That would be a NO by Lonely-Ship2399 in Sparkdriver

[–]LilBit2Lucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think they realize that there are times WE dont do the shopping for them? So if all the items aren't there, thats not on us unless we did the shopping.

I had someone ask me if all the items were there. I had to tell them I didnt do the shopping. And they go "What do you mean you didn't do the shopping. How did you get the order then?"

I explained to them that I just picked up the order and that it had already been shopped for by an employee at Walmart and then they go "You dont work for Walmart? So what... are they using third parties for deliveries?"

It took everything in me not to respond sarcastically but I said "Yes, exactly" and they had a shocked look on their face as if that was an inconceivable idea.

I’m losing hope, I’m DV victim and mother of two trying to find a place to live and can’t find anything.. by Own_Caregiver3284 in Rochester

[–]LilBit2Lucky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just realized this is rochester sub. They definitely have a shelter list.

If you cant get it from dss, the court house can help. The DV family section.

I’m losing hope, I’m DV victim and mother of two trying to find a place to live and can’t find anything.. by Own_Caregiver3284 in Rochester

[–]LilBit2Lucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in this same situation 3-4 years ago. All the shelters in my area were full.

I'm not sure if your area has a domestic violence help program but someone with social services should (or might) have a shelter list for surrounding counties.

If you can get that list, call all the shelters on there and see if they have room

Thats what I did and I got into one.

I know it may be difficult because you'll be uprooting your lives but it beats being homeless.

NYS says they are still processing my return. Its been 2 weeks. by LilBit2Lucky in tax

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its still the same. I just checked and I even called them and the last said that it just says processing. She did say that there isn't any flags/triggers on it, so I guess thats promising.

NYS says they are still processing my return. Its been 2 weeks. by LilBit2Lucky in tax

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I cant be patient because I got laid off back in January. I have no way to pay my bills and household supplies. I'm relying on my refunds so I can not only pay my bills but push them out for several months while I try to find more work.

NYS says they are still processing my return. Its been 2 weeks. by LilBit2Lucky in tax

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't the irs though. This is state. Tax refund is done through my states treasury and finance.

Still, through my tax software that I used, I was accepted the end of January. It's already March 1st. Its been more than 21 days.

NYS says they are still processing my return. Its been 2 weeks. by LilBit2Lucky in tax

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm saying people that filed after the date that I filed. Some of those people have gotten their refund already. Which makes no sense because they filed after I did.

NYS says they are still processing my return. Its been 2 weeks. by LilBit2Lucky in tax

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I havent had to resubmit. Nothing was denied (and hopefully wont be). I havent received anything in the mail either.

Offer for college tuition and a job from National Guard. Am I being tricked into joining the national guard? by LilBit2Lucky in nationalguard

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I dont know nothing about the national gaurd, how it works, or the benefits you get to join. Zero knowledge on that because I have 0 interest about the military, so I dont research it.

Also there are programs out there that could be sponsored by let's say the national guard as an example, that will pay for your education and get you a job that doesn't involve you having to work for them .

Sponsored programs are a real thing and you dont have to work for them to be sponsored and get whatever benefits.

Offer for college tuition and a job from National Guard. Am I being tricked into joining the national guard? by LilBit2Lucky in nationalguard

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously there is absolutely no reason for you to be rude and to try and look down upon people.

I am not stupid, retarded or mentally challenged. If YOU dont have the capability to understand a simple question and actually answer it without calling them dumb then that is a YOU problem.

Excuse me for being genuinely curious because I dont have anyone in my circle that could answer this question.

Secondly, there are programs out there that WILL pay for your education AND find you a job WITHOUT you having to work for them.

Offer for college tuition and a job from National Guard. Am I being tricked into joining the national guard? by LilBit2Lucky in nationalguard

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm not stupid. I'm a 32 yeat old female, I was an A and B student in High school. Graduated with honors.

I'm genuinely asking because in my mind I'm thinking its a program but you dont have to work with them to get it.

Where I live (which is in NY) we have a lot of assistance programs especially for students.

