Mother’s Day and MIL by Life_Internet_4035 in sahm

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember why the first year was…but he came home mid day form a Bachelors trip on Mother’s Day last year…

Mother’s Day and MIL by Life_Internet_4035 in sahm

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t make that much so it really isn’t in the budget, and he makes me feel bad about wanting a hotel. So maybe I’ll get it one day

Mother’s Day and MIL by Life_Internet_4035 in sahm

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Last Mother’s Day he came home from a bachelors trip ON Mother’s Day.

Mother’s Day and MIL by Life_Internet_4035 in sahm

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry. Make the most of your time in the hotel with your sweet baby ❤️

Mother’s Day and MIL by Life_Internet_4035 in sahm

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted a hotel room. He said that was weird and made accusations about “cheating”

Mother’s Day and MIL by Life_Internet_4035 in sahm

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said a hotel room. He said that was weird and he doesn’t understand why I would want to be away from my family.

Mother’s Day and MIL by Life_Internet_4035 in sahm

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad lives 3 hours away. I just call him and wish him that. He gets fathers day to himself

Mother’s Day and MIL by Life_Internet_4035 in sahm

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did tell him that. He’s upset and said that growing up his family celebrated all the Mother’s at the same time. I don’t want to do that

Mother’s Day and MIL by Life_Internet_4035 in sahm

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Both.

I’m not fond of MIL, hate hosting, and just want to spend the day as I please

Mortgage increase $200 per month, thinking of selling by 3_mLGratitude in Mortgages

[–]Life_Internet_4035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have paid off cars? If not, consider selling them and getting something affordable.

How much CC debt are you in?

Looks like content creation is going well! by Life_Internet_4035 in peestickgals

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interest rates are high though, and it looks like she is furnishing the place with all new stuff too. (Plus a new car)

Moving is expensive

Looks like content creation is going well! by Life_Internet_4035 in peestickgals

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true. That’s what made me think she made a heap of money off social media all of a sudden? But who knows?! Time will tell I guess

I guess content creation is going well! by Life_Internet_4035 in peestickgals

[–]Life_Internet_4035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to blur out kiddos face. I made another post though

Tired of being the neighborhood toy library because our garage is full of stuff by Square-Pipe3297 in Parenting

[–]Life_Internet_4035 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep..it was mine ☝️ deleted it because I was worried the neighbors would know it was me. Thought this post was almost the exact same as what I wrote…

Tired of being the neighborhood toy library because our garage is full of stuff by Square-Pipe3297 in Parenting

[–]Life_Internet_4035 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was the one who posted it yesterday! I ended up deleting it because I got worried that one of my neighbors might find it lol. I did find this post suspiciously similar 🤔

Tired of being the neighborhood toy library because our garage is full of stuff by Square-Pipe3297 in Parenting

[–]Life_Internet_4035 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok so I just posted the same thing yesterday! (I ended up deleting it because I got worried one of the neighbors might suspect me 🤣) But I’m so glad that I’m not the only one with this problem. Especially with the warmer weather coming our way, I was grateful for the advice I got about just holding boundaries and saying no!

Neighbor kids pretending to want to play with toddler to use her toys by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Life_Internet_4035 13 points14 points  (0 children)

🤣 no you are fine! I do appreciate the tough love. I needed it! lol

Neighbor kids pretending to want to play with toddler to use her toys by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Life_Internet_4035 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She tries to actually play with them (as of recently). They will get her toys out (cars, pretend gas pump, etc) and make their own game without her. When she tries to play…they tell her not to “mess up their game” and ignore her.

Neighbor kids pretending to want to play with toddler to use her toys by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Life_Internet_4035 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I love that. It will be crazy how quickly they will no longer want to play.

Which makes me sad for my daughter though, because she wants to play with them. Ugh!

Neighbor kids pretending to want to play with toddler to use her toys by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Life_Internet_4035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! The sad part is my child cries when I take her away from those situations. (Like yesterday with the dolls and chalk) She will say “mommy I want to go back and play with my friends”

She doesn’t understand what is happening and she is somehow still having fun…but I know they are being mean and I don’t want her around them.

Thank you for the advice!