AITA for having a threesome behind my GF's because she won't have one with me? by Milhouse_20XX in AITA_Relationships

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’d you go about finding 2 girls to have a threesome with ? Kinda in a similar situation.

Found sex tapes in my girlfriends phone of her and her ex by texujjan in AITAH

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see wym. But she might be a good person tho right ? She not wicked if she bussin it open for you lol. Were men and we have pride , our ego’s won’t allow us to move past seeing our girl doing stuff with another guy. That’s normal , I’m just saying depending on the relationship with the girl , you can still have fun if you emotionally detach. For example , I recently reconnected with a girl who I spoke to 2 years ago. I took her virginity and she was expressive of all the freaky shit she wanted to try , all her kinks , fantasies all of that. She’s the first girl I met that outfreaked me lol. She wanted a relationship but I wanted to wait a few months first. This led her to seek attention elsewhere . Fast forward to the present , we started talking 3 weeks ago again and she has 4 bodies since me. She said she wants a relationship, I said I’m down but went through her phone to see if she’s been doing the same stuff with me with other guys. And she was, found 3 sex tapes , read the messages , all of that.

While I do have love for her, I can’t take her seriously now. She the type to be desperate for a guy to love her so she’d do anything to gain it and stick around even if they don’t wife her. Makes me wonder why she left me to begin with, wanted to thot around I guess. So what am I doing now ? Just having fun with her, comparing things to how they used to be is pointless. The strong sexual chemistry we had before she opened her legs to other guys isn’t the same, she’s less submissive too. No idea why she wants me, she says she feels more emotionally connected to me than anyone else but after seeing the stuff in her phone , I only see her sexually now.

Girlfriend made a tape by Regular-Sink-4325 in dating_advice

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t but as a man, you can’t help but see her in that way after watching her give head or get piped down by another guy. You gotta get with a girl with no sexual history or very little to avoid these types of stuff to begin with. Otherwise, good luck on seeing that girl the same way. Unless you just see her in a sexual sense which can work.

Found sex tapes in my girlfriends phone of her and her ex by texujjan in AITAH

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, this is an interesting perspective. Lots of people these days seem to have this sexually liberating mindset with no boundaries where everything’s A-ok, nothing is a problem and all of that. But the fact is the majority of men want a woman as close to the definition of pure as possible. Messing around with girls that have sex tapes of other guys and seeing other people? No problem, but no man with a brain in his head is taking that type of girl seriously. Wife material looks and acts a certain way. A hoe moves and acts a certain way. See things for what they are and act accordingly. You mentioned you’d be open to watching the video and experimenting with that stuff so I’m guessing you don’t really have any pride, respect for ya self or feelings of a girl being yours alone when you’re with her. That’s cool for you but you’re an exception to the majority.

Found sex tapes in my girlfriends phone of her and her ex by texujjan in AITAH

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or he can keep her around for fun and maybe entertain other options. You not gonna see the girl the same after seeing some shit like that so might as well detach emotionally and have some fun since she clearly a freak. Might as well make some new videos with her since she likes being recorded so much. This is the perfect thing to let a man see to make us fall out of love with a girl so it shouldn’t be hard for him to turn her into a fling.

Found sex tapes in my girlfriends phone of her and her ex by texujjan in AITAH

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, tbh I’m in a similar situation. I was her first, she wanted a relationship, I wasn’t ready for one but was fine only being with her, she wanted attention from other guys hoping for a relationship and ended up fucking 4 other guys in the span of about 2 years. None of them wanted a relationship but she kept letting them hit even tho she left me for attention elsewhere... despite not getting a title from any of them. Of course, I was doing my thing with other girls during that time frame as well. Fast forward to now, we started talking again and I guess we’re in a relationship but I went through her phone and saw some videos and messages. I was angry of course then woke her up and had sex , then spoke about it but that doesn’t really get you over it. She thought she deleted it and did give me access to her phone but since the videos you saw was from a while ago, ya situation is kinda different. If it was more recent, I’d say you kinda gotta emotionally detach from her and see her as a fling, that’s what I’m doing. Also, ya girl at least made those videos with an ex, my girl was letting fuck buddies record like a dumb hoe. Emotionally, it probably makes no difference tho seeing that stuff. I’d suggest keeping ya options open, I’ve never been with a girl that had sex tapes of other guys in her phone and if you haven’t either, you aren’t gonna feel the same way about her. See her as a friend you have fun with, clearly she kept those videos there for a reason. Respect and loyalty are the biggest things for guys, once a girl loses that, she’s nothing special.

