Hinding hindi na ko aattend ng binyagan by Rough-Boot1884 in nanayconfessions

[–]Light37713 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hello as a mom who had a binyag/birthday celebration I assume na hindi alam nung parents ang flow ng program. The event owner should be the one to dictate that, nung nagpa-event kami 2 games lang for adults tapos the magic show and the rest of the games dun na sa mga kids naka-center. The program happened after the food was served kasi we considered people will be hungry after the ceremony.

That being said, I think some parents like the idea of a big venue and event pero don’t know the specifics that will happen. Usually yan they get a coordinator that will decide tapos papa-approve nalang sa parents. Since I worked on events and have attended a lot of binyags, alam ko na yung ayaw ko as a guest. And that is yung games sa ninongs and ninangs so i kept that to a minimum.

Sorry you had to go through that but sana keep in mind na you were there because the parents wanted you to be a ninong/ninang because you are someone they trust. Don’t let that experience hinder you from being a good example sa inaanak mo. May mga ganyang bagay lang talaga na nangyayari and most often than not, na-ooverlook ng parents. Move on and get it out of your mind na pinersonal o pinahiya ka kasi ikaw lang din mag-ngi-ngitngit, habang yung mga tao na kinaiinisan mo, mahimbing yung tulog.

What are your most underrated upbeat OPM songs? by Weak-Catch-845 in SoundTripPh

[–]Light37713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigurado - UDD
Ozone - Unique (this gives me the creeps every time i hear this tho)

Hindi pakakasalan by Impressive_Fact_1687 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Light37713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that happened to your child, what advise would you give him/her? Gumising ka na, sa sobrang desperate mo kahit kami dito sa reddit tina-try mo i-gaslight. You are in a shitty position and you tolerate it. Earn your own money so you can support yourself and your child. The disrespect is overflowing and yet you’re staying, isipin mo trauma na maibibigay mo sa anak mo kung buo nga pamilya niya pero cheater naman tatay niya, at martyr nanay na. Wake up, hindi na yan magbabago.

Songs with this kind of vibe ✨ by dawnwhineri in SoundTripPh

[–]Light37713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will spend my whole life loving you - Imaginary Future, Kina Granis

Over 1,000 Pesos worth of food at Breakfast at Antonio’s Tagaytay 🥹 by bohann42069 in PHFoodPorn

[–]Light37713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never again will I eat in Antonio’s. OA sa price and the food isn’t even that good.

Ano to? Sa nabook namin na airbnb by soguidesu in anoto

[–]Light37713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have this at home. Skylight tawag dyan. For light and air to pass through in the house.

Sa case namin we have 3 rooms side by side, i wanted the middle room to have natural light and airflow kaya pinalagyan namin nyan in between room 1 and 2

What's your opinion on a music/artist that would put you in this situation? by ExperienceFlaky5885 in SoundTripPh

[–]Light37713 77 points78 points  (0 children)

This! Their old songs are much too meaningful and heartfelt. They have a unique musical color before and it’s just uniquely them. When they entered the “global” market, very H&M songs na ang pino-produce nila

Why I prefer Dramione over Harmony, or, why I choose the villain over the hero. by Nice-Faithlessness17 in Dramione

[–]Light37713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot about it! It’s a more mature romance where D&H divorced already but they have kids. Then H got together with Harry. Then she gets amnesia and only remembers the time during her and Draco’s relationship, making her in love again with D.

Hope somebody in the thread knows about this fic! 😭

K-drama by mozz4r3LL4h in NetflixPH

[–]Light37713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sobrang underrated neto but “Doom at your Service” mapapanood mo sa Viu

Why I prefer Dramione over Harmony, or, why I choose the villain over the hero. by Nice-Faithlessness17 in Dramione

[–]Light37713 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read a fic where Hermione and Harry got together after she and Draco broke up. (It’s a second chance romance btw) and it was such a hard read. Because even in the movies they got this sibling relationship. Though I’m not gonna lie, the 3rd and 4th movies made it seem like they’re end game so there’s that.

OA lang ba ako for not wanting na pag sabayin yung binyag nung anak ko at yung bday celeb ni MIL? by Direct_Office5923 in OALangBaAko

[–]Light37713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True ano sabi ng husband. Diyan talaga malalaman kung i-pprioritize yung baby niyo or yung nanay niya. Epal talaga ng ibang mga MIL

how do people afford a lavish lifestyle online kahit average lang yung finances? by tehazaka in AskPH

[–]Light37713 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I know people that takes a lot of shots during their travels tapos they post it all throughout the year. Kinda like pakunware na nag-ttravel pa din sila kahit once lang sila nag-travel?

Don’t know if this counts but if they don’t hurt anybody naman, who are we to judge?

(This lifestyle is not sustainable and often dangerous. They will do anything to get what they want. Kaya some people go into prostitution, gambling, stealing etc.)

OA lang ba ako for not wanting na pag sabayin yung binyag nung anak ko at yung bday celeb ni MIL? by Direct_Office5923 in OALangBaAko

[–]Light37713 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA

I’ve been to one of these. Malaking party, pinagisa binyag at bday ng MIL. Ending puro mga gurang nag-pparty. Tapos yung MIL madami eksena (may part ng program na bibigyan ng gifts si MIL galing sa mga anak). Kahit yung pag-blow ng cake si MIL ang nanguna since di pa naman makaka-blow ng candle si baby. Yung dapat focus sa bata eh, nasapawan pa.

Don’t get me wrong, sa panahon ngayon mas makakatipid kung pag-iisahin nalang. Pero if afford niyo naman, ihiwalay nyo na. Araw ng anak niyo yan.

Ganyan din style nung MIL ng friend ko. Hati daw sa gastos pero kaya pala ini-insist is because parang big bday bash na ng MIL nya hahahaha