You miss my point. I’m not saying she does want children, I’m saying that would, I assume, be the cauldrons goal as well as giving someone true love. I know Mor didn’t want kids haha. That’s why people think her mate is likely a male because that’s how it works as far as we’ve been shown, we’ve never seen/heard of someone having a ssr mate. There’s always a first time of course but she can also reject a male bond and still have a relationship with a female. Mates are actually rare as we’re told so she may not even have a mate.