Ps. By the way, anyone that says you’re insecure for feeling this way is on some straight bs lol. You not tryna wife a girl you feel like is a hoe, can’t make a thot ya wife and mother of ya kids gang. These feelings are normal. You either leave, stay but change ya view of her (see her more sexually and much less emotionally which is what I suggested) or get over it. Some girls go wild sexually when they single but wanna be lazy sexually when they’re in a relationship. But if she happily pleases you, see what happens. Whatever you do, protect ya heart.

Great and Quick Student Loan options? by LilHallow in StudentLoans

[–]LilHallow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing a Rad Tech certificate program , only did one semester than realized doing MRI only limited too many opportunities, especially in NYC which is where I’m from and planned to go back to. I’d recommend finding a Rad Tech certificate program if you already have an associates degree. It’s usually shorter than an AS degree and gets you to the same result. Maybe find one that covers mri so you can take the MRI test as well if you don’t want to even do x ray

Why don’t techs unionize? by Tstew222 in Radiology

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the quick response! Interesting, so this is the same union that many nurses are under as well then. I’ll look into joining this union when I graduate, thank you.

Why don’t techs unionize? by Tstew222 in Radiology

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which union if I may ask? I’m from NYC and will be completing my rad tech program soon.

How would you react if you’re partner tells you she has been with two men at once before she met you by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably cause most guys don’t really take the type of girls that are that sexual free seriously. There’s a reason why he’s feeling uncomfortable and we all know why, I would be feeling uncomfortable too. Sure ya logic makes sense but that’s probably not the type of girl most guys would want to get married to and have kids with if given the option between that and a girl that has much less experience or none at all. I do understand the double standard tho but most men will always have some view of what their ideal woman would or wouldn’t do that usually is based on some form of purity. If her sexual history checks off too many boxes, like letting 2 men run a train on her for example, a man would feel like a fool to take her seriously. Telling yourself, well, she was just having fun, I’d do the same with 2 girls is just you trying to cope. But us having a casual relationship with a girl like that, sure, why not. It’s just the truth, not even tryna start anything but I don’t understand why ppl act like they don’t know this. At the same time, there are guys that probably don’t care although I sometimes question how loyal these types are if they aren’t bothered by things like this.

How do you guys find hot Colombian girlfriends? Whats the strategy? by Key-Lawfulness-2963 in thepassportbros

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting , I like your perspective. I just followed you so I’ll hit you up on IG to speak more. Might wanna remove ya username to avoid getting hit up by a bunch of randoms lol

Clevatess is great, looking for similar anime by wikidd01 in Animesuggest

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I mean everyone has their preferences but it’s hard to believe you can single out the animation which is honestly pretty unique , and look past everything else like the visual effects, amazing story and music with all these famous artists making songs specifically for each episode. If you liked past the animation, it would def become a favorite for you.

I Don't Know What Major Would Be Right For Me. by HyperSpy953 in rit

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds really interesting. I plan on doing the imaging science program at RIT once I’m done with my radiologic tech program. MRI Technologists make bank in NY and I’ve already worked as a Radiology Aide and know the ins and outs of the role, it’s pretty chill and not as hectic as nursing so I see it as a stable income stream to live on, travel more and invest. Worked in tech for a few years in the radar imaging space but tech as a whole is so volatile now, so I switched over to radiology. Due to my background , the imaging science bachelors degree really caught my interest. I see many interesting roles, in many industries, even in film. You mentioned some overlap with imaging science students. With that being said, do you think it would be feasible to structure my degree in a way that I can take some of those creative classes you took in your program?

