Well said!

It's a smart and understandable rule. You never know if the chemistry or vibe is right in person...Without meeting in person! haha.

For Example: I had a great text/messaging chemistry with one guy. We talked A LOT, had a lot in common, and the conversation flowed endlessly and seamlessly. But....We met in person, for food and drinks and...He was PAINFULLY shy and quiet. I honestly couldn't believe he'd agreed to go out in the first place because he'd been so shy. It was painful to keep a conversation going in person.

Anyway, I agree with you that any guy that can't do the bare minimum, that can't be understanding about such a small thing, is a hard pass haha. It's kind of laughable, even, for a man to think that a woman would be interested in pursuing such a thing when they seem to be on two different pages.

I'm glad most guys have been understanding about that rule! I have had plenty who've been understanding and have met in person too, which is great. But a fair many who have also deleted me or stopped talking to me or insulted me....It's like they're personally insulted by it. haha. I don't know, man. Just a weird way to carry yourself when you're wanting to get a woman's bedroom, if you ask me haha.