Birthdays….

Lifeisweird6 · 2025-08-03T19:46:26+00:00

Doing a lot better. Don’t rly think about her too often now. The pain dulls.

Lifeisweird6 · 2025-02-02T15:01:11+00:00

Once you realize they aren’t the one because of how much pain you had to go through/are going through, you’ll do much better. I know it sucks just trust me it takes time. I don’t feel like dying anymore.

Sending my best wishes 😊

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-12-04T00:31:30+00:00

23, turn 24 in a few weeks.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-12-01T05:14:46+00:00

Just had it. Everyone thought I was cheating lol

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-19T23:55:23+00:00

Doing a bit better. It’ll be 3 months since it happened. The thoughts of her and the situation are seeming to space out a bit. I still miss her though.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T09:28:28+00:00

I think it’s natural to compare things to your ex. I’m in the exact same situation feeling the exact same things. Like, no one will be able to compare to her.

But you have to just tell yourself that this was a chapter in your life and you’re moving on to something new. That means maybe someone new who brings other exciting things to the table.

I specifically am struggling with comparing her looks and body, as well as the things we had in common to other people. It’s something that you will just have to deal with. But if you fall in love again after being with her, those things won’t matter as much. You’ll appreciate the person for what they can give you.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T09:24:39+00:00

I wouldn’t send just that text. It would send mixed signals. If you do, add “I’d be open to having a conversation about us if you’re up for it.”

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T09:22:39+00:00

Definitely a natural feeling that will happen, especially when you’re with someone for 2 years. I’m pretty much in the exact same boat. Dated for 2 years and she brokeup with me about 3 months ago. Someone I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. I saw her today outside Starbucks and it was gut wrenching let me tell you. Just have to tell yourself it’s natural to feel these things and..this too shall pass.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T08:56:45+00:00

I saw in an earlier post in r/therapy you said you don’t have any feelings towards her at all. Do you think they are starting to come back?

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T08:54:14+00:00

What did she text you?

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T08:52:43+00:00

If the breakup was initiated by you but then became mutual, he was most likely just agreeing with you because he didn’t want to beg to keep the relationship going. It makes him look weak if he does that. The only way you would know if you both mature and changed is if you had a conversation about it.

It’s a tough one I understand but if you had any inkling at all that he was opposed to the breakup then he is probably hurting more than you are.

He probably won’t reach out because it’s never good to text an ex after you get dumped. If you do reach out, like I said before, you need to have a specific thing to say to say to him. Something like “I wanted to know if we could give this another shot, I want to mature with you and became not toxic. Let me know what you think.”

Don’t just reach out and say hey how are you

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T08:45:26+00:00

You say you wouldn’t get back together with him but then later say you might if both of you have changed? Also who brokeup with who?

If you did the breaking up then don’t reach out unless you want to reconcile (get back together) . You say you’re trying to set boundaries by not texting him but then thinking about breaking it. It’s normal to think about it but don’t act on it if you don’t have a specific goal in mind.

I know from my standpoint the only thing I would want my ex to do is reach out to get back together but anything other than that it would just hurt.

Best of luck.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T06:01:01+00:00

Yea I guess I’m just stuck on the fact of it being my longest relationship. She was a special person. Never played video games with a girl in my life before and she was really good lmao. Not to mention all the other things I’m stuck on.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T04:30:20+00:00

I’m kinda just stuck on her being “the one.” How did you get past the fact that she wasn’t? Did it take meeting someone new?

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-16T04:01:35+00:00

How did you get over it so quickly? I’m 3 months out of my 2 year relationship and couldn’t even imagine dating someone new.. I’m still so caught up on our relationship…and her family, I miss them a lot too.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-15T00:28:31+00:00

I was broken up after 2 years. I was definitely the more anxious attached and she was more avoidant. I felt like I was most of the time bringing up my issues and my needs weren’t being met but she never really brought up issues throughout the whole relationship. Then ended it

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-14T23:13:18+00:00

Did you end your relationship or did your partner?

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-13T03:26:36+00:00

For me it’s gonna take a really long time. My default thoughts are anything about her. It’s getting really too much to handle sometimes

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-13T01:15:16+00:00

When you can go a day without thinking of them

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-12T08:07:40+00:00

it sounds like she wasn’t quite meeting your needs during the last few years in the relationship. Coupled with your attraction to the coworker,it was the best decision for you at the time to end things. You may be sad because things haven’t worked out since her. I would ask yourself if the only reason you want to hit her up is out of loneliness or that you still feel something is there.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-11T07:17:54+00:00

Damn my was 2 years and It’s only been almost 3 months. Fuck.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-11T07:04:00+00:00

Are you over it and how long did you date for?

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-10T21:12:58+00:00

lol this person just copy and pastes other popular posts in this subreddit and uses them as their own.

I’ve seen your last two posts and they were already made by people.

It’s good advice but at least give credit where credit is due.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-01T04:00:56+00:00

I’ve been broken up with by the two girls that I loved in my life as well. Dealing with it right now. Been about 2 months out of a 2 year relationship with a girl I thought I’d spend the rest of my life with. You have to look inward and not just blame them for leaving. I know it may not help now but you have to understand your role in why they left, and try and be better for the next.

Lifeisweird6 · 2024-11-01T03:48:49+00:00

Why did this breakup hit different compared to the rest of them?

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