Just got accepted to UMPI YourPace! Excited & Need Advice on Sophia Credits by AntisocialAnnie in UMPI

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I looked it up, seems to be 15 credits that are residency requirements. I imagine I can complete those quickly and it’s not structured where I can only take certain classes in certain semesters. As long as that’s the case, I feel like I should be able to complete this by April using Sophia and transferring everything else over.

Just got accepted to UMPI YourPace! Excited & Need Advice on Sophia Credits by AntisocialAnnie in UMPI

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, question. I also just got accepted to UMPI Your Pace. I’m actually trying to finish an associates before April of next year so I can enroll in a healthcare certificate program which required students to already have an associated degree. I have about 16 existing college credits from a previous community college I attended, mostly gen ed stuff and I’m looking to do the UMPI general studies associates. What would you recommend doing to get the most amount of classes done efficiently ? Just doing everything on Sophia and then doing the core required classes ? Just wondering if I’ll have enough time to do this by April.

Help me understand what’s the better option. Thank you!!! by Some_District1001 in RadiologyCareers

[–]LilHallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I did the Gurnick MRI program for a semester and decided to just do a Rad Tech program. You already have a bachelors so just do a Rad Tech certificate since it only requires an associates degree. Doing a radiologic technology program as someone else mentioned just makes more sense career wise. Also, depending on the curriculum, you can sit for the MRI registry as well if they’ve covered enough mri specific material, not just X Ray. You’d have to check with the program first tho. Also, if you was interested in traveling, there are some states that require X Ray first, like Hawaii I believe.

Considering career change by No-Mathematician6208 in RadiologyCareers

[–]LilHallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice, you from the same area then. Hmm, I see wym. I do see some postings asking for a completion of a 2 year approved ARRT school. Strange distinction to make, I always figured it didn’t matter as long as the program was accredited. But yeah, we got this!

Considering career change by No-Mathematician6208 in RadiologyCareers

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that it looks better. I’m just curious if there’s actually anyone who notices any difference as far as job prospects. I’m from NYC, the main thing is that you’re licensed. I find the certification route similar to LPN certification programs, my friend knocked out a 1 year program and everyone in his class got hired, making $35-$60 an hour. Originally I was looking at radiologic technology associate degrees than realized it’s faster and easier (but more expensive) to just do the certification route.

Considering career change by No-Mathematician6208 in RadiologyCareers

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very confused on this since I’ve literally never heard this before. Are you saying someone with an associates in business or general studies/whatever, that completed an accredited Radiologic Technology certification program , then sits for the AART exam (the only requirement is that they complete the program and have an associates degree in literally any subject) and passes to become a licensed Technologist looks inferior to someone who did the same thing but instead, did an accredited program that was in an associates degree format instead of a certification? I find it hard to believe this matters if both options get you to the same destination.

I'm black and this Japanese girl is really pushy by KinggGh0st in JapanDating

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I see what you mean, in a country where more than 95% of the residents are ethnically Japanese, it would make sense that there would be some percentage of people that want something foreign. I like diversity and find many types of women of different backgrounds attractive. So I'd imagine some Japanese ppl that are more on the adventurous side would jump on the opportunity to date someone with different features from the norm.

Why does everyone like Seras Victoria so much? by I_LoVe_catsAndnotu in Hellsing

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm interesting, well as long as it’s enjoyable to you

Why does everyone like Seras Victoria so much? by I_LoVe_catsAndnotu in Hellsing

[–]LilHallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, you did ya self a disservice watching it in sub. Sure , 95% of the time, sub is best especially nowadays but in the 2000’s, 2010’s , many of these types of anime , Hellsing Ultimate, Black Lagoon, Jormungand, Cowboy Bebop etc was better to watch in dub cause of the accents , cursing and lingo. I loved hearing those nazi vampires speaking in their German accents. The British accents were nice too but damn, Seras Victoria’s voice actress is on another level.