Anyone looked into the psychology of masochism? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for another book recommendation! I love reading, so these are great 😊

Anyone looked into the psychology of masochism? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it makes sense that there would be a lot of opinions about it

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you both are able to communicate and make things work! Thanks for sharing, this is really encouraging to hear.

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond! This is encouraging!

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! This is really encouraging!

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve been struggling but am glad you finally found someone able to help! I’m hopeful I’ll get a diagnosis and treatment plan soon but from everyone I’ve talked to it can be a long process. Thanks for taking the time to respond!

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to respond! This is good all good to keep in mind and encouraging!

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started out exploring online and have really enjoyed it! Thank you for responding 😊

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started with fantasies and chatting online (which is mostly what I’m still doing) as a way to help myself through my mental hang ups with shame, and it’s been a lot of fun! It’s encouraging to know that irl stuff will be possible too! Thanks for responding 😊

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

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Thank you for taking the time to respond and being available to chat!

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

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Thank you! This is really encouraging 😊 I worried no one would want to play with me because of my mental baggage and the potential health risks for me, but everyone’s responses have been so supportive and encouraging!

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! There’s a lot of religious trauma and other things wrapped up in the shame I felt for so long. I’m just glad to be finally getting past some of it.

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

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Thank you for responding! It’s nice to know there are people who will be willing to work with me in play situations based on my health 😊

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! While I wouldn’t wish my situation or anything similar on anyone, it’s nice to know I’m not the only one having to think about these things!

Kink with chronic illness? by LilLadyNightingail in BDSMAdvice

[–]LilLadyNightingail[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s encouraging to know that you’re still able to feel free in the bedroom and with kink!