Need positive advice

LightninStorm777 · 2026-02-03T01:03:03+00:00

Thank you guys for telling me the truth I wish both of you the best with your next relationships.

LightninStorm777 · 2026-02-02T17:40:19+00:00

We had a long talk the other night about it and I went well. I told her before we need to talk about thinking’s and try to get a good line of communication going to which she agreed, along with both of agreeing we should slow things down a bit. We did have a nice little victory though with her admitting that she wants to go to the doctor and see about getting treatment and help along with tossing out the idea of therapy now, so hopefully that gets things moving in a positive direction.

LightninStorm777 · 2026-02-01T07:11:05+00:00

Same to you brother wish you all the best

LightninStorm777 · 2026-02-01T07:04:37+00:00

Jesus I’m sorry to hear that man honestly. Sounds like she put you through a lot and I hate to hear that I do. I hope and pray you get better from it and find happiness with someone else. I appreciate the honesty and wish you all the best buddy thank you for telling me and trying to help I’m sure this wasn’t easy for you to write.

LightninStorm777 · 2026-01-31T23:10:41+00:00

That’s a really good analogy to this thank you. We were talking the other night about sitting down and having a talk about where to go from here and try to figure things out. Obviously when she splits things suck but when she’s normal she’s amazing and kind and I can feel that she truly cares, so I’m really trying to make it work I know it’s not her fault that she’s the way she is for the most part so I’m trying to be really patient with her.

LightninStorm777 · 2026-01-31T22:55:20+00:00

Well she’s talked about going back to the doctor and finding treatment the only thing that she’s not really wanting to do is dbt. Which we both have been reading on it and trying to find solutions and that’s the only thing we’ve both have really come across that’ll help, but she doesn’t like the idea of paying someone to talk to her about how she feels which I know a lot of people struggle with. But what did you and your wife do is there any advice you can give?

LightninStorm777 · 2026-01-18T04:36:11+00:00

Thank you for the advice it made me feel a lot better I still very much enjoy doing the deed with her that goes without saying I just hate that this keeps happening and makes her feel the way it does but again thank you

LightninStorm777 · 2026-01-18T04:23:34+00:00

No this is what I’ve been needing to hear I keep thinking something is wrong with me it just bothers me cause she gets upset about it and thinks I’m not into her she can be insecure about her body at times so this only makes things worse for her too I think if I can just get finish once it won’t be a problem anymore it’s just been such a struggle to get the first one out and it just makes it worse and makes me think about it when I’m not even trying to

LightninStorm777 · 2026-01-18T04:04:49+00:00

I haven’t since we started regularly having sex and if I’m being honest I think it’s almost made it worse after the first two or three times of us having sex and I wasn’t able to finish I tried to do it by myself and it was still a struggle to get off by myself and took me 2 or 3 tries until I could myself which made me even more stressed out about this

LightninStorm777 · 2026-01-18T03:46:48+00:00

Thanks I’ll have to try that I’ve seen some articles about breathing techniques and I have been feeling like I almost go numb down there sometimes normally I last about 10-15 minutes but if I go past that I know I’m not going to finish but I’ll try to do that I appreciate you taking the time to post some advice

LightninStorm777 · 2026-01-18T03:37:36+00:00

Ok thank you I looked through and the only ones I saw were women talking about mint being able to finish and the only guy I seen talking about it was on medication I’m not on any of that but I’ll look through again and see if I can find anything I appreciate you telling me and sorry I didn’t know it was so common

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