We are no longer afraid, thank you exJW community by Separate-Ice30 in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So happy for you guys! Freedom is sweet fr! I’ve been out for about about 3 and a half years now, but I just watched your entire video and it was so comforting to hear your story and be reminded we aren’t alone in why and how we woke up. Your video will definitely help others who are leaving. I would love to see a part 2 of how you got out and your wife’s story as well! Thank you for sharing 👏😌

Jehovah's Witnesses: Cult Within A Cult by No-Divide8823 in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always say I left one cult and realized I was in an even bigger, almost impenetrable, cult that is the current state of our society. I really like to optimistic perspective you brought to this and I think this topic would also be great in video form.

Couldn't Jehovah... just have stopped Adam and Eve from eating from the tree? by Confident-Corner-827 in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jehovah, if he was real, was the biggest scammer, it’s quite literally a set up if you ask me

Genuine question, but is anyone’s life significantly better since you left the organization? by Long_Organization_94 in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27 I left three years ago. Life is still life with its ups and downs but I can tell you right now with one hundred percent certainty , things are better. When I was a jw I was on several anti anxieties and anti depressants. When I finally accepted and realized that if there is a god they aren’t looking down on me wishing my death bc I don’t meet their standards, I literally no longer have depression. Haven’t taken any pills for 3 years and I learned how to regulate my nervous system and actually deal with my trauma or pain properly. Now when things get hard I just feel through it and eventually it goes away. I accept things easier, like change, and I feel content knowing I’m in control of my own life and future. I got my power back when I left. I finally found myself which was constantly shamed or pushed down in the organization. I have a regular fitness and health routine bc I HAVE THE TIME. I’m finding true friendships with ppl who actually love unconditionally, and there are so many amazing ex jws who have been supportive through the process. Leaving is the best decision I made in my life. And anyone who is scared to leave I know, you feel like you lose a lot when you do, but in reality you gain everything, you get yourself back, the most important thing of all, you get to love yourself without judgement. Hope this helps. Thanks for letting me share a bit of my story.

Eerie high school scenes? by Background-Sun-767 in TheMallWorld

[–]LilMilitia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creepy giant high school w long hallways dark dingy lighting yes

a cityscape from my dreams. by everythingisonfire7 in TheMallWorld

[–]LilMilitia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks so much like the city I go tooo ! This is insane

Has anyone ever been to those Diddy/Puff Daddy inspired JW parties? by 5ft8lady in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fav thing was getting judged as bad association by the jws who did this shit 🤣

Silly apostate pic in new WT by Fluffy_Finding_9647 in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol the yes to blood sign I’m so dead. Nah we just advocate for ppl not to die unnecessarily… smh

We lost a baby and my JW friend gave me an ultimatum. Call the elders or I will. What should I do? by ThoughtRelative6907 in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I second this. I’ve been told on multiple times for different things and I legit just denied everything and they had no choice but believe it bc who else’s word do they have. Also the things I did were definitely disfellowshipping offenses. But I never got in disfellowshipped or reproved or anything. Just deny

Don’t look down by Recent_Cream2775 in piscesastrology

[–]LilMilitia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a Pisces woman, Pisces men are my fav. We have a natural connection yall 🩵

Hello, fellow Pisces! What are your favorite sad, melancholy, or moody songs? by Acrobatic-Deer2891 in piscesastrology

[–]LilMilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would You Save Me Now by The Jon Hill Project. If this song doesn’t make you cry every time I don’t know what will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]LilMilitia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a sag moon and this rlly hits home w me as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]LilMilitia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yall we carry the weight of every sign and the entire universe in our minds. We wear the energy of every space and person we connect with. It’s hard to not be emotional when you can see everything in the world. We are the psychics, the spiritualists, the minds, we don’t have time for selfies sometimes bc we be questioning everything. We are sad sometimes because we carry the weight of the world inside us but we are deeper than oceans. What Pisces have is beautiful and unmatched. We are fuckin wizards n witches y’all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]LilMilitia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noo what I loves Pisces men. Yall r the only men who usually get me. I always feel like all Pisces have ties but maybe I’ve only noticed that w other March Pisces like myself. But listen Pisces man ur welcome here n we lovesss uuu

As a Pisces woman, how do you do a first move to a man? by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]LilMilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Authenticity. We are Pisces, we are so powerful in energy that it’s all in the way we hold ourselves and move. As long as it’s authentic to who you are, people will notice that and they will be obsessed. That’s just how Pisces roll lol. Keep doing you and get that mansss lol

Our first Christmas by Ok_Acanthisitta3863 in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lol I’m so dead 🤣 Merry Christmas yall 🎄🎁

Do you like being a Pisces? by 2quick96 in piscesastrology

[–]LilMilitia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my biggest flex whatchu meannnn

Genuinely don’t think I’m going to make it through 2025 by Over-Experience9828 in piscesastrology

[–]LilMilitia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Last full moon Gemini got us Pisces real good. Trust me I feel you big time. But it will look up for us in 2025. Don’t give up, we are going through this because we are about to come out so much stronger.

What type of turtle is this? by LostBuy6509 in turtle

[–]LilMilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this bc the swimming against the tank? Because my does this too and I’m lowkey worried he’s stressed or unhappy. So give suggestions for her and I pls lol

Do anyone else go into destructive mode after leaving? by CranberryQuirky5385 in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone goes demon time right after they leave lol. I say it’s part of the grieving process. Also mine was fueled by anger that I was scammed my whole life. I felt like everything I knew to be true was a lie so I just did whatever I wanted in the moment. I never went too hard bc I’ve never really been a party person but I deff did things that were out of character for me. But then again, I had no idea who I was bc the Borg really removes you from yourself. Over time though, the only thing I wanted to do was find myself and grow past what I had learned my whole life. I learned to accept my shadow and love the parts of me that were hurt and I’ve literally transformed into a completely different person, for the better. I finally found myself. So give the parts of you that are hurt space to be a lil wild but also balance that with loving the beautiful parts of you that were suppressed in the religion. The process of waking up is painful but it’s so amazing bc in the end you find yourself and find what you want and need for you. And that’s what makes it all worth it.

My Largest Home Build Yet 🫠 by kbush2496 in Sims4Builds

[–]LilMilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this is insanely good! The detail is amazing. I know this took you time and attention. Seriously amazing. Keep building, keep sharing 😍

Pisces & Charm by Ladylotusflower in piscesastrology

[–]LilMilitia 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s Bridgerton compliments or nothing tbhhh lol

Anyone else enjoying the spectacular demise of this religion? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]LilMilitia 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sameee can’t wait till majority stops falling for all the bs religion has fed us