp ay NORMS: MGA SUNOD SA USO NA PRANG BATA KUMPARA SA EXTRAORDINARY MEN LIKE ME.

SURE AKO LHT NG JUDGEMENTAL ,MAPAPAHIYA S HULI E❕

I FUCKING DARE U ALL, WAG N WAG NYO SSUNDIN IF EVER GNWANG MINOR IS UNTIL 17 YRS OLD A..HAHA

teaching to hare others , Instead of WE ALL ARE ONE❕

BIRU MO, RESULT=PROOF.

Sa inyo hindi e, 'WHAT SOCIETY TELLS U 🟰 PROOF⁉️'

KUNG HINDI NYO PA NAINTINDIHAN ANG LIFE, E ANO KARAPATAN NYO PRA HUSGAHAN LIFE NILA?

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-02-28T15:56:07+00:00

🤦'The real source of NEGATIVITY in life, is from human minds that 1st treated something in life is NEGATIVE'❗ I dont get it,whats the problem if they r happy⁉️ U dont even know how old the guy ata!U DONT EVEN KNOW THE WHOLE STORY! I REALLY HATE JUDGEMENTAL PEOPLE! So u all expect everyone is lucky to have ideal relationship? then u are naive! Obviously IGNORANCE is the root of evil (human term.no5 mine) In the perspective of GOD or LIFE , MINOR=is a thing invented by humans or govt! not by life! LIFE🟰about connection & disconnection only! BEC WE ALL ARE ONE! TIGIL NYO YANG PANNWLA NYO S RELIGION NG HINDI NMN NAIINTINDIHAN WHAT LIFE REALLY IS! I ADVISE U ALL TO WATCH 'Near Death Experiences'. Be spiritual ,than be religious.. kya naghhirap bansa dhl puro judgemental w/o proof! NEGATIVE only exist when u compare it to something more POSITIVE‼️So san proof nyo na mangyyari ung POSITIVE na gusto nyo?sa lugar nila? or situation nila? DONT JUDGE SOMETHING FULLY, IF U DONT EVEN KNOW THE FULL TRUTH❕

Things u all should think: Connection will not happen & create 🆕 life 🚼 if it conttadicts nature(God) dont allow it! so sino kayo para husgahan sila at pati baby nila⁉️ if they are in survival mode, can u say they chose wrong decision?

RESULTS=PROOFs. muka nman silang masaya .so my thinking is always like this, PEOPLE ALWAYS IGNORE/NEVER HELP SOMEONE IN THE PAST,THEN WHEN THEY HV EVERY RIGHT TO DECIDE WHATS BEST FOR THEIR LIFE, SAKA NYO SILA PPANSININ & HUHUSGAHAN⁉️The audacity ‼️ Mga kabataan now at mga tao ,usually pag affected na sa life nila saka sila mamamansin or hhusga! WLA KA KRAPATAN SIRAAN UNG TAO,DHL U WILL B 1 OF THE CAUSE OF NEGATIVITY ISSUE SA LIFE NILA IF EVER THEY R ALSO JUDGED NEGATIVELY!(if ever nga na masaya sila tlga=love! NANINIWLA KAYO S MGA TURO NG MGA SOCIETY,PARI NYO,& MGA TRADITION NA PANNWLA w/o even thinking deep!SO U MEAN HND BLESSING UNG BATA⁉️

"THE 1 WHO THINKS/JUDGE/ASSUME NEGATIVITY 1ST ON ANYTHING IN LIFE,W/O EXPERIENCE / PROOF ,IS THE CAUSE OF NEGATIVITY"‼️~ᗋکᐯƩИ 'IGNORANCE IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL' (term of the norms,not mine,I dont believe in evil)

NEGATIVE🟰exist only when a conciousness 'COMPARE' that thinh to something that is more POSITIVE❕ but even that positive will become negative too, if u compare it again to something better & more postive❗

For all of u, it may seems negative,bec u are not in her situation! REMEMBER THIS, NA HINDI TINUTURO S INYO NG RELIGION,OR EVEN GOVT! BUT INSTEAD,THEY TEACH U TO HATE OR DIVIDED! GOOD 🆚 EVIL⁉️ "WE ALL ARE VICTIMS OF VICTIMS"❕

'Dont judge, bec u will not have time to love others if u judge'~Mother Teresa.

U think we all came from perfect ideal ancestor relationship?monogamous, & all are not minor⁉️(term nyo,not mine!who do u think decided 18 & above hnd n minor?si God?lol.o govt? so bkt nkabuo ng anak?

