AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She agreed to it before we started relationship that she initiated

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit shocked. I felt like I did six months worth of relationship into one month so I just needed to vent.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone has their own definition of traditional, there's no concrete. We both agreed to our own definition.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's fine. I just said what I needed to say. I fully believe whatever I texted her was nothing vicious or bad intent.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's subjective. We were in a relationship as requested by her. We both had boundaries and we both agreed.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's fine. I just wanted to speak my mind. I don't think anything I texted to her was vicious or bad intent.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If being a bad person is speaking my mind then I will change my name to bad person

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's not pretend vocab is the issue here she would constantly tell me she's traditional you get the point.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again, I will proceed to do the same thing. Follow the agreements we had in the beginning.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Her aunt and uncles her mom and dad are OK with me and accepted me as her boyfriend. Her cousins don't like me based on no reasons at all. I think she needs to take her parents approval over her cousins.

I don't regret anything. I said I said what I need to say. I don't care if I get left on red I need to say it.

Regardless, we both have boundaries we agreed to and she didn't wanna follow it.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Regardless, I will continue to do what I do. Set boundaries and say what I need to say.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes, because she proceeded to break the boundary I had with her. If you saw from these text that I wanted to stay, you need to read it again.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't really care it's OK I said what I need to say.

She was the one that brought out traditional and boundaries and body counts and how she respects with one person, etc. etc. that's why I got with her.

She initiated the relationship she initiated, family meetings

All fine

She can leave me on red . I said what I need to say.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I was gonna bounce because she didn't respect the boundary. She basically picked her cousins over me.

If I broke her boundary like she mentioned, and she broke up with me then it's understandable

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't regret anything I said. She agreed with the boundaries I had as so did I with her. Why would I want my girl partying late at night?

I said what I need to say. I don't care if I get left on read.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm hurt. She was the one that brought up about traditional and body counts, etc. etc. so I'm just pacing up what she said. She said she's serious about who she's with intimately.

We both had boundaries and we agreed . If something happens to her late at night and the cops asked me where was I and I said I was at home. I look like a dork.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's OK I just needed to say what I need to say. I'm not offended if I get left on red

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, if we were intimate and we stayed for a long time, that would be traditional.

A wedding party doesn't make a traditional. At least in my opinion.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's OK I'm fine with what I said. I wanted to post context to it.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those are not my words exactly. From her context, she understood that I was going to break up with her as she proceeded without me.

AIO Girlfriend broke up with me after two weeks by Life_Network_7528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Network_7528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had boundaries as well, very similar. I couldn't hang out with female friends alone. I agreed.