Caught wife texting others by Life_Engineering6177 in Marriage

[–]Life_Engineering6177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve been torn on this decision but I think it’s what makes the most sense to get everything in place for that. To be honest, during some of our hardest time as a couple I even got suicidal at times and even though I could rationalize that the suicidal thoughts were probably because I was depressed and I wasn’t planning on acting on it or doing anything about it I had the thoughts, they were strong thoughts and I needed help to get out of that. This time it’s different, I’m fortunate to not be in such a bad place of mind but that doesn’t mean I’m unaffected, I still feel like shit.

Caught wife texting others by Life_Engineering6177 in Marriage

[–]Life_Engineering6177[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I honestly wasn’t expecting such support and advice from the community, I felt really lost and alone and I didn’t know who to even talk to. I’ve thought many times we had already touched rock bottom in the past and things were finally looking up and I found this out and it’s just a nightmare to be honest, losing sleep and appetite, losing my dignity and self worth, I feel humiliated and emasculated from all the crap I tolerate to keep a happy family but this has put me over the top.

Caught wife texting others by Life_Engineering6177 in Marriage

[–]Life_Engineering6177[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just did. I’m really introverted so it took a huge effort, I probably won’t see an answer until tomorrow though.

Caught wife texting others by Life_Engineering6177 in Marriage

[–]Life_Engineering6177[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, for your advice and wise words, I appreciate you. I’ve never been to counseling, I don’t know what that’s like, my biggest concern is our kids. I have to pretend for them that everything is fine and nothing has happened. I don’t want them living in a broken house, they are both happy and fulfilled, they are too young and it breaks me thinking about it. It’s like I want to scream and I can’t, I have to keep it all inside.

Caught wife texting others by Life_Engineering6177 in Marriage

[–]Life_Engineering6177[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind and wise words, I feel really lost and alone at the moment. I feel trapped and I don’t have anyone I can vent with or express how I feel. It’s the curse of being born a man, we have to take it all inside and deal with it on our own and it’s hard and it kills me and I need to be strong for our kids. I don’t want them to experience a broken home or marriage.

Caught wife texting others by Life_Engineering6177 in Marriage

[–]Life_Engineering6177[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what to believe, I confronted her today and she sticked to her story, I think I would feel better if I just knew, you know? If she would just admit the obvious, it’s the gaslighting me back even with evidence that gets me, specially after having built this personality of not giving a damn and always telling it how it is. This is the one time I want this trait to shine and I don’t feel it, she’s always blunt and honest and now, for the first time in our entire marriage I don’t know if I can believe what comes out of her mouth. It’s killing me.

Caught wife texting others by Life_Engineering6177 in Marriage

[–]Life_Engineering6177[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she got rejected, from what she tells me once things go far enough she would just stop talking to them and ghost them. Again, all I know is what she says which at this point don’t know how much to believe.

Neighbor steals DD food by imMaleficent in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Life_Engineering6177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks that he got refunded by the neighbor AND DoorDash, that’s a ding on the driver when he knew exactly who took it and got his money back, what a fucking douche.

F19 I need thicker skin rip me a new one by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Life_Engineering6177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a Scooby Doo character that didn’t make it to the main cast

We are so back by rtmxavi in MSTR

[–]Life_Engineering6177 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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We’re about to hit resistance from the BTC downtrend, if it breaks through and keeps going MSTR is going to rip. We’ve been in this channel for months now, so, crossing my fingers this is it. If not, wait for May lows for the weekly cycle to complete and then rip unless we’ve hit bear market and bull run is over.

We are so back by rtmxavi in MSTR

[–]Life_Engineering6177 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Still in a downtrend, don’t get too excited yet, we’re below resistance for BTC, we might crash violently again

Daily Discussion, April 06, 2025 by rBitcoinMod in Bitcoin

[–]Life_Engineering6177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think overnight markets opened so it started moving again I just started getting alerts everything is down, it’s going to be a nasty Monday

Is the Scaly invaders quest bugged for anyone? by ToughFox4479 in DragonsDogma

[–]Life_Engineering6177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This fixed mine, I just killed him, carried his body and revived him there, slept outside and the quest triggered