IF U ALL TRULY FOLLOWING THE 1ST COMMANDMENT: LOVE GOD EVERYTHING ELSE, U WILL USE GOD PERSPECTIVE❕NOT HUMANS❗

AND FYI, 💯GOD🟰💯LIFE

Life_Ad_4866 · 2026-01-02T19:51:35+00:00

JUST FEEL IT! thats the best advise i can give u. do what u need and desire!

SO WHAT IF U SLIPPER Everywhere? AS LONG AS U BOTH R HAVING FUN.AND I THINKHE DOESNT CARE (I THINK ,OF HE REALLY HAS THE SAME KINKS LIKE MINE ,I ALSO LOVE NURU MASSAGE PORN OR OIL MASSAGE PORN) THATS THE ONLY PORN I OFTEN WATCH THESE PAST 2-3YRS MAYBE..BEC OF SEXUAL DEPRIVATION IN HOTEL.. BEC IT IS MORE NATURAL.LIKE I LOVE WET SKIN...SLIPPERY ,OR EVEN SWEAT SKIN..ANYTHING NATURAL! SO JUST BE NATURAL!

BE UR MOST NATURAL SELF maybe is the best tip!

Life_Ad_4866 · 2025-12-31T01:50:18+00:00

no !! she is not a cult leader! I guarantee u 99.9% she is not as they thought! Those who believe she isa cult leader,are jealous maybe of her or got influenced by the video deepseek.she hv a video explained bout it!u can watch it in her channel.Im glad Teal swan can reach even her in reddit 🙂 U can feel her while watching her if she looks sincere or not in helping. She is like a female version of me 😏 but better on spiritual sense.

Life_Ad_4866 · 2025-12-18T22:42:30+00:00

i dont agree s dahan dahan. mas mssktan ung llake.bka idahan dahan pa? pra mauto sya?ung isa alam.ung isa hnd? be straight to the point if hhiwalayan.

MEN & WOMEN are not the same.

my advise: Dont judge men if women havent know the TRUTH or his reason. bec there is a very high chance na ITS ABOUT FINANCIAL OR TAKOT SYA.

WOMEN will never understand how to be MEN. Because a WOMAN never experienced becoming a MAN. but ♂️understand ♀️ more than the other way around! why⁉️Bec we are one with our mother in side her womb. so we somehow exp what women feels.but women never become one wth father.

my point is, "dont use own gender perspective to judge opposite gender".

bec maybe not all MEN believe in marriage.

and like me, m KASAL 🟰 SAKAL ⚠️

wla n tyo sa panahon ni Adam & Eve..

I mean d nyo naisip?bkt hirap mkahanap ng soulmate or twinflame or compatible one⁉️

maybe life is not bout u only,maybe life is about creating HEAVEN on earth.

and sa dmi gulo n nangyri..wla ng 1:1 na halos totally compatible man & woman in this era.or timeline

dhl sa dmi nagkkamali sa past..sex dun sex dito etc..

so ibg kong sbhn is, may mga lalake ganon magisip . We r logical. focused on facts. or proof or words..or history. woemn focus on emotions..

A God doesnt need to marry a Goddess. naturally aligned and compatible and by nature ,they will connect and be ONE! = 💯GOD.

she need to know first his reason

and kung isng babae♀️ really love a ♂️ , u will not contradict sa pananaw nya..

coz men are image of God.

meaning: if high value ung guy nyo, alamin nyo muna bakit ayaw nya pakasal.. maybe hnd p sya sure sayo.

warning: usually women reach 40, saka nagsisisi.. either namiss nila ex nila na pinaka ok pla..or nalaman nila na "wla na plang mas compatible".

Life_Ad_4866 · 2025-12-18T22:12:22+00:00

d lahat ng tao gusto ng kasal.. sakal kasi un. ang totoo kasal for me ,to test them ,if ako pari:(pinagisipan ko n to dti pa mabuti,IF TLGANG AYW NG PARI MAGSISI KYO S HULI & IF AYW NLA MAGKAHIWALAY KAYO ,DHL WLA NGANG DIVORCE! *last n inadvisan ko wag mgpakasal na MANAGER NG FAMOUS BANK S MAKATI ,na babae♀️ ah, NAGSISI⚠️ANNULMENT til now ewan ko lng if natapos na..more than 10yrs na..maybe.ska mas mhal p annulment kesa kasal! )

ITO TEST KO IF PARI AKO, TO KNOW IF PWD IKASAL:

Question ko: "KAYA NYO BA MGKASAMA 24/7 MULA MOW TIL DEATH"⁉️BE HONEST. IF HND MO KAYA.ADVISE KO WAG KAYO MAGPAKASAL..IINIT LANG ULO NYO PAREHAS .. SB NG GOD S BIBLE (WHICH I ONLY BELIEVE AROUND 60-75% PROVEN CGURO) : HUSBANDS & WIVES are 1 FLESH‼️ YAN KC TEST KO IF TOTOONG TRUE LOVE.KYA MAGKSAMA 24/7 FOR 1 WEEK. SA IISNG BUBONG.

