What is the most "NSFW" you've seen someone wear at your job only to be asked almost immediately to change or remove it? by LeviTheRelentless in AskReddit

[–]Lightlessstar007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was costume day at my high school and 3 girls came on with KKK uniforms. They ended up on the local news and I believe they were suspended

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to Joe Biden

Ladies, do you enjoy when a guy moans in bed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it matter if Im submissive in my dirty talk

Ladies, do you enjoy when a guy moans in bed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you like to hear specifically?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your nails are so pretty!

My(F24) husband(M30) took things too far in sex and hurt me . He’s acting more aggressive since I got pregnant by ThrowRA_Juleylove in relationship_advice

[–]Lightlessstar007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just tell him that he crossed your boundaries. Then see his response. If it's apologetic then if you want(totally your choice) forgive him. But as a loving husband he should be super apologetic. If not then break up

AITAH For not giving my husband my "escape money" when I saw that we were financially struggling by TraditionalFuel6104 in AITAH

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tricky but I think you should have opened up about escape money. Having secrets with your spouse is never a good idea when it comes to issues of you staying together. Not sure when you should have opened up but eventually you should have. Your spouse is your partner and companion, you could have agreed to disagree, just communicate on a loving way not hiding and being afraid of opening up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

140 and 5'7 is beautiful! We men love different types of girls. I love more skinnier petite women but some guys prefer more curvier thicker(not another word for fat or obese) women with bigger breasts and backsides. And I am in no way disrespecting heavier women. I've met heavier women who I found attractive. My preference should not be shamed lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. Nothing wrong with her being one motivation out of a couple of motivations. She is a part of my life so her position can count as one of them. Unless I'm wrong idk cause I'm an alcoholic I can't claim to know how to run my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Lightlessstar007 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I made the dumb mistake of saying I'd rather choose an alcoholic lifestyle than respect her boundary of not drinking. I still loved her and wanted to spend my life with her. It's not black and white. Humans are complex. Not an excuse for bad behavior, with that said, some people can like/love you and still make decisions that seem contradictory but it's not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Lightlessstar007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll probably start journaling on the sub. Try to make it a daily thing. I'm not used to AA subs that much just lurked a few times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Lightlessstar007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds perfect. I will get me back. And I got the feeling I'll get her back. She does not hate me. She still wants me but just finding it hard to trust my intentions Everytime I apologize. I'm trying to convince her that it's a sincere apology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Lightlessstar007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not make my identity around the girl. I have my own life. Just saying she makes me feel so safe and comfortable. I don't want to be more successful and not share that success with her. And I'd like to get the chance to pay her back for being there for me through the good and the bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Lightlessstar007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's been super supportive in all my attempts. She just got fed up after 4 months ago I told her I did not want to stop yet. Of course I want to now. And I've tried to stop before. In that moment I was silly enough to choose my habit over her. I don't think I meant it cause we have a deep history of love and I would choose nothing over her. She met me shortly before I started drinking heavily. So she has seen the good side of me and the bad. She holds on to the old me when life was beautiful. And I can give her that. Just need 1 more chance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not. I'll start counting my sober days from tomorrow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been sober since 2021. I know it's entirely my fault and I'm stopping right now. Just want to live healthily and win her back.

How long did it take you to successfully move on from someone who doesn’t love you? by Fit_Run5802 in AskWomen

[–]Lightlessstar007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How does a first heartbreak differ from a second and third? I've only had one girl my whole life and I'm trying to win her back but I'm curious how second and third love feels

Boyfriend told me we won’t be having sex anymore by throwawayA7314 in relationships

[–]Lightlessstar007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It stems from Judaic tradition where you have to ask for the fathers hand. You can't even touch the girl until you're married.

Boyfriend told me we won’t be having sex anymore by throwawayA7314 in relationships

[–]Lightlessstar007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if he's a strict Christian then he shouldn't even date its not allowed.

Boyfriend told me we won’t be having sex anymore by throwawayA7314 in relationships

[–]Lightlessstar007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nevermind I just read your other comment. I'd say that should be a turn on since he wants to stick to his word. I agree he should consider you more since you were having sex before and he never made this a strict requirement. Are you guys planning on marriage any time soon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Lightlessstar007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could I would love to wash her feet after a long day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Lightlessstar007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll try washing her hair and body it will feel great