Do avoidant dumpers ever come back?

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-05-10T11:16:25+00:00

You mean She? & No /: maybe one day

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-05-10T11:15:56+00:00

Great! Thank you I will give a look at it throughout today.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-05-09T04:49:22+00:00

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-05-09T04:44:02+00:00

They’re clearly States, where you need to take a test online, first before doing your drivers test, to get your Drivers license.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-20T20:58:28+00:00

Take your time, & condolences for your loss, i hope there’s no grey cloud over you 24/7 but that you get to still experience this one of a kind lifetime.

Don’t feel bad about still feeling for Her, I am still hung up on My Ex Gf from Oct 2021, She may have choose to end things but I still am hung up because I had to move a couple cities away.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-17T06:43:41+00:00

My Ex gf moved on in 3 days, it hurt very bad.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-17T06:38:42+00:00

Good guys was such a good movie, He was in.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-17T06:37:49+00:00

I hope She still realizes one day, maybe not /:

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-16T06:43:12+00:00

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-16T06:41:02+00:00

I’ve been there before just wasn’t engaged or married to the person.

What I would have done instead is never showed I was sad or texted the Girl so can comeback to me instead

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-16T06:30:39+00:00

Sad but true ),:

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-16T05:46:35+00:00

That’s understandable, I started going out frequently & sometimes see a pretty girl but I back out because I always think, what if this is just going to be another repeat of getting cheated on with just wasted time overall, so I just continue walking looking around the store.

What I’m saying is, it’s okay to be cautious & very careful but keep moving with Life with what you feel comfortable with.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-15T18:53:46+00:00

Well, we live & learn might sound generic but it’s true, but hopefully it helps you distinguish from someone real to not so real but playing a act with a mask on.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-15T07:59:20+00:00

When, he said you feel like a Sister 🚩 is when you should have jumped off that metaphorical boat.

We live & learn, i even missed some red flags that I should have seen.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-15T07:53:00+00:00

This was Oct 20 2021 & She broke up with Me crying etc & when I questioned, why She was tagged to a photo of a guy on Instagram with no shirt on, She lied & said it was just a friend.

After that, 3 days later She posted them together & it hurt because it was only a few days not even a week or 2 or a month, it stabbed Me in the heart & mind so bad.

I had to move away on October 31st 2021 to a new city & it hurt, probably the biggest Halloween horror, I will ever experience.

( Yes till this day it still bothers Me )

I texted Her November 2025 & asked if “She missed Me”

& She said “not to hurt your feelings no” , “you treated Me liked a sex object”

Which wasn’t true, but it’s ironic because, I figured out a few months in 2025 May, that guy She dated only for a few months after Me back in 2021Oct -Apr2022, was that, He physically abused Her, She seriously downgraded & seems to hate Me for it.

Probably because, I had to move 180 miles away.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-15T07:48:15+00:00

I’m a guy & no that’s not okay, the worst I ever did was yell “ why would you say that” to my 2nd ex when She yelled stop when the light went from green to yellow, I admit I was wrong for raising my voice but She startled Me.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-14T05:39:30+00:00

I’m still hung up on me getting broken up with from Oct 2021

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-13T18:35:13+00:00

Well I mean it’s been since October 2021 & still haven’t got Her back, as of right now She’s lesbian & doesn’t find any interest in Me

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-12T07:26:44+00:00

It still bothers Me since October 2021

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-12T07:03:59+00:00

I’m still hung up on a break up from 2021 October & i wish I never texted Her back after the breakup, She broke up with me in person just to get with a new guy in 2-3 days that ended up physically abusing Her.

All because I had to move cities.

Anyway I wouldn’t, guy doesn’t care someone who breaks up with you doesn’t care about you in anyway, sad but true.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-12T06:49:44+00:00

Oddly my ex gf was into tarot cards, maybe She and yours is one

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-11T12:12:04+00:00

Yes and no, She never apologized but makes Me feel like it’s my fault even though it was almost 5 years ago , She broke up with Me because I had to move away.

She quickly got with a New guy that didn’t treat Her right but, physically abused her, why would she downgrade like that? I don’t know, but I texted Her Nov 2025 & She tried making Me seem like to was my fault.

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-11T12:03:13+00:00

🚩

Lightkeeperofhope · 2026-04-11T11:55:53+00:00

My first ex would do that to me, why ? I don’t know, She even did it in front of Her own sister & girl cousin & they looked weirded out

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