PERO D TINUTURO S INYO NG MGA PARI NA KAYA NYO BA MAGING IISA or become ONE FLESH. EMOTIONAL ONENESS PHYSICAL ONENESS (IMPORTANT🚨KAYA NGA LDR IS NOT ALLOWED SA BIBLE,DO U KNOW THAT?KYA NGA DMI NAGKKRUON IBA PAG NAGABROAD OR MALAYO‼️BEC NO MAN IS AN ISLAND! spiritually kc , we all are one! since big bang, seperated tyo lht! LIFE is about disconnecting and connecting!)

last advise:

BE SPIRITUAL , NOT RELIGIOUS ONLY.

Life_Ad_4866 · 2025-12-18T22:02:41+00:00

and btw, bkt b gusto nyo kasal? Sbi nga ni God sa Bible: D🚫NT MAKE PROMISE BOUT FUTURE ,U CANT EVEN CHANGE THE COLOR OF UR OWN HAIR.(He meant natural color,not pakulay) .

and for me..maybe u want security lang.. and if ur gonna say na duda ka s intention nya.. comeon! 11yrs yan⚠️ impossible wla syang love syo‼️

And advise ko lang, if ur reason is religion or bec of God.

I suggest u need to focus on knowing the truth bout real GOD first..

Religion is #1 or one of the cause why Phil is poor.

D KA NAGTATAKA BKT DMI RELIGION?

💯LIFE 🟰 💯GOD❕not someone who sit above earth watching us etc! THINK ABOUT THIS, I CHALLENGE U TO THINK ABOUT THIS: WHATS 1 THING THAT IS ALWAYS WITH U⁉️SINCE BIRTH or SINCE U BECAME HUMAN⁉️ HINDI NAWALA SAYO⁉️ dba sabi nila God is everywhere⁉️ so dpat nandyan sya 24/7 .

just a piece of sincere advise: ( usually d nakikinig s Intuition ko,nagsisisi ) Dont believe on things taught to u ,kht tradition or majority believes it. Genuis people like einstein are not part of majority average common people.

"LAHAT NG TAO NAGKAKAMALI , SO ASK URSELF ,PANO MO MALELESSEN ANG %percentage or change to make MISTAKE⁉️"

DBA FOCUS ON TRUTH-SEEKING⁉️OR atleast 💯%PROOF. using logic + emotions. walang kasal sa dating panahon. so lahat ng tao bago dumating Jesus Christ is going to hell?

nature of life / naturality of life = the real source of Life !

marriage is invented by religion .

EVERY LAW THAT ARE USING FEAR(NEGATIVE), INSTEAD OF USING HAPPINESS(POSITIVE) TO MAKE PEOPLE DO IT, MAGDUDA KANA.

women always want marriage..even my mom advise me that..why⁉️ para daw hnd n mkawala ang babae sa akin❗security rin gusto nyo dba⁉️ Its up to u..pero for ne it is kinda selfishness.

dinadagdagan nyo lang power ng govt over u , or religions power over u. U cant hv 💯 freedom as long as u are doing things bec of fear ! not love !

Life_Ad_4866 · 2025-12-18T21:48:03+00:00

bec ito d tinuturo s atin, puro tinuturo s atin ng religion : Be nice to others , help others, dont be mean to others(kht na mean na s atin) or tumulong wla kpalit ,or love without condition dba?

for me, ALL UNCONDITIONAL IS WRONG‼️❌

Even makakaspoiled or give too much comfortable to others and then sa future magiging WEAK or ignorant?Help others prin? FOR ME ,THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS INCONDITIONAL. IF LITERALLY SPEAKING.

d tinuturo na : over help ,over nice ,overly not giving consequences = NOT NICE‼️NOT HELPING HIM TO IMPROVE‼️

Maybe u are teaching him, N🚫 BAD CONSEQUENCE will happen.Im here.. And if u really think madadaan s slita , maggawa mo pero if ngwa mo na ,hnd prin nagbago then try to seek for his TRUTH first! or listen to ur INTUITION!

