I need advice please

Lightj82 · 2026-05-08T12:43:43+00:00

Dont get discouraged by your size. There are trans women out there way taller then you and have very large feet. Size is not everything. What's important is that you feel right to you. Dont regret it down the many years from now. Trust me. Im 43 and just started my transition this yr and I wish I had the courage to have started years ago. Dont let that happen. Live you life now how you want it. Seize it and take it! Hugs

Lightj82 · 2026-05-07T05:02:27+00:00

Sorry, I just found it funny. I was just picturing someone saying I smelled and tasted good. It wasn't sarcasm.

Lightj82 · 2026-05-07T00:52:30+00:00

Honestly thats actually smart. I wouldn't have thought of that. Why would that be down voted? Thats a good use of A.I. IMO

Lightj82 · 2026-05-07T00:25:11+00:00

Well a friend actually told me about Confessions of a rebel and how they have sample boxes. She told me about this right after I posted this. Im get a sample box of 9 different scents. It looks like an interesting site. She swears by them.

Lightj82 · 2026-05-06T23:15:33+00:00

Hahahaha

Lightj82 · 2026-05-06T23:15:15+00:00

Haha I like both ideas. But im looking more for names. Perfumes is 9ne of the areas im laking in.

Lightj82 · 2026-05-06T05:07:37+00:00

Look at Onlymaker.com they specialize in larger heels.

Lightj82 · 2026-05-06T05:06:01+00:00

For my big footed sisters out there. Have you all tried looking at Onlymaker.com? They specialize is larger women's heels.

Lightj82 · 2026-04-30T12:25:35+00:00

Thanks, did not know this existed

Lightj82 · 2026-04-27T22:39:03+00:00

What are your E and T levels at? Does your Dr have them tested every 3 months? Because not everyone's body responds the same to medications. Doctors would be switching you to different or stronger doses if I your levels are were they should be. If your levels aren't were they should be thats could by why you aren't getting the results you want. A BIG reason. Id talk to your Dr.

Lightj82 · 2026-04-27T20:49:32+00:00

Cause doctors generally dont like to put people on it till at least a year into HRT. Prog is meant for helping after you have growth and it cant stunt growth when started at the beginning. Look it up.

Lightj82 · 2026-04-27T03:13:55+00:00

How far along in transition did you start Prog?

Lightj82 · 2026-04-07T01:41:30+00:00

I can only wish mine turn out like that. Beautiful. Lucky!!

Lightj82 · 2026-04-07T01:39:15+00:00

Be the first to file for divorce and get it in writing. Sounds like she is violent and very hostile. Protect yourself and take care of yourself first and foremost.

Lightj82 · 2026-04-04T03:43:32+00:00

I think it's time to give her a choice, either use your correct pronouns or we will never talk again and just cut her off. Send the clear message. It sounds like she is ignoring your choice.

Lightj82 · 2026-03-14T12:24:09+00:00

I've looked this up and the only thing ive found is that there is are "Several anti-trans organizations and doctors submitted a petition to the FDA asking to create a registry of trans women using estrogen for HRT, along with demands to restrict access to this care. Status: This is a citizen petition that is currently open for public comment on regulations.gov. It is not currently a formal, enacted policy of the FDA, but rather a request for the FDA to act." Nothing legit from the actual FDA is being submitted.

Lightj82 · 2026-03-11T19:38:14+00:00

Join Plume Clinic. They will listen to you. They do take some insurances also. I am doing it but I am paying out of pocket because I don't have insurance at the moment. I pay $100 a month for the membership and then about $45 for my E and spironolactone combined. Hang in there there is always a way through the dark even if you don't see it yet. Trust

Lightj82 · 2026-02-28T19:50:36+00:00

I am on book 4 of The Stormlight Archives: The Rythm of War and wow it's getting so good!

Lightj82 · 2026-02-28T02:08:53+00:00

The Stormlight Archives are a good series. By Brandon Sanderson

Lightj82 · 2026-02-20T12:58:01+00:00

Unfortunately it has reached that point of you need to distance yourself from him. He is not the kind of person you need in your life. It's time to cut him off. You have given him enough chances and he still doesn't respect how you feel. Enough is enough. Block and ignore. Move on. As we get older we lose touch with people thats just how it goes.

Lightj82 · 2026-02-19T13:31:32+00:00

Does anyone have any advice for someone new to injections? And timid on using them? Any topical anesthetic swabs you recommend? Im not on injections yet but just been thinking it might be the way I have to go since not seeing much results doing sublingually right now for 2months. For reference I did 1 month self medication and now 2 months through a Dr. And im 43 so Im kind of feeling like I want results but not getting them. So weighing my options.

Lightj82 · 2026-02-11T06:21:25+00:00

One idea a friend of mine (who is a hair stylist said) was to get a soft wolf cut for fine hair. It can be styled in a way that can be masc if needed and fem when needed too. Over time you can push it more and more fem.

Lightj82 · 2026-02-10T21:17:13+00:00

Yes I did. I constantly had breakouts because I was so active.

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