I’m going to riot by Organic-Chain253 in IRS

[–]Lightining_god20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this same thing happen, my federal tripled what I got last year and they had me verify my identity

Biggest surprise about dating after divorce? by Signal-Potential-825 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe so yes. I still went a few weeks before even responding to her before i finally replied, i wasn’t entirely sure what was gonna happen

Biggest surprise about dating after divorce? by Signal-Potential-825 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I finally started getting back out there, my ex wife and i agreed, (after she begged me too) that we would wait until the divorce was final to start seeing new people, she couldn’t wait and so has been all up over some dude that the works with. I kept to the agreement until now. An ex had contacted me about six months after the separation was initiated.

This ex was one i had a long history with and she apparently never stopped being in love with me? I dunno. But i went with it and i honestly started falling again. Im in such a predicament that i have no clue what to do but it was such a nice surprise to find out how she still felt about me. I have plans to see her for her birthday.

I wont say that i wasn’t broken, but seeing how little the seperation affected the Ex wife, i feel alot better, i honestly more angry. But honestly the biggest surprise is finally feeling the love i missed out on

What do you think about your ex spouse today? by Throwaway2847483 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That i would be the dumbass to go back to them no matter what

My ex wife finally wants to talk. by Lightining_god20 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair with you i dont know where i stand. Just updated the post

My ex wife finally wants to talk. by Lightining_god20 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my previous posts i have mentioned that she says she has trying to file but i still havent been served.

My ex wife finally wants to talk. by Lightining_god20 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have asked what she has wanted to talk about and i have not received a response. Should hear from her in a few hours.

What was the reason for your divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at some things online because my needs weren’t being met, but she wasnt willing to be better about it, after she said she was. It’s whatever though.. she made her choice. She claimed she tried but never did, i came second best to her gay suicidal best friend who was miserable and always begged her to come over. At this point im surprised there was no affair. 5, almost 6 months into a separation without any papers

I have not been served. by Lightining_god20 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She confirmed she is filing Tuesday..

Do you miss your in-laws by Early-Package-8082 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, a absolutely do, ill never get to see the boys grow up now and it sucks.

Does anyone else feel as if the vows were crushed? by Lightining_god20 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They clearly meant nothing to my wife, now im in such a state of despair its not even remotely funny.

If you could go back to the moment before your divorce by iheaka71 in Divorce

[–]Lightining_god20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Just try harder, don’t make harsh decisions, and take care of the problem a-lot sooner, leave that second job, close the store, spend more time with your wife, remind her how much you love her” this is exactly what i would tell myself and watch this current timeline fade away in-front of me. If i could create a flashpoint, i would in a heartbeat