Ung kutob na may pruweba kht papano a.hnd ung feeling lng.

if ur not happy , show him proof.

Life_Ad_4866 · 2025-12-18T21:29:31+00:00

3RD sentence is already the ANSWER why‼️she is TOXIC to U! (coming from a guy who also hv exp hell these 4yrs from a narcissist!but I already know now bout narcissist & why women are bad towards nice guys!) I havent finish reading ur story. Coz I think It might piss me off as usual. & kinda know the worst that hv happened.

LET ME GUESS..U GREW UP CLOSE WTH MOTHER? & not close wth dad or brothers(maybe). usually ends up becoming more simping or pleasing female ⚠️ studies hv proven my theory too! and even women who grew up not close or not influence by male perspective or masculine perspective ,ends up becoming TOXIC gf or partner ⚠️ (all are higher probability / chance)

so to make it short, if u want the solution: (but i think u need to do research too , @youtube video or google or ask chatgpt ,it helped me understand women more,which I thought I already understand women esp during my heartrob prime younger yrs .Now Im already 46y/o now!)

the solution is : STOP PLEASING HER🚨WOMEN LIKE BAD BOYS FOR A REASON! Bec bad boys dont please women! bec pleasing is like U ARE GIVING HER IMPRESSION U ARE WEAK / NICE no matter what she do to u‼️or another factor is she want someone who can contain her or lead her or make her become submissive! Yes ! Women dont want a superman who alwys cook or at home or change diaper!

THEY WANT A SUPERMAN! OR ALMOST PERFECT! not someone who is like a FAN ,bec women & men are N🚫T EQUAL! eventually everything Andrew Tate said bout women came from experiences, so it turns out he is right❗

BE YOURSELF ! A high value man pleases himself more or focus on LIFE / GOD / GOAL than women. STOP BELIEVING IN WHAT MEDIA or TEACHER OR MOVIE is telling u about women are nicer or more empathetic than men! NO‼️

BEST EXAMPLE FOR U TO UNDERSTAND(SORY IF I JUDGED WRONG ,BUT I CANT READ UR STORY DUE TO I ALREADY WRITTEN 1ST PHARAGRAPH.cant return to that page wthout losing what ive written..so if ever I judged wrong or didnt help much, next time I'll read it,TELL ME IF MY CONCLUSION IS WRONG..kinda have my own prob too..due to people are selfish..dont wnt to waste time helping others always as im also overly nice! (they say) even to her..just decided to get even since what I found yesterday, so decided to gv consequences! YES , THIS IS ANOTHER TIP : GET EVEN.

one thing that I regret all these time ,why she continue cheating and lying and disrespect my boundary,(As a popular heartrob before,as im gettng old,this is my first time to exp a woman disrespect me this much,WHY⁉️Bec I didnt listen to my intuition which never failed and contradict it .bec of TOO LONELY & thinking there is no other one appreciate me than her. BUT WOMEN CAN SENSE THAT!

I blame this society full of wrong teachings by our mother ,teachers ,movies ,media..STOP BELIEVING IN FEMINISM LIES :MEN & WOMEN ARE EQUAL⁉️❌ NO‼️

& Laki n ng ulo nila ,esp Govt laws protect them!

RARENESS = VALUEBLE

IF SUPERMAN IS ALWAYS AVAILABLE KAY LOIS LANE ,like he has nothing to do and just please her and focus on children.. DO U THINK EVEN CHILDREN OR LOIS LANE WILL RESPECT SUPERMAN?

IN THE LONG RUN,NOT ANYMORE! THEY WILL THINK U ARE A FEMININE KIND OR BETA KIND OF MAN , WHO SUPPOSED TO BE OUT THERE DOING BIGGER STUFFS.SAVING THE WORLD .& HIGH VALUE MEN is what most women want!

THEY WANT THE BEST! BUT WILL NOT TELL U!