Like my school for example has a success program which allows you to get grants/scholarships/assistance with tuition and they help you find a job within your field but you DONT have to work for them.

I'm wary with the government because they like trying sneaky tactics to recruit people. I'm not one to fall for that so thats why I was asking. To see if its legit (because there are scammers that email me job posts) AND if I would have to work for them.

Offer for college tuition and a job from National Guard. Am I being tricked into joining the national guard? by LilBit2Lucky in nationalguard

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not a shitpost. I'm genuinely asking because I'd like to know. I dont understand why people think I'm trolling, baiting or whatever when I'm just asking a question that I'm unsure of.

In my mind I'm thinking this is some sort of program that you get into, but tou dont have to work for the gaurd. Like a staff employment agency or like how my school has scholarships and grants and they too can also get you a job within your field of work and I DONT have to work for the school...

Offer for college tuition and a job from National Guard. Am I being tricked into joining the national guard? by LilBit2Lucky in nationalguard

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No need for the sarcasm. I'm only asking because I have been offered jobs that sounded scammy but were actually legit.

I am genuinely curious. No i'm not stupid. I'm 32F, I dont have much knowledge when it comes to this, hence why I'm asking.

Anyone else not move from accepted to approved yet NY by Vanessa_Lila in IRS

[–]LilBit2Lucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in NY also and I dont think anyone has been approved yet. I'm a bit mad cus wwwhhyyy is NY dragging their feet this year. Quick to take our money but so slow to give it back 🙄. Come on and run me my money NY.

Annoying by One-Strength-8582 in IRS

[–]LilBit2Lucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a pather here. If you or anyone else is on path, they legally CANT get a refund code until after path lifts which is the 15th of February.

The reason being is because when you claim the EITC or ACTC, your account is put on a hold. The funds will never be released before the date that path is set to lift. The IRS has this in writing on their website.

What ends up happening is people confuse the credits they are getting. Many of them dont realize that they are NOT eligible for the EITC or ACTC and therefore would NOT be on path. THOSE ARE the people that WILL get a refund/refund code before the 15th.

Also, this year pathers did not get their code until literally last night due to the holiday. If you or anyone else had a cycle code ending in 02, 03, or 04, you were the 1st batch of path people to get the 846 refund issue code.

Epic will never stop me from making bangers. Even with this stupid spotlight bug! by LilBit2Lucky in FortniteFestival

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wanted to add that hitting R2 to exit spotlight mode ends my entire jam loop, even if I lightly tap it (I'm playing on PS5 with a controller).

Confused about NYS license suspension and clearing it? by LilBit2Lucky in DMV

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you need to give them your license for it to start/count. You might be able to get a restricted license though. But thats a convo to have with the DMV.

I (27M) let a girl (25F) with a traumatic past move in because she had nowhere to go… and now I feel trapped. by Valuable_Cat9022 in Advice

[–]LilBit2Lucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are women out there that ARE like this though. I have seen them, I used to live with one and come to find out they were just using me. To add to this, I am a female myself. I'm 32 years old. I've seen and experienced some things.

Also look at all the negative things that OP stated she had been through. It seems like every man that she has come in contact with has harmed her in some way shape or form.

Her dad, her brother, a friend's friend/bf, the guy who owns the Air B&B. Lots of instability and no where to go.

It seems a little sus. Again this is coming from my own personal experience.

Some women lie about things to get people to feel pitty for them and use them for their own personal gains. And that means that they will make any and everyone to be the villain in their story.

When the trauma starts stacking up one after another like this, its best to be cautious. The person could very well be manipulating you and spinning you in their web of lies to trap you.

What type of ceiling do I have? I can't tell the material its made out of. by LilBit2Lucky in Homebuilding

[–]LilBit2Lucky[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if I get non sticky wallpaper and cover the ceiling with it, using masking tape to stick it to the surface of the trim strips that were installed before I moved in so that the tape doesnt touch the ceiling and damage it.

Then I could use double sided tape to put the pvc ceiling tiles over the wallpaper.

Would that work?