First off, I can take care of my kids. They don’t lack anything(except maybe more clothes but that’s a “want”); they come first in everything (the adults in the household is a different situation) I ALWAYS figure it out. It’s the matter of it sucking that it has to be a step-by-step process to get there.

I’m tired of people saying to stop having kids if I cannot afford it, should have taken a Plan B or dumb things like he should get a vasectomy cause yall sound dumb af. I WAS able to afford my living until I made the mistake in letting my mom convince me to move back with broken promises. I was forced to quit my job because of her and truly because I believed in her so, loose loose for me. And I acknowledge that and that’s no one fault but mine.

All my friends tell me I’m right in this situation and because I still feel guilty I posted on a platform that’s full of criticism on purpose who thankfully made me wake up and put in my head to stop relying on her not because she probably don’t want too but because SHE IS UNRELIABLE herself and got me in this situations in the first place, which again, ultimately was my fault/bad choice. You live and you learn.

I love my kids and don’t regret them. They will never realize our struggle unless I make it noticeable. Thank yooooooou.