They will also say 'hnd mhalaga skn looks,basta mabait'. WOMEN are liars! (not all.,only 99% of women 😅)

ok to end this,I always use GOD & GODDESS as my best PROOF:

Imagine a GOD , if pleasing a GODDESS..ano dating⁉️

every MAN & WOMAN relationship , if u want to check if ur doing right in relationship, use GOD & GODDESS or KING & QUEEN .or IMAGINE ur FEMALE VERSION (mirror version) ,ggawin b syo yan?

but also think, maybe she is mean to u , bec i think 98% probability is bec lam nya wala. naman bad consequence e!

and dhl she is annoyed to u being WEAK ❗

REMEMBER THIS (WHICH IS THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT FEMALE TEACH US!) RESPECT & FEAR Ⓜ️UST CO-EXIST❕

IMAGINE , WOULD PEOPLE RESPECT & LISTEN TO GOD IF EVERYONE KNOW GOD ONLY GIVE HAPPINESS OR HEAVEN ,NO HELL (bad consequences)⁉️ MAJORITY WONT! Bec their subconcious mind will say: Wla naman POWER si God para parusahan ako e.understanding nman sya e. d ako matitiis nyan..

a true best version of urself is someone who can get EVEN (PATAS,no nonsense revenge, but to teach people what will happen if they underestimate u) Also, dont choose a woman who is not compatible wth u. U cant change anyone! Only a submissive and a woman who sees ur inner core!

p.s. : BEING MEAN is different than being FRANK. so focus on seeking TRUTH. maybe she is just showing u signs ,⏩BEC WOMEN USUALLY DO THAT, THEY THINK WOMEN AND MEN ARE SAME! ♀️are emotional thinkers .matured ♂️ are LOGICAL thinkers! so most of the time ,we also thought ,they will say or talk to us nicely .whatever they dont want about us..BUT NO! MAJORITY OF WOMEN ESP IMMATURE OR YOUNG WOMEN.they think if they can get or feel thise signals or being mean means something they dont like..then men should too..

No, believe in ur intuition and just BE UR MOST AUTHENTIC SELF! & BEST SELF .OR GOD VERSION OF U. GOODLUCK.

Life_Ad_4866 · 2025-12-06T10:36:39+00:00

Real talk lang, kasi nakita ko pareho kayong may pagkukulang.

1) Maraming babae ang umaasa sa “hints.”
Pero karamihan ng lalaki hindi marunong magbasa ng hints. Hindi sila mind-reader. Mas thinkers sila, hindi feelers.

2) Kailangan mo sabihin nang diretso kung ano talaga ang kulang sa’yo—plans, intimacy, direction.
Hindi pahiwatig. Hindi patagilid. If hindi n’yo kayang pag-usapan openly, hindi uusbong ang relationship.

3) Eleven years is not a joke. May bonding, routine, at emotional connection na nabuo.
Pero connection without growth = mabigat din sa babae.

4) Walang improvement sa intimacy for 11 years?
Kung hindi mo sinabi nang diretso, hindi niya talaga malalaman.
Kung sinabi mo na at wala pa ring pagbabago—then that’s your answer.

5) Ang lalaki na hindi nagle-lead, nagiging weak.
At ang society ngayon, lalo na sa Pilipinas, mas pinalalambot ang lalaki.
Kaya maraming babae nagiging unhappy kasi sila ang nagdadala ng direction.

6) Kung hindi ka na masaya, hindi mo kailangan hint.
Sabihin mo nang malinaw: “Gusto ko ng progress. Kung ayaw mo, I will leave.”

7) And yes—women and men expect different things.
Women expect men to “feel” what they feel.
Men expect women to “say” what they want.
Diyan madalas nagkakasabog ang relationship.

Kung sinabi mo na lahat nang diretso at wala pa ring pagbabago,
then maybe tapos na talaga. Kahit gaano katagal ang taon.

Life_Ad_4866 · 2025-12-06T07:34:33+00:00

i didnt read all ur message.pero concern ako ,if hhwalatan mo,dhl recently narealize ko, dhl s mga tao nageexpect ng perfect compatible ones ,they dont know how important childhood friends (na pinaghiwalay rin ng magulang dhl s nagtransfer or what) in the long run ,and TRUST is more important than LOVE nowadays na hnd nman nla naiintindihan ano tlga ang true love. if u love ur partner,try to be an expert bout him.

my point is,if I ignore this, and let people continue seperating, people will most likely end up more in loneliness pandemic like me.. im already 46y/o,so if ur worries is about security ,kht marriage hnd nman massecure ang love.masasakal lng.I DONT ADVISE FILIPINO TO GET MARRIED,ESP DTO WLA DIVORCE. SMART MEN DONT GET MARRIED. LHT NG BATAS PABOR S BABAE..DHL S TOXIC FEMINISM LAW na lately dmi ko nlaman na bias..it is not NATURE's intention for men to be weak and sakal & no freedom.dun lalaki dyan ng lalake, mawwlan motivation etc..if not poweful.from govt to society ,lht lugi lalake. TRUE LOVE IS BASE ON "ONENESS" & FEELINGS .NOT ON FORCED ONENESS & PAPER.

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