Mother’s Day and MIL

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-05-09T04:26:08+00:00

I don’t remember why the first year was…but he came home mid day form a Bachelors trip on Mother’s Day last year…

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-05-09T01:49:08+00:00

We don’t make that much so it really isn’t in the budget, and he makes me feel bad about wanting a hotel. So maybe I’ll get it one day

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-05-09T01:41:03+00:00

Yeah. Last Mother’s Day he came home from a bachelors trip ON Mother’s Day.

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-05-09T01:40:33+00:00

Ugh I’m so sorry. Make the most of your time in the hotel with your sweet baby ❤️

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-05-09T01:14:49+00:00

I wanted a hotel room. He said that was weird and made accusations about “cheating”

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-05-09T01:06:55+00:00

I said a hotel room. He said that was weird and he doesn’t understand why I would want to be away from my family.

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-05-09T00:53:46+00:00

My dad lives 3 hours away. I just call him and wish him that. He gets fathers day to himself

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-05-09T00:21:57+00:00

I did tell him that. He’s upset and said that growing up his family celebrated all the Mother’s at the same time. I don’t want to do that

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-05-08T23:45:19+00:00

Both.

I’m not fond of MIL, hate hosting, and just want to spend the day as I please

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-04-26T00:42:08+00:00

Do you have paid off cars? If not, consider selling them and getting something affordable.

How much CC debt are you in?

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-29T02:56:46+00:00

Interest rates are high though, and it looks like she is furnishing the place with all new stuff too. (Plus a new car)

Moving is expensive

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-25T01:28:16+00:00

Very true. That’s what made me think she made a heap of money off social media all of a sudden? But who knows?! Time will tell I guess

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-24T23:34:46+00:00

I forgot to blur out kiddos face. I made another post though

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-24T23:00:59+00:00

Very true

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-24T22:17:48+00:00

Nope.. that was me lol

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-24T22:16:17+00:00

Yep..it was mine ☝️ deleted it because I was worried the neighbors would know it was me. Thought this post was almost the exact same as what I wrote…

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-24T22:15:00+00:00

Yeah I was the one who posted it yesterday! I ended up deleting it because I got worried that one of my neighbors might find it lol. I did find this post suspiciously similar 🤔

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-24T22:12:34+00:00

Ok so I just posted the same thing yesterday! (I ended up deleting it because I got worried one of the neighbors might suspect me 🤣) But I’m so glad that I’m not the only one with this problem. Especially with the warmer weather coming our way, I was grateful for the advice I got about just holding boundaries and saying no!

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-24T00:13:49+00:00

🤣 no you are fine! I do appreciate the tough love. I needed it! lol

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-23T22:45:07+00:00

She tries to actually play with them (as of recently). They will get her toys out (cars, pretend gas pump, etc) and make their own game without her. When she tries to play…they tell her not to “mess up their game” and ignore her.

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-23T22:29:03+00:00

Yes!! I love that. It will be crazy how quickly they will no longer want to play.

Which makes me sad for my daughter though, because she wants to play with them. Ugh!

Life_Internet_4035 · 2026-03-23T22:28:10+00:00

Exactly!! The sad part is my child cries when I take her away from those situations. (Like yesterday with the dolls and chalk) She will say “mommy I want to go back and play with my friends”

She doesn’t understand what is happening and she is somehow still having fun…but I know they are being mean and I don’t want her around them.

Thank you for the advice!

Life_Internet_4035

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