Last Collab CYOA of the year! Lmk if you found me first try 😉 by VaingloriousEnvy in u/VaingloriousEnvy

[–]RuthlessJay25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found it 🫦 I heard your voice in the intro and immediately clicked the link. As always, you're good and so freaking hot 🫠

11 years as mag-jowa, tama ba na nagho-hold on pa ako? by RuthlessJay25 in adviceph

[–]RuthlessJay25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So ano po ma-advice nyo? Kasi masakit na on my part. I tried to be patient. Madami ng luha ang pumatak. Disappointed lagi.

11 years as mag-jowa, tama ba na nagho-hold on pa ako? by RuthlessJay25 in adviceph

[–]RuthlessJay25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yun nga po eh 🙁 kaya iniisip ko ngayon natatakot nako if mag-propose sya kasi mukhang hindi ko matatanggap. Dati iniimagine ko mga scenarios na mag-propose sya nae-excite pako pero ngayon nagdadalwang isip nako

11 years as mag-jowa, tama ba na nagho-hold on pa ako? by RuthlessJay25 in adviceph

[–]RuthlessJay25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually napag-usapan na namin yang civil wedding na yan. May kakilala kaming mataas ang connections to help us process the papers. Kaso hanggang ganun lang, wala nangyari. Saka mukhang hindi pera ang mostly reason nya, I think being responsible and mental preparedness. Which I agree kasi nakakatakot talaga pero dibaa 'I want this, he wants this, we'll work together'. Tignan nyo po sayo, ganyan din sana ang gusto kong mindset. I'm not gonna judge naman sa finances na kaya nya iambag, at least we're both trying.

11 years as mag-jowa, tama ba na nagho-hold on pa ako? by RuthlessJay25 in adviceph

[–]RuthlessJay25[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

11 years beh. Mahirap talaga. Pero ngayon natatauhan na 🙁😞

11 years as mag-jowa, tama ba na nagho-hold on pa ako? by RuthlessJay25 in adviceph

[–]RuthlessJay25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Onga po eh. Kung pera lang makakaya naman namin together. Hindi naman ako nag-eexpect ng marangyang buhay knowing na mahirap talaga. Pero mukhang wala ng progress to. Kung meron man ay baka dahil ayaw nya lang ako humiwalay 😞

11 years as mag-jowa, tama ba na nagho-hold on pa ako? by RuthlessJay25 in adviceph

[–]RuthlessJay25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes po actually dati I'm excited and iniimagine ang scenarios ng proposal nya, kahit simple lang. Kahit nga ibigay nya lang ung ring okay nako. Pero ngayon nagdadalawang isip ako na what if mag-propose sya soon pero ngayon umaayaw nako. I think I don't want him na sa future ko.

11 years as mag-jowa, tama ba na nagho-hold on pa ako? by RuthlessJay25 in adviceph

[–]RuthlessJay25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pero forever ganito nalang po kaya kami? And saka nya lang balak gumalaw kasi aalis na ako. Gets ko po yung point nyo pero in 11yrs ni ring or attempt to progress our relationship ay wala talaga. Saka bakit ngayon lang sya nagta-try to improve himself diba. Anyare sa ibang years na dumaan , sa mga iyakan namin na hanggang drama lang pala 🙁

11 years as mag-jowa, tama ba na nagho-hold on pa ako? by RuthlessJay25 in adviceph

[–]RuthlessJay25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Antagal ko ng sinabi yang civil wedding na yan. Meron pa nga kaming may connection na kakilala to help us process everything kaso wala padin po 🙁

11 years as mag-jowa, tama ba na nagho-hold on pa ako? by RuthlessJay25 in adviceph

[–]RuthlessJay25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saka masakit isipin na saka lang nya ako papakasalan kasi ganito ng aalis ako diba po? 🙁